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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Skepblun

On questions on why only Sanchi should go to jail - firstly she has not gone to jail yet and that case is not even being talked about. Who knows bhaiya will handle it? Also, Singhs' cases never went to court so they got a free pass after bit of arguments in Panchayats, insult by villagers and then things normal.😆

I agree with Sheets that they are showing both families like this so that Anandi can finally somehow find a way and serve as a bridge.

@SPuja - Jagya may not have been punished legally but he did suffer in many other ways - even landing up in rags by garbage bin at one point.
Jagya has done wrong by agreeing to this marriage and later breaking engagement, he is getting brickbats from family for it and is now being dragged to court. But frankly, breaking engagement is not exactly a criminal offence.
Sanchi's truth has to come out because till now she has been manipulating and hiding too much. It is she who has worsened it with her suicide attempt too.

Of course BOTH families need to realise where they went wrong and what they should do or not do.

BTW, I agree after seeing today's episode that Shekhars are not reacting to practical and diplomatic ways either. And it is true that Basant would have blasted them even more if he had known how Ira insulted DS at hospital in Udaipur. 😆

Still, I wonder perhaps, would they have been less receptive like this only if Basant has not grunted on phone? Did Basant's barking harden them more and make them ignore Bhairon even more?😕


I have already stated that Sanchi should be punished for the crime she committed - suicide attempt. Her bhaiya cannot save her, it was a medico legal case and the doctor must have reported it, anyway the case filed by Shakhers must also have mentioned the suicide attempt. So no concession to her in this.

As regards Jagya suffering - he had suffered because of his doing - when he was beaten up and left at some garbage dump - he was drinking heavily and had no money to pay for it. When he was lifted by Jaitsar people in unconscious state - he himself went after Anandi and was not forced to drench in rain - it was not his punishment- it was just his stubbornness - he left the hospital also on his own (the roti chori event) so even here he was not punished.

Coming to present case - I believe that he was wrong while accepting the rishta, then being plain indifferent towards his fiancee and caring only for Ganga. He had no time for Sanchi, but all the time for Ganga even though he has not realised (?) that he is in love with her. And reason for breaking - that coffee shop conversation is not a strong reason - somehow he gave correct reason to Shakhers - incompatibility. That said - he is not guilty in the case filed by Shakhers - he is not guilty of abatement of suicide. Creatives will be wrong if they show the court declaring that he was right in breaking the engagement or he was wrong in breaking the engagement - they should decide the case before them- abatement to suicide case. Sanchi mentioned his past and I am sure Gauri will not be found - if Anandi start giving her judgement in her bayan - that he has changed etc. she will be wrong. The ex-wives have to answer the questions truthfully - we have to see the episode to know whether creatives show these thing logically.

Shakhers are acting just like BH people acted earlier - they were wrong- even if they were angry, they should not have behaved that way. Perhaps this is to gain sympathy for BH people now.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Abandonment from ones own family is not punishment Losing everything in his life is not punishment How long Jagya kept losing everything At one point he had nothing with him just he alone How long he kept separated from his family yearning to be back to them He lost even his own child no fault of him in that How much he suffered ? so how can we say he has not suffered at all ??Till how long we wish to see him suffering 😳
and when Jagya has been plain indifferent to Sanchi had all the time for Ganga ? when ? where ? Ever since their alliance was fixed She use to call him twice day Did he not answer her calls and try to be happy with her its another thing she use to spoil his mood with her dominance Rest he was busy in getting Ganga her rights that he promised to her even before Sanchi came in his life Getting her divorce , college admission etc Where he was going on trips with Ganga ??He only went once to Mangalore to settle Ganga He did not know Sanchi kept vrat for him did she tell him ? No so how can we blame him he had all the time for Ganga ???
Edited by hina13 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: hina13

Abandonment from ones own family is not punishment Losing everything in his life is not punishment How long Jagya kept losing everything At one point he had nothing with him just he alone How long he kept separated from his family yearning to back to them He lost even his own child no fault of him in that How much he suffered ? so how can we say he has not suffered at all ??Till how long we wish to see him suffering 😳

and when Jagya has been plain indifferent to Sanchi had all the time for Ganga ? when ? where ? Ever since their alliance was fixed She use to call him twice day Did he not answer her calls and try to be happy with her its another thing she use to spoil his mood with her dominance Rest he was busy in getting Ganga her rights that hr promised to her even before Sanchi came in his life Getting her divorce , college admission etc Where he was going on trips with Ganga ??He only went once to Mangalore to settle Ganga He did not know Sanchi kept vrat for him did she tell him ? No so how can we blame him he had all the time for Ganga ???


