Who would prefer a daughter like ANANDI?

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debbie

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Who would prefer a daughter like ANANDI?

People,

The show BV which started with much pump and glory claiming they are showing the strength of Indian women is now reduced to a joke.

I am asking you people who would like to have a daughter like Anandi?

When she was a child bride her parents had to go to her SASRA with folded hands. She got educated, became the Sarpanch. With her persistent good work a village turned to a district head qtr. Her remarriage became the news in all leading news channels. Still her condition did not change. She still cries buckets, gets scolded by in-laws. Still her father comes to her SASRA with folded hands. Still she is treated as a second class citizen.

Has anyone observed why it's Anandi only who always gets ill-treatment by everyone around? What's so special about her. I would say it's her attitude towards life.

I think with the attitude of Anandi who doesnot know the ways of life she would be always illtreated come what may. Everything else would change, but not her luck as she created that luck herself.

If anyday I have to choose between a Anandi and a Gauri as my daughter, I would choose the later who is little bitchy at times yet has the will and attitude to survive in the world.

After all "It's the survival of the fittest"

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Awfulggt

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I'd Love to have a daughter like anandi. And when i have one, i'll be careful not to give such a wonderful person away to some cruel things at the age of 8 -- now that i've seen how they could turn her into. A cheerful, smart , ever inquisitive , loving girl who could search for the best things in life even when beaten down completely---who wouldn't want her ? :)

On a side note, only Anandi suffers, people around her are always pampered and happy...so though i can't be like Anandi , i'd love to have her by my side-- as a daughter, a friend or maybe as someone else. Having such person by your side is always a boon.

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brick_red

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Regarding Anandi's relationship with her inlaws, Anandi is what her parents wanted her to be. Khajan and Bhago wanted Anandi to bear with DS's insults and cruel acts and Anandi did it. Now Singhs wanted Anandi to be with her in-laws and she is doing it. For Anandi, her pain is less compared to her parents' pain.

Gauri's parents wanted her to get things by hook or crook. Gauri's parents were ok with her breaking ties with her in-laws. And Gauri did it.

So I feel, Anandi is good for Anandi's parents(past and present). And Gauri is good for Gauri's parents.😕

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Colt.Pixy

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Posted: 12 years ago

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lol we cannot chose if we get daughter like A or sanchi. it s all about luck & destiny 🤣 we are not given chance to select when girl is born lol

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shanthi510

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Nodoubt she is a wonderful daughter ...I want a daughter like anandi plus I want her to take a stand for herself...😊

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Posted: 12 years ago

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The question should not be who would want a daughter like Anandi, the question must be who would want parents like Bhago and Khajanand mentor who does conditioning like Kalyani Devi! 😡

Originally Anandi was fabulous, self reliant, inquisitive, honest, kind hearted, hard working...this is why she won hearts.

Today what she is, it is not due to herself but due to people around her.

When she was quick, she was rebuked and thrown around for daring to speak or use her mind.

What should she do now?

The very fact that Anandi is sane despite having gone through worst and dealing with crap people around her is itself an achievement!

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Shyam

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: ZenerDiode
lol we cannot chose if we g uret daughter like A or sanchi. it s all about luck & destiny 🤣 we are not given chance to select when girl is born lol

Don't you feel, no one is like Anandi or Sanchi by birth ... it is the environment around us, and those living with her, that actually decide who she will be like. And, yes, we cannot control that much, if we don't control ourselves.

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anasuya43

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Posted: 12 years ago

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originally posted by Skepblun

he question should not be who would want a daughter like Anandi, the question must be who would want parents like Bhago and Khajanand mentor who does conditioning like Kalyani Devi! 😡

Originally Anandi was fabulous, self reliant, inquisitive, honest, kind hearted, hard working...this is why she won hearts.

Today what she is, it is not due to herself but due to people around her.

When she was quick, she was rebuked and thrown around for daring to speak or use her mind.

What should she do now?

The very fact that Anandi is sane despite having gone through worst and dealing with crap people around her is itself an achievement!

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I have highlighted the point which I liked in your mail😊

But I have blame CV or story writer sometime they change the character Here also same thing happened . If you take Anandi's character such a nice character Anandi 's was changed into a weak one This happened in so many serials Like one in Amrit Manthan 's Nimrit 's character such a strong girl as the story progress they made into crying doll. like Anandi.

What is the reason for it Do they want more viewers to watch...or change of CV or story writer...who does not know top or bottom of the story happened in the serial

So I do not want same thing happened to Anandi's character.Request to CV make her character strong and show to the viewers she is strong enough to take care of her self and express her views frankly without afraiding of anybody .so that there is something to learn.As they have shown few week back in the serial how to protect from the eve-teaser...

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ButterflyOnRose

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Posted: 12 years ago

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i would never want Anandi or Gauri anyways if i had a daughter ever i will make her better than Anandi Anandi is not a role model for me anyways

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Colt.Pixy

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: prime1985

Don't you feel, no one is like Anandi or Sanchi by birth ... it is the environment around us, and those living with her, that actually decide who she will be like. And, yes, we cannot control that much, if we don't control ourselves.

lol genes also play important part to get character. not only surrounding affects. DNA science needs to be studied

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