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Posted: 12 years ago
#31
I want to see anandi as a more practical women than giving lectures to people. Deal the issues smartly and not emotionally. Rather than lying to saanchi about the reception shekhars should have told her honestly about the event. When you expect an immatured person to behave like a matured adult then treat her like one and tell her the truth. Anandi should have got that idea and told saanchi herself about the family going to jagan reception.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#32
It was not Anandi who decided that Sanchi should not be knowing about the reception but it is Sanchi's parents and brother who decided it is a good if Sanchi did not know about it.
And it was Anandi who said that Sanchi will get upset if she came to know about it and as usual her husband brushed her concerns saying that Sanchi should know why they did not tell her.It was Shiv who expected Sanchi to understand and show some maturity.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

And why it is always anandi who should always follow the rules? Just
because she is a social worker? Social workers can also make mistakes
like other humans. Shiv was roaming with constipated expressions for
weeks and anandi has a sad face becomes a problem?





But now after realising he was wrong about his sister he apologised to everyone, and when he's trying to be happy and normal with anandi why can't she be casual with him and enjoy his love?
Why is she bringing in sanchi between them again ? Why is he pushing sanchi down their throats?
I seriously want anandi's to enjoy her life with Shiv and stop being a mahaan for a change!!
Why can't cvs show that?
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Posted: 12 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



It is nice to see anandi giving it back to the shekhars in their own coin.

So far they were emotionally blackmailing her for weeks if not months. Let them see the other side of anandi as well.

And why it is always anandi who should always follow the rules? Just because she is a social worker? Social workers can also make mistakes like other humans. Shiv was roaming with constipated expressions for weeks and anandi has a sad face becomes a problem?

True she used the same coin to get what she wanted.
Anandi used the language which they understand.She knew they all are feeling bad for not trusting her so she now she told them that she will be upset if they don't forgive Sanchi.That worked.😆

She tried emotional blackmail in the form of dhamkis to get them together.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

anandi is no mahaan or goddess to be perfect. I like an imperfect anandi more than devi.



@leaves...true...anandi is not perfect...she is not mahaan as well...but then she is not an average normal woman too...😕

she used emotional blackmail to force the family to forgive sanchi...thats fine too...but what were her intentions in doing that ? i would have liked if she had taken forward her initiative of being good to sanchi... she should have refused to go to jagya-ganga marriage celebrations...let shiv represent her...instead taken sanchi to counseling...i know counter argument would be thats not her responsibility ... then why force smething on the family for which they are not yet prepared...ira/shiv are feeling cheated by sanchi...they are humiliated...being used by her esp shiv...what about their pain...who is going to heal it ? shouldn't anandi talk to sanchi as well like she did with the family ?

whatever anandi has done will bring more pain to the family...because sanchi is easily forgiven without much repentance or realizing her faults...anandi of all the poeple knows how manipulative sanchi is...she should'nt have forced her kindness on the family...instead worked with sanchi & shown improvement so that the family themselves come forward n forgive her.

or better still...be good to everyone but just focus on hubby & NGO...sanchi is not her responsibility...like an average normal woman would do.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

Shiv kept constipated expressions was on a serious issue that his sister engagement broke and jagya broke his trust marrying Ganga in a hurry. Anandi has a sad face for every small issue of many person in the family. I still remember during her initial entry into KB after the transfer she constantly used to complain to shiv why his sister does not like her. Shiv even told her give saanchi time to know her and things will fall in place. But anandi never gave space to anandi but rather shamelessly tired to talk to saanchi when clearly saanchi told anandi to buzz off. Why is it so hard for anandi to accept that not everyone likes her.😲



Shiv didn't give any constipated expressions...i think he depicted fabulously the expressions of a deeply upset angry brother & a frustrated husband 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#37
What will Anandi do at that time? Next day is bhai dhooj. I understand Sanchi is totally wrong but keeping her away from this function is not at all right. She already said that family me rehke bhi sabse akele rehna kitna mushkil hota hai. Who knows that better than her, courtesy whole Shekhar family.
So she wanted them not to treat like. Definitely next step will also be taken which will be better for Sanchi. Anandi is good . She thinks Sanchi learnt a lesson. But Sanchi is Sanchi she will break the trust and lets see the outcome with popcorn
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Posted: 12 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: hisusmita

What will Anandi do at that time? Next day is bhai dhooj. I understand Sanchi is totally wrong but keeping her away from this function is not at all right. She already said that family me rehke bhi sabse akele rehna kitna mushkil hota hai. Who knows that better than her, courtesy whole Shekhar family.

So she wanted them not to treat like. Definitely next step will also be taken which will be better for Sanchi. Anandi is good . She thinks Sanchi learnt a lesson. But Sanchi is Sanchi she will break the trust and lets see the outcome with popcorn



you are right Sush...but i am pained when thinking what will shiv & ira undergo after sanchi's deplorable behavior
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Posted: 12 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky



you are right Sush...but i am pained when thinking what will shiv & ira undergo after sanchi's deplorable behavior


Ira may think of ending her own life.

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