Abandonment by family was punishment given by family - they punished him and later accepted him, he lost everything, perhaps it is when he left Mumbai? He himself did it - nobody punished him in this. He lost his child because of Gauri - he was not responsible, it was his loss, but then was it a punishment? I do not wish to see him suffering. I am just saying that he was not punished - for bigamy, for bribing court official, for getting marriage certificate made by concealing information, for drunken brawl in Jaipur where he was arrested and later released without any trial etc.

Sanchi used to phone him- did he ever shown any interest? Sanchi told him about vrat over phone when he was in Mangalore. Any ordinary fiancee will remember her future wife when he sees another woman breaking her vrat, but he was busy gifting saree to Ganga for teej and just happy being with her.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: SPuja


Abandonment by family was punishment given by family - they punished him and later accepted him, he lost everything, perhaps it is when he left Mumbai? He himself did it - nobody punished him in this.
i believe you forgot the episode when Bhairon and Sumitra declared him dead He never wanted to leave them permanently They declared him dead coz he did not want to be with Anandi

He lost his child because of Gauri - he was not responsible, it was his loss, but then was it a punishment?


I do not wish to see him suffering. I am just saying that he was not punished - for bigamy, for bribing court official, for getting marriage certificate made by concealing information, for drunken brawl in Jaipur where he was arrested and later released without any trial etc.

Perhaps for you only punishment is the one given by court You only believe courtly punishments I believe in God's punishment much more than that if he did anything wrong he got twice thrice back I believe cvs have made him suffer so much for leaving Anandi next time every Balak Var will only worship his balika vadhu . He realized his mistakes and he has gone in jail for brawl Shiv maharaj hasn't he should go too Why there should be Trails for everything ? He was bailed out but he did go to jail

Sanchi used to phone him- did he ever shown any interest?
Have you really seen the episodes ? 😕Tell me when he did not ?Now what you wanted a twice divorced man to do He can;t be highy romantic to her but so many times he shared his interests with her and listened to her what more he could do ?

Sanchi told him about vrat over phone when he was in Mangalore. Any ordinary fiancee will remember her future wife when he sees another woman breaking her vrat, but he was busy gifting saree to Ganga for teej and just happy being with her.

He is not Sanchi's servant that he would work according to her orders why she did not ask him before doing so An ordinary finacee would do so but she did not He was very happy when she told him that have you forgot it ? He thanked her Have you forgot it ? Now Mangalore is quite at distance from Udaipur how he could come there for especially Sanchi's vrat if she would have told him before he would have surely come there but she did not Later he did come when invited by Ira and Lol his happiness and saree to Ganga you remember a lot but forgot he did bring one for Sanchi too as a gift ??or did not Sorry you did not give answer to my questions here but written a post deleting many facts presented only half things molding them

Edited by hina13 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
@hina
loved your post. bang on
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Posted: 11 years ago


@ blue -


Wasn't Jagya too indirectly responsible for his child's death?

Jagya went to Jetsar for sake of Badimasi. He stayed there quiet a no. of days and concealed about Gauri and his child on his family's insistence.

When Gauri came to Jetsar to tell him about the exam, he did not go with her but he tried to pack her off to Mumbai. Why? Because he had to celebrate marriage anniversary with Anandi. 🤢

Would Badimasi have died if Jagya would have refused to celebrate anniversary? He had his excuse of his exam.

Gauri had accepted that Jagya was concealing her identity from Badimasi which was already a big insult to her. It was very natural for her to react when she heard that he is going to celebrate anniversary with Anandi.

