I feel sad for Shefali!!

Hey guys ok, i know you guys hate Shefali and all and this is kinda related to my other topic about Bhumi not going back to Arjun and Arjun deserving punishment and a new cute guy entering Bhumis life but the main point is and dont bite off my head for saying this but
I FEEL SORRY FOR SHEFALI!!!!
I mean i just saw the Feb videos this one in particular, http://www.badongo.net/vid/47150
and saw a video where Shefali says that "Goenka Parivar ne mera mazzaak bana diya hai" and i feel sad for her - I mean i know she did not trust Arjun and married Yuvraj but that was not such a gr8t mistake that she should have received such bad punishment.

Even she became good for a while and Yuvraj could have won her if he wanted to but he did not and also did not treat her well, for her smallest mistake of holding his hand or something he threw divorce papers at her and used her and her father against Arjun.

Also if not trusting your loved one is such a bi mistake then does Arjun deserve Bhavri now that he did the same to her that Shefali did to him.Ofcourse marrying Yuv was a bit extreme but still she did not deserve such punishment. I know shefali turned evil later but it was for love, for Arjun, thats all she wanted ever, and after what these guys, the Goenkas and Yuv did to her i dont blame her, Look at what Bhumi is doing now that the Goenkas have not trusted her??

As much as i want Ab to get together i wonder is is ok??
First when Shefali mistrusted Arjun she got punished, but it was her fault it were circumstances and now when Arjun did the same thing, again it was not his fault but Shefali creating the circumstances, But if Shefali did not get Arjun, should Arjun get Bhumi???

Shefali i feel most times she deserved what she got, ya sometimes i did feel pity for her.

She ditched Arjun and married Yuv by her own free will, Yuv used her but her decision was her own. She was never faithful to Yuv, she even aborted Yuv's kid. She was always after Arjun.

Once knowing that Arjun is happily married, she still tried to create a rift between A and B.

Her turning good after getting the Kangan was just an act to get trust of everyone at HH, which trust she is using to her advantage even today, and playing games based on that trust with everyone at HH. Baisa, A, B, Yuv, now she is using Gurvanti.

The mistrust created btw A and B is also her doing. Arjun is also to blame for not trusting his wife. He should be made to pay for he did.

I guess what Bhoomi will be doing is getting revenge for what they did with her and i am with her on that, i dont think she would ever think of breaking up someone's marriage just to get the husband.

i think everything has come this far cause Bhoomi did pity Shefali and gave the Kangan to her. Now Shefali has become so irritating she does not need pity but a tight slap.

yeah I definitely agree that Shefali is really the most irritating person. She reminds of a lizard which everyone wants to get rid of. I wish bhoomi and arjun do get bk 2gether. Obviously arjun has to repent for what he did to Bhoomi by not trusting her. I would love to watch Shefali get her due when her truth is exposed. She is pure evil.

i agree with pinky......shefali has got what she deserved

I second Pinky's words...

It is indeed very sad that Yuv used her for his own games but the choice of not trusting the one she lovs was her own! If Arjun didnt marry Bhoomi then I wud understand her trying to cum back in his life, but she ruined his happy married life...Not only she took away the one he lovs the most, but literally ruined his life by spreading lonliness evrywhere!

Her love has turn into her obsession! She needs to understand that sumtimes lov is abt losing the person u luv cus their happiness lies with sumone else! n when we lov sumone truly, more than our happiness n pleasure its theirs that matters!

