Mangal sutra - Page 7

Originally posted by: PadBear

Geeth, I'm a Sandy fan more than Suraj fan. That's why I feel that goading Sandy into some action is more likely to yield results than expecting Suraj to do anything. He has worshipped Bhabo to the point where B has come between and is now holding hands with Sandy (figuratively).

Originally posted by: PadBear

yes, so first action from Sandy, then reaction from Suraj. ... after that, we won't even remember who Bhabo is.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@Ramadi first of all thank you for the wonderful word to word expalanation of the mantra. I know the general meaning , but not the meaning of entire words 😃 @ Geeth coming to you. Sooraj is a person who is trying to balance his relationship with his mom and wife. He needs both their happiness and trying everything as he understands it to fulfill both. He is duty bound you can say. More than love it is duty that drives him. I have to do X-things to my parents as a son, X-things to my siblings as a brother, X-things to my wife as a husband. He is juggling n number of balls and cannot afford even one of it falls.

Now coming to Bhabo and Sandhya. Bhabo knows she cannot confront Sooraj, Sooraj has a way of doing things the way he wants. But Bhabo can control Sandhya. Sandhya's control is in Bhabo's hand because Sandhya's linear thinking assumes Sooraj's happiness is in the happiness of the family. She never thinks her happiness is also needed for him to be truly happy. Sooraj has told her this multiple times, but Bhabo does EA in one form or other and she forgets that. So she runs behind Bhabo to please her so that Sooraj is happy. She never discusses with him about Bhabo and Bhabo's fear of IPS or whatever. She just reacts to Bhabo, which make Sooraj react. And yes Sooraj has reacted. First as a lover, then a friend, then indeed a husband during SBC. But that husband thing has not come forcefully yet. For that to come he need to realize it is those marriage symbols that stands between her and her dream and decide to take them away.

Once he realizes that he needs to confront her as a husband, not try to send her away as lover the way he did in SV2. Once Sooraj confronts Sandhya as a husband her illusion will break and she will understand the true meaning of marriage. It is not to be Bhabo's bonded labour, but to feel safe and secure in her husband's love which will hold her for any challenge that Bhabo throws at her.

But for this to happen following things like any other track has to happen. Bhabo has to act which she has started. Sandhya has to react in a drastic way. Like the way she broke down after 15 day test , the way she decided to consummate the marriage post tel malish, the way she gave away the 2nd matka post LC. Then Sooraj will react. Once he reacts the victory will be for SURYA.

And to me I always like when Sooraj reacts, because his action is the one that gives the blow to Bhabo's plans 😃