What did J do? After coming to mumbai, he blamed Gauri for speaking the truth before Badimasi. Then when the Dean suspended him, he plainly blamed Gauri for it while it was Gauri who warned him about impending suspension.😡

Wasn't it natural for Gauri for react? Yes - she should not have blamed Anandi, but her disturbance was caused by the irresponsible, selfish actions of Jagya. 😡

If Gauri was directly responsible, Jagya had his share in loss of his child.


Coming to Sanchi -


Jayga knew very well what kind of girl Sanchi is. Much before engagement, when Anandi asked JAgya how he feels about SAnchi, he told clearly that SAchi confuses him and though she is a spoilt brat, she might have good heart.

Jagya did not like Sanchi. Yet he got ready to marry her because for Anandi and his family who in turn was concerned about Anandi's future if the alliance didn't happen.


Jagya was marrying Sanchi - Not out of concern, love, like or any feelings for Sanchi.

Jagya was polite with SAnchi and tried to work his relationship because he had no other choice - it was Not out of any concern for Sanchi.

Sanchi's drama never impressed Jagya
. He was not even bothered what she was trying to show off.

All he did for Sanchi was out of formality.
He was uncomfortable when Sanchi was declaring her love and he clearly did not even want to be close with Sanchi when she herself approached towards him.
He never used to call Sanchi but only used to return her calls.
The way he used to talk with SAnchi in phone plainly indicated his feelings. Any girl would have understood and perhaps Sanchi too udnerstood it. Yet, in her obsession she overlooked it.
And everything happened much before Sanchi's truth is revealed.

JAgya loved Ganga and if Sanchi would have remained true to her bratty self without any drama, he would have married Sanchi and throughout his life would have faked happiness with Sanchi.

Wasn't it a kind of cheating?

If Sanchi was doing drama to win Jagya's trust, Jagya was doing drama too for his family's sake.

Both Sanchi and Jagya had concealed their real intentions and feelings.


And it doesn't make Jagya any mahaan because he was doing it for his own priorities and never thought that it could ruin both Sanchi and his life.

Ultimately - when Jagya broke off engagement, it was again NOT for Sanchi's sake. It was to save his own family. His decision to break off the engagement is correct but the way he was portraying it that it was for Sanchi's sake, is a plain LIE!!! 😡

He should considered about Sanchi's personality before saying yes. He could have easily said that he needed some time and then he could have discussed it with Anandi because his decision was completely dependent on Anandi. If he would have known that Anandi does not approve of his marriage with Sanchi, Jagya would have never agreed to the marriage and his family would have been relieved too because the Shekars also initially wanted Jagya to refuse the alliance.

Jagya's decisions - be his marriage or breaking off engagement - were never taken for Sanchi. And the Shekhars have understood it very well that he never gave any importance to Sanchi and that's why they are so hell bent in punishing him.


Edited by doyelpakhi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: doyelpakhi


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Wasn't Jagya too indirectly responsible for his child's death?

Jagya went to Jetsar for sake of Badimasi. He stayed there quiet a no. of days and concealed about Gauri and his child on his family's insistence.

When Gauri came to Jetsar to tell him about the exam, he did not go with her but he tried to pack her off to Mumbai. Why? Because he had to celebrate marriage anniversary with Anandi. 🤢

Would Badimasi have died if Jagya would have refused to celebrate anniversary? He had his excuse of his exam.

Gauri had accepted that Jagya was concealing her identity from Badimasi which was already a big insult to her. It was very natural for her to react when she heard that he is going to celebrate anniversary with Anandi.

What did J do? After coming to mumbai, he blamed Gauri for speaking the truth before Badimasi. Then when the Dean suspended him, he plainly blamed Gauri for it while it was Gauri who warned him about impending suspension.😡


Wasn't it natural for Gauri for react? Yes - she should not have blamed Anandi, but her disturbance was caused by the irresponsible, selfish actions of Jagya. 😡\


If Gauri was directly responsible, Jagya had his share in loss of his child.

