The 'Sophisticated Abuse' by Shekhars is glorified in BV

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Posted: 12 years ago
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When BV showed us that all others who did bad, did get punishment - even Jagya - why not Shekars? Are they saying sophisticated abuse is OK?

Sanchi who berated Anandi and her father , Ira who is really an abusive MIL , Shiv who is the most double standard hypocrite , the stupid Alok and the most idiot of the Grandfather with no common sense - all go scot free with a "sorry"????

A character like Ira - she does not show any respect to any one in society . Even if your enemy comes to your house you show hospitality. Bhairav was insulted by her daugher and she added to it. Not allowing Dadisa to drink water? Shiv did not get up when Bhairav visited. What are they proving here??? This type of high handness is OK and it is our Culture to be proud of? What social justice is here? That rich powerful people can insult anyone - the way they talked down on Ganga - and go free with sorry?

BV proved - any woman who is a Wife and a DIL is a spineless idiot. Husband and family can do anything - but it is all OK. That is what BV was fighting against - right? Now Anandi - the protogonist is wearing the same cap. How is she different from any " downtrodden women" she is fighting for and trying to uplift through her charitable organization?

What about the judge? He does not ask why withdrawing the case? The reason - my daughter/sister is a lier? No newspater reports of the issue?

How much state resources wasted for a stupid sister of a double faced Dist Collecter? When your family is involved and you make sure the other party (Jagya) gets punished at any cost - it is called Corruption.

A senior officer should be able to act outside the influence of personal prejudice. Remember the Aanadi as Sarpanch - the issue with Nandu and other child about the toy and Gehna and her husband trying to influence Anandi as a Sarpanch. BV showed a sensible Sarpanch in Anandi, taking the right decision and giving proper justice. What about now? .

The so called "sophisticated abuse" exemplified by Shekhars are not condemned in BV, but swept under the carpet - or often glorified.

Even if I did not know Hindi , I used to watch this online with the English Subtitles. I am fed up. They really have destroyed the value of the show.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: santhisaj

When BV showed us that all others who did bad, did get punishment - even Jagya - why not Shekars? Are they saying sophisticated abuse is OK?

Sanchi who berated Anandi and her father , Ira who is really an abusive MIL , Shiv who is the most double standard hypocrite , the stupid Alok and the most idiot of the Grandfather with no common sense - all go scot free with a "sorry"????

A character like Ira - she does not show any respect to any one in society . Even if your enemy comes to your house you show hospitality. Bhairav was insulted by her daugher and she added to it. Not allowing Dadisa to drink water? Shiv did not get up when Bhairav visited. What are they proving here??? This type of high handness is OK and it is our Culture to be proud of? What social justice is here? That rich powerful people can insult anyone - the way they talked down on Ganga - and go free with sorry?

BV proved - any woman who is a Wife and a DIL is a spineless idiot. Husband and family can do anything - but it is all ok. That is what BV was fighting against - right? Now Anandi - the protogonist is wearing the same cap. How is she different from any " downtroden women" she is fighting for and trying to uplift through her charitable organization?

What about the judge? He does not ask why withdrawing the case? The reason - my daughter/sister is a lier? No newspater reports of the issue?

How much state resources wasted for a stupid sister of a double faced Dist Collecter? When your family is involved and you make sure the other party (Jagya) gets punished at any cost - it is called Corruption.

A senior officer should be able to act outside the influence of personal prejudice. Remember the Aanadi as Sarpanch - the issue with Nandu and other child about the toy and Gehna and her husband trying to influence Anandi as a Sarpanch. BV showed a sensible Sarpanch in Anandi, taking the right decision and giving proper justice. What about now? .

The so called "sophisticated abuse" exemplified by Shekhars are not condemned in BV, but swept under the carpet - or often glorified.

Even if I did not know Hindi , I used to watch this online with the English Subtitles. I am fed up. They really have destroyed the value of the show.

Did jagya went to jail for bigamy, Jamnesia or railway fraud ? He was only thrown away from house to suffer. The railway fraud too he got out of jail because shiv used his power. Can you justify these facts. He cheated his wife and was living happily with second wife. Did he go to jail for that crime ?
When bigger crimes get excused why should shekhars go to jail.
Edited by Sheetsden - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I want public humiliation, insult and guilt and embarassment for them like other characters suffered when they were wrong.

