Imtiaz talks about Jab We Met!! Pg 3 - 6th Anniversary

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7 Life Lessons From Jab We Met

Jab We Met

It just occurred to me that over this weekend - October 26th, to be precise - Jab We Met celebrated its six-year anniversary. That sort of makes me feel old, but that's not the point: the point is, in all these six years, no film has been able to topple it off #1 on my favourite romcoms list. At the same time, I feel like calling Jab We Met just a romcom is doing it a disservice, since it's also one of the most intelligently written films of our generation. In general, Jab We Met has become a way of life - not only do I whip out one of the dialogues to use regularly ("main apni favourite hoon" is a daily affair around here), but I also think the movie has a lot to teach. Here are seven lessons I've learned from Jab We Met!

1. LIFE IS UNEXPECTED...

"Zindagi ek rail ki patri hai, ek inch ka bend aur meelo ki doori..."

2. ... BUT IT WILL ALWAYS BE OKAY

It may take a moment for everything to go wrong, but it can take a moment for everything to fix itself, too. You never know what will happen or who you'll run into to turn things around!

3. MAKE YOUR OWN DECISIONS...

"Aagey kya hone wala hai, is pe kisi ka control nahin hai. Toh aise mein main wahi karti hoon jo mera dil kehta hai. Meri life jo bhi hogi, mujhe pata hoga ki meri wajeh se aisi hai. Toh I'll be happy."

4. ... BUT BE READY TO DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES

If things don't go according to plan, be prepared to deal with it - instead of scuttling back home.

5. DON'T UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF CHILDISH MADNESS

Sometimes you need to deal with things like a child in order to get over them, no matter how ridiculous it sounds at first. Just let it out. Better lag raha hai?

6. THE ELDERLY DON'T ALWAYS KNOW EVERYTHING

They think they know it all, but they're not always right. Your job is to smile and nod anyway.

7. IRONY IS EVERYWHERE

I'm imaging one day growing old and teaching my children during an English Literature lesson: "Well, like in Jab We Met, the super shady motel is called Hotel Decent. Get it? That's irony."

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: vssaras

3. MAKE YOUR OWN DECISIONS...

"Aagey kya hone wala hai, is pe kisi ka control nahin hai. Toh aise mein main wahi karti hoon jo mera dil kehta hai. Meri life jo bhi hogi, mujhe pata hoga ki meri wajeh se aisi hai. Toh I'll be happy."

4. ... BUT BE READY TO DEAL WITH THE CONSEQUENCES

If things don't go according to plan, be prepared to deal with it - instead of scuttling back home.

Yeah. Run away from home rather than talking out things sensibly with parents. Then when you find you made a boo-boo and the guy was a rotten egg, then rather than owning up to your parents honestly about your mistake, go and live among strangers in a city where you have no one, while your parents continue to worry for you back home.

I liked JWM but this article is gloryfying some actions in the story wrongly IMO.
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Yeah. Run away from home rather than talking out things sensibly with parents. Then when you find you made a boo-boo and the guy was a rotten egg, then rather than owning up to your parents honestly about your mistake, go and live among strangers in a city where you have no one, while your parents continue to worry for you back home.

I liked JWM but they are gloryfying some actions in the story wrongly IMO.


I think here the writer is speaking in very general terms...that if you go your own way, according to your convictions..then when things go wrong..you should still keep your head high and learn from your mistakes..not lose all belief in yourself..






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Posted: 12 years ago
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JWM is still such a fresh story..an evergreen movie..happy 6th anniversary!!...😳
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Originally posted by: vssaras


I think here the writer is speaking in very general terms...that if you go your own way, according to your convictions..then when things go wrong..you should still keep your head high and learn from your mistakes..not lose all belief in yourself..


I don't know.. to me it seems he is speaking with reference to the story only.. 7 life lessons from JWM, right? Even the gifs are matching with the points he has raised. Unfortunately, all the 'following your heart', 'keeping head held high' etc that he is trying to bring out by these examples actually landed the female lead in trouble. So wrong examples chosen by the writer.

I have nothing against the movie, it was good. But I find this article lame.
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc


I don't know.. to me it seems he is speaking with reference to the story only.. 7 life lessons from JWM, right? Even the gifs are matching with the points he has raised. Unfortunately, all the 'following your heart', 'keeping head held high' etc that was shown in the movie landed the heroine in trouble. So wrong examples chosen by the writer.

I have nothing against the movie, it was good. But I find this article lame.


Even if you fall yaar..still you have to follow your heart..no other way..you can't be someone else..you can only be true to yourself..😳





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Posted: 12 years ago
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Love this movie. Only Shahid film I like.
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Congratulations 🥳

JWM Rocks Forever <3 Best Bollywood Love Story <3
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Posted: 12 years ago
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awww loved this movie <33
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The movie is really a big teaching to me, the character of kareena is the mind that lives on everyone but cannot jump out. The film is really a good one.

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