Complete Ridiculous He stopped Gauri 4389348387 times not to drive in pregnancy did she listen to him ?🤢 and hello his badi massi was on death bed why he cannot go to meet her ? He cleared to Gauri he had to go there and expected from his great massoom wife at least she can handle one thing for him file an application for him How he would tell what he is forced to do there for sake of his massi she would have created hungama when she came there he begged to her He was not sleeping with Anandi that Gauri was dying but that inhuman woman no where listened to him and barked at Badi maasi resulted in her terrible condition and that creep woman was dragging him out later 😡It was absolutely natural for him to shout at her and be angry at her and what that idiot woman was doing She was barking at Anandi on phone😡 she was barking before too so he did not put pressure on her she herself was not accepting her mistake and as usual finding an opportunity to bark at Anandi she started and got that accident where he was indirectly RESPONSIBLE ? Gauri was directly responsible what did he do ? O he cannot be angry at her for what she did as per your theory ??



Coming to Sanchi -


Jayga knew very well what kind of girl Sanchi is. Much before engagement, when Anandi asked JAgya how he feels about SAnchi, he told clearly that SAchi confuses him and though she is a spoilt brat, she might have good heart.


He thought she is changed like everyone else as she was showing herself to be changed He sincerely believed she has changed like Anandi , Shiv or anyone but she did not

Jagya did not like Sanchi. Yet he got ready to marry her because for Anandi and his family who in turn was concerned about Anandi's future if the alliance didn't happen.

LOL you think every person in the world marries because he likes his partner ?? You can start liking later too Marriage for him was only because his family wanted and he told this truth to Sanchi long ago and Sanchi again and again assured him she has no issue with it


Jagya was marrying Sanchi - Not out of concern, love, like or any feelings for Sanchi.

Not all persons in the world marries because they love . concerned and have feelings for their partners before marriage ? What are arranged marriages This also was an arranged marriage so what is your point

Jagya was polite with SAnchi and tried to work his relationship because he had no other choice - it was Not out of any concern for Sanchi.

it was out of concern for her madam Have you forgot the episode when he came to share his heart with Dadisaa after he said yes to this proposal He was completely concerned for Sanchi He never for once said she won't be able to keep me happy he was all the way talking will i be able to keep her happy satisfy her Later when dadisaa said your fears are baseless you can do it then he said i will work on the relationship and will try my best to satisfy Sanchi Whatever he did was with concern for her but day by day her actions made him move away from her

Sanchi's drama never impressed Jagya
. He was not even bothered what she was trying to show off.

It did He appreciated her many times too when she did any good work in her drama but its another thing he did not fall for her because you don't fall for every person

All he did for Sanchi was out of formality.
He was uncomfortable when Sanchi was declaring her love and he clearly did not even want to be close with Sanchi when she herself approached towards him.

Sanchi was acting like a mad declaring her love on road who won't be uncomfortable at it ? and she was forcing herself on him physically How can he find it comfortable Every person will be irritated at it so why is wrong here ?

He never used to call Sanchi but only used to return her calls.

Because she called him twice a day a must He said to her whether you call me or i call it does not matter what matters is we talk every day When she called him everyday he did not feel the need he to call her why he should call her when she calls him 2 times a day ?

The way he used to talk with SAnchi in phone plainly indicated his feelings. Any girl would have understood and perhaps Sanchi too udnerstood it. Yet, in her obsession she overlooked it.
And everything happened much before Sanchi's truth is revealed.

Sanchi was forcing herself on him Dominating him No person will enjoy that otherwise he was friendly with her remember the hospital scene Yes Jagya had no feelings for Sanchi but he was trying its another thing she was making him irritated with her acts which are out of bearing of any mortal person

JAgya loved Ganga and if Sanchi would have remained true to her bratty self without any drama, he would have married Sanchi and throughout his life would have faked happiness with Sanchi.

How you think he would have faked happiness ??/ He remained on his promise despite he realized he loves Ganga because he made promise with Sanchi its another thing Sanchi's truth made him break the alliance He was trying hard to forget Ganga and if Sanchi would have been good he would have moved on Not every person in the world marries the person they love yet again they adjust same way he would have

Wasn't it a kind of cheating?

