Anandi must continue living in kb after speaking truth.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Now I doubt if shiv loves aanandi or not. His love vanished just few months later aanandi consummated her marriage with him.
Now his real face is coming out how manipulatively he have barred her professional growth and how he is pressurising A to change her statement.

If she speak truth and leave KB this will only be for emotional realization to shiv. What ever colors shiv is showing these days emotional factors would not impact him at all. In absense of aanandi IRA and Sancho would only feed poison against aanandi who knows eventually they make him ready to get divorced from a. Because a is not living in KB and they are not consuming their marriage. It gives a ground of divorce..

Best is to live in KB on her own terms. If ira taunts her She must
answer back to ira that she is living in her own house. Kb is aanandis house the same way kb is iras house. Aanandi is next generation in kb. She must clear cut tell ira that no one have power to exile her from this house even if it is shiv.and the must continuously ignore IRA and Sanchi ..she must focus on her career and grow
. she must deginetly stop seekingshivs help in professional matters. She must strongly ignore what emotional turmoil shiv or others are going through. She must be in attitude of what she is and she is a wife of a collector. Even a collector can not revoke this status from her now. She must make herself financially strong.

This is the only way aanadi can do some good to her and her profession. This will also improve her personnel life.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: akvats01

Now I doubt if shiv loves aanandi or not. His love vanished just few months later aanandi consummated her marriage with him.
Now his real face is coming out how manipulatively he have barred her professional growth and how he is pressurising A to change her statement.

If she speak truth and leave KB this will only be for emotional realization to shiv. What ever colors shiv is showing these days emotional factors would not impact him at all. In absense of aanandi IRA and Sancho would only feed poison against aanandi who knows eventually they make him ready to get divorced from a. Because a is not living in KB and they are not consuming their marriage. It gives a ground of divorce..

Best is to live in KB on her own terms. If ira taunts her She must
answer back to ira that she is living in her own house. Kb is aanandis house the same way kb is iras house. Aanandi is next generation in kb. She must clear cut tell ira that no one have power to exile her from this house even if it is shiv.and the must continuously ignore IRA and Sanchi ..she must focus on her career and grow
. she must deginetly stop seekingshivs help in professional matters. She must strongly ignore what emotional turmoil shiv or others are going through. She must be in attitude of what she is and she is a wife of a collector. Even a collector can not revoke this status from her now. She must make herself financially strong.

This is the only way aanadi can do some good to her and her profession. This will also improve her personnel life.

@bold just because he is not supporting her stand against her ex-husband does not mean you have to talk rubbish about his character without any facts. When did he barred her professional growth. It was him who suggested her to do something in udaipur when anandi first called shiv from jeytsar tat she needs his help to open up a college in jeytsar. At that time itself he suggested her to do something for udaipur people. He went on to open an NGO and got her lot of help being a DC of udaipur. What else a wife needs in her career growth than this. Anandi too acknowledges his love and guidance. Don't try to manipulate your words to show something totally wrong about him. Anandi herself is not ambitious and happen serving people in KB. Her life is restricted to taking care of both families and making her ex-husband agree for remarriage.
Without watching the episode don't accuse him of manipulating anandi to change his views . Is anandi so weak to get manipulated my people. Both shiv and anandi are equally at fault in this track. Why dies loving come into this picture. Both love each other very much and these disagreements happen in a marriage. What trouble they have is really a minor problem.
Edited by Sheetsden - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@TM
only one sentence is left to say that mom was right. I was wrong to chose you
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: akvats01

Now I doubt if shiv loves aanandi or not. His love vanished just few months later aanandi consummated her marriage with him.
Now his real face is coming out how manipulatively he have barred her professional growth and how he is pressurising A to change her statement.

If she speak truth and leave KB this will only be for emotional realization to shiv. What ever colors shiv is showing these days emotional factors would not impact him at all. In absense of aanandi IRA and Sancho would only feed poison against aanandi who knows eventually they make him ready to get divorced from a. Because a is not living in KB and they are not consuming their marriage. It gives a ground of divorce..


Best is to live in KB on her own terms. If ira taunts her She must
answer back to ira that she is living in her own house. Kb is aanandis house the same way kb is iras house. Aanandi is next generation in kb. She must clear cut tell ira that no one have power to exile her from this house even if it is shiv.and the must continuously ignore IRA and Sanchi ..she must focus on her career and grow
. she must deginetly stop seekingshivs help in professional matters. She must strongly ignore what emotional turmoil shiv or others are going through. She must be in attitude of what she is and she is a wife of a collector. Even a collector can not revoke this status from her now. She must make herself financially strong.

This is the only way aanadi can do some good to her and her profession. This will also improve her personnel life.



That is the way to make Ira go nuts.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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In a democratic country like India laws always support the females.
When a girl gets married; she has all rights to stay at her in-laws' place till legal separation. Even after separation she has provision for rights on property and compensation.

So better than staying with Singhs she should either stay at KB and make herself stronger or come back to her biological father and do the same. But she should make her stand at any cost.
I am asking you all people

"Do you think Ira or Sanchi could have illtreated her this way had she herself been an IAS/IPS/MLA or a position holder?"

So the weakness is in her and there is no use blaming others as the world outside is like this so far.