I do wonder how come a case involving Collector of Udaipur and Govt. of Rajasthan has gone unreported by media.

And I am exceedingly curious how the case could be withdrawn by Sanchi if it was not from Govt of Rajasthan and in Shekhars' words "not in their hands"?!

Govt of Rajasthan is a plaything in Sanchi Faker's hands?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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and when did dadisa get punished for killing basant's first wife and for ruining life of so many girls including gauri?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I find it amusing when wrongs of Singhs and Shekhars are compared.

Singhs are from such a backward place where child marriage is still the norm. You can judge what their level of education and what their milieu is like.

Whereas Shekhars are supposed to be educated, modern, cultured, sophisticated, law abiding citizens of Udaipur, urban - with their kids having had exposure to foreign countries too (Shiv did higher studies in London no?).
How come their behaviour is put in same light as Singhs?
Better is expected from people of such background who have been in professions like army and IAS and been exposed to modern life.
Yet they turned out to be no less hypocritical and narrow minded than illiterate, orthodox person from any remote village!

Padhe likhey gawar! 😡
Edited by Skepblun - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

and when did dadisa get punished for killing basant's first wife and for ruining life of so many girls including gauri?

True. Like how shekhars filed a case on singhs if someone would have filed a case on DS and basanth long back they would not have committed blunders in their life. After basanth wife died DS continued her crimes by arriving jagya again to child gauri. Instead of highlighting all these crimes rural people do cvs have highlighted a stupid lame engegement break up case. Seriously BV writer has lost senses now. 😡
There r so many potential cases like gauri returning back to get her right as jagya wife and her child's custody. This would be such a powerful case. Even saanchi attempt to rape case had so much potential than this lame one.
Edited by Sheetsden - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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wondering why sanchi's lawyer did not ask dadisa in the witness box as to why she accepted sanchi's rishta if she felt ganga was an ideal bahu for them ??
To keep anandi happy in her sasra, they played with a young girl's emotions ...they had no business to do it.

I hope this truth comes out in the court.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

I find it amusing when wrongs of Singhs and Shekhars are compared.

Singhs are from such a backward place where child marriage is still the norm. You can judge what their level of education and what their milieu is like.

Whereas Shekhars are supposed to be educated, modern, cultured, sophisticated, law abiding citizens of Udaipur, urban - with their kids having had exposure to foreign countries too (Shiv did higher studies in London no?).
How come their behaviour is put in same light as Singhs?
Better is expected from people of such background who have been in professions like army and IAS and been exposed to modern life.
Yet they turned out to be no less hypocritical and narrow minded than person from any remote village!

Padhe likhey gawar! 😡

I am not saying shekhars are right here. But atleast someone challenged Singh family in BV for once.
Just disappointed with such a lame case by shekhars. Till now on one challenged them and they committed bigger crimes and got forgiveness easily. If basanth first wife or gehna was from shekhar family would singhs got away from their crime ?
Edited by Sheetsden - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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TM I agree with all that you said..very well written. 👏
Of course not everyone in BV land got the right about of punishment for their crimes but none of them have gone scotch free either. Jagya didn't rot in jail for all his crimes but has had to take a lot of insults, being thrown...disowed..etc. DS had to face things in different way and she showed improvements. She asked for forgiveness from her bahus, from Anandi...if she was the old self she wouldn't ever do so. But well we all know about all of these characters. The point here is about Shekhars who need to face humiliation for not teaching anything to their daughter, letting their daughter make fun of people, letting their daughter insult Anandi, for sar-pe chadhoying their daughter...and why just the daughter they themselves have done far too wrong...if they are what educated people are suppose to be like...the rural India who is watching this show are sure to feel that they are far better being uneducated.

Are educated people incapable of teaching sanskar to their kids? As per BV yup...Are educated people incapable to treating a bahu like a daughter? Yup they are...Shekhars should have to face their doings!!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

wondering why sanchi's lawyer did not ask dadisa in the witness box as to why she accepted sanchi's rishta if she felt ganga was an ideal bahu for them ??

To keep anandi happy in her sasra, they played with a young girl's emotions ...they had no business to do it.

I hope this truth comes out in the court.

Good point. Why didn't the govt lawyer ask DS why did they accept saanchi and pressure jagya to array her ? Their answer to save anandi would have been nice. DS got away easily,

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