NO He has been clear to her for everything since you presented your post by omitting facts i don't find your points valid

If Sanchi was doing drama to win Jagya's trust, Jagya was doing drama too for his family's sake.

No he was not doing drama for family's sake If he did not love Sanchi he never said he loved her he never faked happiness with her but pin pointed her where he felt she is wrong and he is not finding it right and rest Sanchi knew everything about him even she knew his attachment to Ganga and Mannu and she assured him she has no issue though behind back she had so how he was doing drama ??

Both Sanchi and Jagya had concealed their real intentions and feelings.

He did not hid any real intentions or feelings Sanchi knew everything about him even this he does not love her even this he is marrying for family's sake even this he is not comfortable with her behavior so what he hid from her ?

And it doesn't make Jagya any mahaan because he was doing it for his own priorities and never thought that it could ruin both Sanchi and his life.

lol he is not mahaan but a normal person with noble intentions he did think about Sanchi and tried best to adjust with her He was adjusting with her like all people do in arrange marriages He did not know Sanchi's true colors she has not changed

Ultimately - when Jagya broke off engagement, it was again NOT for Sanchi's sake. It was to save his own family. His decision to break off the engagement is correct but the way he was portraying it that it was for Sanchi's sake, is a plain LIE!!! 😡


LOL this is ridiculous He is not plain lying in fact to make him punch bag you are going out of facts of serial He is telling truth He broke the engagement thinking better for every one for her too coz what Sanchi really is came in front of him He cannot give her what she want from him if he was not thinking better for her he would have blamed her but did he do that ? no so how can you say he did not think for her ..Complete baseless blame

He should considered about Sanchi's personality before saying yes.
He thought she has changed How many times should i tell you ?>He sincerely believed she has changed it was shocker to him she has not

He could have easily said that he needed some time and then he could have discussed it with Anandi because his decision was completely dependent on Anandi.

When he said he will marry a girl of his family's choice when they were finding her correct he said yes and when you say yes to an alliance still then you are seeing your partner so which crime he committed and why he would discuss it with Anandi ? Anandi was standing in mute mode helpless not saying a word if she really had anything against it no person in the world can stop her from approaching Jagya but she did not so what is his fault ???

If he would have known that Anandi does not approve of his marriage with Sanchi, Jagya would have never agreed to the marriage and his family would have been relieved too because the Shekars also initially wanted Jagya to refuse the alliance.

Lol but Anandi never told them anything she is not with this rishta ??here fault is of Anandi if she promised to them she should have told them instead she showed to Jagya she with this rishta with her silence which worked as her approval he plethora of times indirectly asked from her which she understood but did not gesture in any way and to top it all Sumi and DS has warned him not to say anything that get Anandi in trouble coz this is her sasra and mayka matter He cannot openly question her

Jagya's decisions - be his marriage or breaking off engagement - were never taken for Sanchi.

Wrong complete wrong If you remember he did not agree for the proposal until he did not talk with Sanchi He first talked with Singhs , then Shekhars then asked from Anandi he was not convinced he went to talk with Sanchi she said she loves him to the core and will not be able to live without him she knows he does not love her but she will wait for him and he started to work on their relationship after discussion with DS where he clearly showed concern for Sanchi his breaking up with her also was better for everyone including her too since he cannot give her what she wants from him and moreover him not blaming her in front of Shekhars is enough proof he has be concerned for her so what you are saying


And the Shekhars have understood it very well that he never gave any importance to Sanchi and that's why they are so hell bent in punishing him.

Lol absolutely wrong He did give importance to her but its she who was wrong and they are after him for revenge how dare he refuse to marry her which bruised her and theirs ego This very clearly is shown in their acts so what you are assuming ??Shekhars understood nothing if they had the understanding they would behave this way? Never Since you are anti Jagya you are siding Shekhars but you yourself will be proven wrong through Shekhars realization very well How wrong they are so your point completely wrong
Disagree completely

Edited by hina13 - 11 years ago
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It did He appreciated her many times too when she did any good work in her drama but its another thing he did not fall for her because you don't fall for every person

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