At one point I pityed her too but now she has crossed all the limits! She literally tried to kill Bhoomi n no reason can justify that act of hers! We jus dont hav the rights to kill sumone for own selfish reasons! This is not lov, its pure obsession n stubborness...Its better to mov out of the way when u realise ur lov isnt urs anymore rather than sit there n build false hopes n dreams! If Yuv, n destiny has caused her pain, taken away her lov, shes jus as much responsible...If she cant see a bright future with Yuv, then leave him but not to cum back into Arjuns life who was evidently happy n very much in lov with his wife....

so acc to that you say not truting arjun was her own mistake...... well not trusting Bhumi was Arjun's own mistake too... the situation is the same. if you think about it.... Yuv played a game with Shefali and Shefali played one with Arjun - No fault of Shefali for Yuv to do that and no fault of Arjun for Shefali to do that

And when Shefali wanted to divorce Yuv and marry Arjun(before he went and married Bhumi) the family did not support her but Manasvi stopped her but when Yuv wanted to divorce Shefali for his own reasons nobody could stop him.... that is not fair!!

Originally posted by: mghurye

so acc to that you say not truting arjun was her own mistake...... well not trusting Bhumi was Arjun's own mistake too... the situation is the same. if you think about it.... Yuv played a game with Shefali and Shefali played one with Arjun - No fault of Shefali for Yuv to do that and no fault of Arjun for Shefali to do that

And when Shefali wanted to divorce Yuv and marry Arjun(before he went and married Bhumi) the family did not support her but Manasvi stopped her but when Yuv wanted to divorce Shefali for his own reasons nobody could stop him.... that is not fair!!

I do not say Arjun is not at fault...Surely not trusting Bhoomi was his own mistake...He claimed to love her the most n support her yet he backed off in the most needed time- ofcourse he is at fault! However, Arjun never tried separating Yuv n Shefali even tho he still loved her when she married Yuv! He accepted it, going through how much ever pain he felt- that is love...

Shefali can not be compared to Arjun...They went to similar crisis, both were at fault...But Shefali is not like Arjun, if she had been she wud hav accepted his n Bhoomis relation...Especially after he accepted Bhoomi as his wife, his love n his life...Shefali went further n tried to break them apart cus she so desperately wanted Arjun back not thinking once hes moved on!

As for Goenkas, no offense meant to anyone, they r messed up...Surely it is not fair that they can not giv justice to their bahu's n look down when realise their own blood is at fault...surely their guilt can not giv back wat Shefali lost, but Shefali also needs to understand wat shes doing is one-sided! Arjun is not willing to marry her n he straight up says he doesnt lov her n never will, yet shes adamant to make it happen...

Like I said previously, I feel sorry for the fact she lost her lov- n I do knw its a terrible feeling..but after wat she has done to get Arjun back when hes not even willing to cum back to her n he denies any such special relationship wid her n even denies to feel anything more than frendship for her, its wrong of her to get him back! Shes literally forcing herself on him-that is not love! You lov with ur own will, but u dont hav a right to mak the other lov u...Lov cus u want to, not cus u want lov back n thats exactly wat Shefalis doing! The girl is seriously wrong in thinking she lovs Arjun, for if she had, she wud hav accepted his marriage with Bhoomi n also accepted the fact he can not b hers when she saw him falling in lov with Bhoomi....

I pity Shefali for being betrayed n losing her lov-but that does not justify all her bad acts till date....n for that I hold her responsible n very guilty n do not pity her for wat will happen to her...

Yes Shefali suffered but she suffered more cus the way she thought abt life n lov...She suffered more cus of her stubborness!

yep i agree!! shefali didnt have any right in taking bhumi's life or harming her!her all this faults make her guilty!! even tho she might have faced injustice but that doesnt mean that you go on making other ppl's life a hell!!

Originally posted by: sia_lovely

yep i agree!! shefali didnt have any right in taking bhumi's life or harming her!her all this faults make her guilty!! even tho she might have faced injustice but that doesnt mean that you go on making other ppl's life a hell!!

true..its just pure selfishness...i'm beginning to think that is this love that shefali is doing for or plain selfishness? to me..it seems selfishness...what do you all think?

i know they vamped her character too bad didnt they........
i felt they destroyed her.... she was so cute b4 being the smart chic from Oxford bussiness in love with Arjun and u know gr8t and all and then after Arjun and Bhumis marriage her character got screwed, personally i blame Yuvraj for the downhill path Shefali took after her marriage........