Everyone salutes the rising sun. 👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sheetsden


[DIV]@bold just because he is not supporting her stand against her ex-husband does not mean you have to talk rubbish about his character without any facts. When did he barred her professional growth. It was him who suggested her to do something in udaipur when anandi first called shiv from jeytsar tat she needs his help to open up a college in jeytsar. At that time itself he suggested her to do something for udaipur people. He went on to open an NGO and got her lot of help being a DC of udaipur. What else a wife needs in her career growth than this. Anandi too acknowledges his love and guidance. Don't try to manipulate your words to show something totally wrong about him. Anandi herself is not ambitious and happen serving people in KB. Her life is restricted to taking care of both families and making her ex-husband agree for remarriage.[/DIV][DIV]Without watching the episode don't accuse him of manipulating anandi to change his views . Is anandi so weak to get manipulated my people. Both shiv and anandi are equally at fault in this track. Why dies loving come into this picture. Both love each other very much and these disagreements happen in a marriage. What trouble they have is really a minor problem.[/DIV]



Yes his love and care is being shown in precaps these days.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: akvats01

Now I doubt if shiv loves aanandi or not. His love vanished just few months later aanandi consummated her marriage with him.
Now his real face is coming out how manipulatively he have barred her professional growth and how he is pressurising A to change her statement
. This part I would wait for some more time before I comment.It is not very clear whether he wants her to give statement in Sanchi's favour or not.I think it is more to do with the statement he has given on Jagya that he was wrong in believing that he has changed.And she believes that Jagya has changed.Their talk is more about what they believe about Jagya.He is challenging to prove him wrong on this issue of Jagya.

If she speak truth and leave KB this will only be for emotional realization to shiv. What ever colors shiv is showing these days emotional factors would not impact him at all. In absense of aanandi IRA and Sancho would only feed poison against aanandi who knows eventually they make him ready to get divorced from a. Because a is not living in KB and they are not consuming their marriage. It gives a ground of divorce.. This may happen.Ira and Sanchi may try to poison his mind in the absence of Anandi but will he believe it or not is the question.He looks like he has realised that Sanchi was after Jagya and all that she was doing was because she is obsessed with him.So he may not believe what Sanchi and Ira say.He may miss her when she leaves KB.

Best is to live in KB on her own terms. If ira taunts her She must
answer back to ira that she is living in her own house. Kb is aanandis house the same way kb is iras house. Aanandi is next generation in kb. She must clear cut tell ira that no one have power to exile her from this house even if it is shiv.and the must continuously ignore IRA and Sanchi ..she must focus on her career and grow
. she must deginetly stop seekingshivs help in professional matters. She must strongly ignore what emotional turmoil shiv or others are going through. She must be in attitude of what she is and she is a wife of a collector. Even a collector can not revoke this status from her now. She must make herself financially strong. I completely agree.She should not leave KB.She should assert herself and make use of her legal status as Shiv's wife after all like you said KB belongs to her as much it belongs to Ira and CM.She should assert her status in the house and the family.I have no issues if she seeks help from Shiv in her professional status as a director of her NGO.She should stay in KB and spend more time at work and leave herself out of the domestic issues and in short keep herself busy.

This is the only way aanadi can do some good to her and her profession. This will also improve her personnel life.

My comments are in red.
Edited by aparnauma - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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There is no point in stating what she should do. Shiv will not ask her to leave nor Ira. because they are not Kalyani Devi who will throw her out of the house.

Sekhars are quite blind in their own thoughts but the amount of suffering Dadisa has given Anandi if she could have stand that, this is nothing.
But I want to see what she says in court, because here both sanchi, jagya and ganga all are responsible for the mess. So she has to state facts no opportunity of siding with any one.
If she shows her blind love for her maika, she should leave, if she has any self respect.
Sekhars have not excluded her in any of the discussion for this case, so they take her to be part of their family too. Now it is on her, to prove that she can balance between the two.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Plz we cannot say Shiv is showing his true colors after consummation...Shiv is angry with Anandi and that happens in every marriage...Shiv still loves Anandi as much as he used...Shiv never stopped Anandi's growth in fact it was Shiv who made her realize that she used to have dreams to fulfill which did not involve cooking or impressing Saanchi and Ira...fine he is being rude and everything but he will realize his mistakes and it all will be over...and Shiv has every right to tell Anandi to leave...he brought her in this house and because of him she can call this house as hers so it's only Shiv and Shiv who has the right to tell Anandi to get out of KB and if ever Anandi uses the advantage of being a Collector's wife she is losing her respect and nothing else...Shiv has every power to revoke this status from her by divorcing her because Shiv himself gave her this status...but we are forgetting main point Shiv will hopefully not stoop so low to tell Anandi such words...he is not forcing Anandi to be on his side...he is just stating the fact that this time he and she are not on same sides and he will not leave his sister's side to be with Anandi
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Posted: 12 years ago
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He speaks Beurocrtic language. Haathi keep daant khane ke aur dikhne ke aur

He would never say or do or speak any thing which would help his ninacceptable goals directly. For example. ..You remember he said to his lawyer he want to win case on basis of truth and truth only.

Every professional know why such statements are passed. If he want to speak truth the he must know half through projecting wrong information is also a lie. Which he is doing frequently.

Now other things he speak bare words to anandi don't cook for Sanchi you have your career don't change yourself for others wish all these times he knew aanadi would continue doing all such acts no matter he refuses ir not..so no harm in taking praise by saying all these ... But this time he knows aanadi may not act the way he expected she may not full fill his hidden intentions and so he is not only allowing his family to pressurise her. He is himself blackmailing her emotionally.. At the same time he is also projecting ..I have been so good to you can't you do only this much...

If he is really supportive for her why did he never took a strong stand for her against her mother and sister. He only speak mom to fulfil his bare minimum responsibilities...

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