Nice, very emotional post.
Yes, babho does not give sandhya credit for anything she does. Sandy has been instrumental in suraj winning WTC championship. If not for her, he wouldnt have even participated let alone win it.
Babho wld have a fit if sandy had gotten the fake jewelry.
But babho cannot punish anyone as it was her own mistake. She was too much in the dumps to shout at meena.
Though chavvi wantd the jewels it was ultimately babhos decision to buy it. She was solely responsible and couldn't do anything.
Since babhasa's illness, suraj has taken up,the responsibilities of the house. Babho is not lazy. She works all the time at home, she taught suraj to cook and raised kids ( didnt do a good job of that with 3 of them). She was busy. Even if suraj hadn't won the comp., he would have still worked hard to earn money to marry off his sister. Ideally all 3 brothers should shoulder the responsibilities in the absence of thier father(babasas financial support is nil). But the other two sons are useless, freeloaders. Babho has been trying to make vik give money, but he has been cheating her and escaping.
Not only suraj doesn't mind taking care of his family, he feels it is his responsibility, a pleasure to do so. He lives for his family and sandy is part of his family. The Dynamics in a nuclear family and that of a joint families r different. Suraj doesn't think of his income as my money, ur money etc. to him he lives to take care of his family.
Sandy doesn't work. Is she sponging off of suraj? As a husband he is supporting sandy. As a son and brother he is supporting his mom and family. I wouldn't fault suraj for supporting his family, or babho for depending on him. But his brothers are being too selfish and using suraj which is not right.
And I don't like babho being mean to surya all the time and doing all the EAs on them.
From the precap it's not clear what idea sandy has about jewelry. So no comments on that.
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