Sacrifices in our family

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi:)always television shows so much sacrifices daily.lets come to reality. Any big sacrifice happened in our surroundings.let me start. My cousin lost her father and sister in accident.she married sister husband for her sister kids aged one boy and 3 yr old baby girl that time.now married for 8 years she does not like to have child of her own and seeing sister child as own.she is really a best mom for that kids.that too she is a gold medal student

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Actually nowadays serial becomes most sacrificing one which is actually most of things never happened.in reality we are having better kind of people are present.so only i posted.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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so true.. real life sacrifices are far better to call sacrifices than these TV serials so called sacrifices. they are not even worth call sacrifices. most will be foolishness or mahanta.

your cousin is absolutely fabulous gentle lady. great to hear...really it would have been hard for her to take such a step at tht time.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Your cousin is a strong lady I must say and I agree. Real life sacrifices are much more than what is shown in these serials.
My own cousin lost her mother when she was young and she raised her two siblings and did 3 jobs along with her schooling to help run the house. Come to think of it...kind of like Ankita but she doesn't live in India nor does she have a father like Soham thankfully.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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An uncle on my father's side (2nd cousin) ...his older brother died quite young in a road accident on the road to Darjeeling ...left behind his widow and 3 little kids, 2 boys and 1 girl. So this uncle of ours never got married all his life and he supported his older brother's family all throughout, he educated the kids, established them in life (1 boy is a doctor, 1 is a lawyer) and the girl is married in a good family.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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My family's sacrifice story is of my great grand mother .Her husband died ( a doctor in Afghanistan ) when she was young , in her 20's and had two children .The family she was married n did not believe in education and belived in feudal system ,Her husband was the rebel who went on to become a doctor ...
When he died she was told by his family that they will get her married to someone else in the family and her children will also be raised by the family traditional feudal system ( no education ...just being land lords ) .
Her husband had made her promise him before dying that she will ensure that his children also are educated so this brave woman took her two young children and ran away from home .She literaly crossed fields and villages all on her own in the night and only after 2 days was helped by a friend ..
She started working and raised her two children on her own and made sure that they were well educated .her son went on to become a well known journalist .Every single person of her family ( girls and boys ) are all well educated .
She could have lived an easy and luxurious life if she wanted but she chose not to ...
Whatever we are today is all because of her sacrifices ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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My girl cousin was in love with a guy, my family didn't agree to it so she ran away with him. I'm afghan so elders are quite strict. And this happened about a year back in AFG! Anyways my cousin ran away and my side of family(uncles and the men in the family) were angry and it got quite crazy. Because they wanted my cousin(girl) back and they thought that the guys side forced her so they went and demanded to take her back. But she was pregnant so it was too late, when they went, there was gonna be major conflict so the guys family said we will give you our daughters so you can get her married to your son or something. My side of family said there's either gonna be a big conflict or we get their daughter married to our son. So he brother said yes because he didn't want any major issues so to keep his sister safe and make peace, he married the girl. She's only 10 and my cousin is 20. Poor guy married a girl half his age because he wanted to end the conflict and he wanted his sister to have a safe and happy life. I felt so bad and helpless, I wanted to go and do something but my mom said we can't do anything. That's what I call sacrifice!! And the best part is he hasn't complained once!! He told my aunt that I did it for you, as long as you're happy I'm happy!! He's so cute too. He's like 6'1 and really handsome and such a good guy with big dreams and his life is ruined according to me. The girl has no education cuz the fam is poor. His sister made a mistake and he's paying for it. 😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
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what i will be talk about scarifies...in my surrounding i see so many example...if this is one then i can talk but how i will give so many example...so ...i just give two to three example where i surprised to see
1- my friend's mom dead when his little sister was small and his father married a lady and that lady sacrifices her own m otherness and never become pregnant for her step child and happily accept my friend and his sister ,when she has full capacity to become mother.

2- and second example is a girl in my town who loved madly with a boy but in coincidence she married another boy and after marriage the lover boy comes and after knowing whole truth the girls family also support the girl and wants she should marry her lover but she choosed her husband and stay with him bcz she did not want to dump her marriage where her husband is innocent...

reel life mein hi hota hei ki ladki ko uska lover mil hi jata hei end mein hi sahi...lekin real life mein to ladki ki agar ek bar sadi ho jaye to wo hamesha hamesha ke liye apni pati ki ho ke rah jati hei😭

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