Honesty, Trust and Shekhars !

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brick_red

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Posted: 12 years ago

Whatever be the truth behind Shiv's birth, one thing is sure. Ira was kept in dark. This is in tune with Shekhar family's nature. They have a huge problem in telling truth to family members.

1. Family didn't tell Sanchi about Anandi's past, in the beginning.

2. They did not let their relatives at Udaipur know about Anandi's past

3. Shiv knew about Jagya was back in BH because of his memory loss. He didn't tell his family

4. Anandi wanted to tell the family regarding Urmi Devi's truth. But Shiv didn't let her do that.

5. Nobody bothered to tell Ira about Sanchi's molestation case.

6. Right after Anandi-Shiv marriage, CM had doubts about ANSH love life. She did not tell Ira. If Ira had heard it from CM first, it would have been easier for CM to calm down Ira. But Ira heard it from Sanchi first !

7. Mahi is extra cautious in keeping matters related to Ashima a secret.

8. Sanchi gave bhang to Anandi during holi celebration. Ira did not share it with the family.

9. Keeping up the tradition, Anandi also protects the secrets. She did not tell the family that Sanchi bribed the Pandit. Or Sanchi's conversation with her friends over the phone.

10. Ira and Shiv had doubts about Jagya-Ganga. But they did not share the concern with the family They both individually tried to settle the matter with Jagya.

11. Recently they went to BH to attend J's reception without telling Sanchi. They even lied to her.

Many times, they mean well. They just keep quiet not to hurt others. But is it right? Can trust develop, without honesty? Can confidence in family members develop without trust?

Please share your views.

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Colt.Pixy

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Posted: 12 years ago

heheh

. Mrs Anandi shivraj shekhar has too same habit and that s why she is fit with these fakers

Edited by ZenerDiode - 12 years ago

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libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

Actually about no.6 i would it was rather very personal matter which CM has the manners to kept it b/w husband and wife but Saanchi being ill mannered just spread it like fire and Ira announced it in BH...but rest are good...shekhars do have a habit of hiding stuff that to big ones from each other

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: brick_red
Whatever be the truth behind Shiv's birth, one thing is sure. Ira was kept in dark. This is in tune with Shekhar family's nature. They have a huge problem in telling truth to family members.
1. Family didn't tell Sanchi about Anandi's past, in the beginning.

2. They did not let their relatives at Udaipur know about Anandi's past

3. Shiv knew about Jagya was back in BH because of his memory loss. He didn't tell his family

4. Anandi wanted to tell the family regarding Urmi Devi's truth. But Shiv didn't let her do that.

5. Nobody bothered to tell Ira about Sanchi's molestation case.

6. Right after Anandi-Shiv marriage, CM had doubts about ANSH love life. She did not tell Ira. If Ira had heard it from CM first, it would have been easier for CM to calm down Ira. But Ira heard it from Sanchi first !

7. Mahi is extra cautious in keeping matters related to Ashima a secret.

8. Sanchi gave bhang to Anandi during holi celebration. Ira did not share it with the family.

9. Keeping up the tradition, Anandi also protects the secrets. She did not tell the family that Sanchi bribed the Pandit. Or Sanchi's conversation with her friends over the phone.

10. Ira and Shiv had doubts about Jagya-Ganga. But they did not share the concern with the family They both individually tried to settle the matter with Jagya.

11. Recently they went to BH to attend J's reception without telling Sanchi. They even lied to her.

Many times, they mean well. They just keep quiet not to hurt others. But is it right? Can trust develop, without honesty? Can confidence in family members develop without trust?

Please share your views.

Yes it's really weird that a family in which 3 generations live together, has so many secrets from each other. They are hiding things from each other all the time and worse still sitting together and laughing and carrying on as if nothing has happened. This is not normal. I agree with you that irrespective of their intention, that they have kept quiet so as to not hurt anyone or keep the peace, it cannot be right and moreover it's not healthy because you lose the trust, and once that happens, it's very difficult to regain it. Honesty is the basis of a relationship - without that it is meaningless.

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Posted: 12 years ago

in urmi devi case when shiv himself has no problem with ds word what ds said about shiv then what is use of telling ira about this

in sanchi molestation case shekhars r going to tell truth to ira but before this sunny parents reveal truth

in reception case hiding truth is necessary for benefit for sanchi

in bribe case anandi though did not tell truth to whole shekhar but she told truth to shiv

in holi celebration sanchi gave bhang to anandi so that anandi can say she love jagdeesh and anandi can be humilated

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SPuja

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Posted: 12 years ago

If there is no miss-communications and misunderstandings, how will they drag the serial? So, these incidents were necessary for the creatives. All the families in serials have these issues because these are the staples on which they build their tracks. However, in real life, such an attitude in a family will lead to disaster.