Was Payal a good friend or not? - Page 2

Sanchi is declared a person needing psychiatric help. Where ias Payal will still be her friend.

Telling some thing in confidence! If i tell my friend that i murdered some one, should she keep

Quiet about it or expose me? What is the moral obligation? Let us not sanctify friendship so much

that a friend should be blind to every atrocity of another friend. Any body who is sensible like

Payal will expose her so called friend if it becomes necessary. Are we not blaming Shekhars for

Being blind to their daughter's dishonesty and bad behaviour? Why is a friend any different?

Before befreinding any one it is good to judge that person's character. If Sanchi's character

was known to Payal before, she would not touch her with a 10 foot pole.

People may say, if Payal was straigh forward she would have told her right before. Payal had no

Idea to level Sanchi will sink to take revenge on an innocent person.now she knows and hence

She came forward. Unless a friend is equally a criminal like one self, dont expect loyalty whe you

Are a criminal.

What Sanchi revealed in coffee shop, if it was ordinary gossip Payal should not reveal it. But

Knowing the seriousness of it, it is her moral obligation to reveal. Moral obligation supersedes

Loyalty.

"A man is known by the company he keeps" ?????

Sanchi's view of ethics look totally messed up. She does what she thinks right. She blurts out things unnecessarily and justifies herself saying that she was just telling the truth. (Sanchi shouted that Anandi was a BV and divorcee during function in KB). Same way, Sanchi's friends are also doing what their heart says. A normal person's normal friends would have handled the matter in a different way. But here we are talking about Sanchi and her friend's sensibilities. Initially Payal supported Sanchi. Later when Payal realized that Sanchi is wrong, she just came and told the truth in front of everybody. After all, isn't it the way things work in Sanchi's world?? If you want to let people know any unpleasant facts, just blurt out it in front of everybody with out worrying about the time, place and audience. So taking into account Sanchi's character, looks like, Payal and Sanchi are good friends.

I wonder whether a totally manipulative person will ever have really good long time friends ???