Marrying Someone of Suicidal Background

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debbie

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Posted: 12 years ago

Marrying Someone of Suicidal Background

People,

This is an era of love marriages.

Boy & girl both working, financially independent; both meet at work place, in a social gathering, a business conference; mingle up further, find each other attractive, get into relationship finally leading to life time commitment. Families play only a superficial role in the whole affair.

However as far as I can remember my grand parents always used to say that "Family is most important factor"

Now reading the current episodes of BV it seems pretty much true.

Anandi met Shiv and so did her Dadisaa. The old lady thought he is a dream guy for her CHORI and somehow played a key role in their union. However none of them did not judge all members in the family.

Sanchi from day one has been shown as evil. However the main problem here is Shiv adores his little doll over everything else in the world. How a level-headed guy could turn complete insane is rightly sketched in the current episodes.

Shiv himself is patient, and his feet are on the ground. Think about the people who marry psychos like Sanchi. Usually such people have family histories. There are many people who commit suicide if their wishes are not fulfilled; or because they can not face the hardship of life. Most of them have family histories as well. Spare some poor or helpless people who fall prey to misfortunes.

Just imagine how much a husband/wife has to suffer if married to a character like Sanchi. Her beauty, talent and family status would be no use for the partner.

Reference - https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/news/20021010/suicide-risk-linked-to-family-history

Edited by Debbiee - 12 years ago

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india2050

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Posted: 12 years ago

Guess this incident will open SINGH's Eyes wide open that atleast for once Jagya took a good decision.

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Dr.Fear

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Posted: 12 years ago

Thanks for sharing and Sanchi's would be will in be in trouble 😆

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india2050

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Posted: 12 years ago

Sanchi did.nt commit suicide-it was preplanned self attack to gain sympathy.she knew she didnt want to die just wanted to scare jagya into marrying her-worse than suicidal she is CRIMINAL.socho aaj ye haal hai kal ko if she wanted anything else she could cmmit murder also-surprised no psychiatric assessment /counselling was done to her!!!!!

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debbie

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Posted: 12 years ago

I know a lady who used to threat her husband "If you don't bring me a gold necklace this diwali I would commit suicide".. "If you don't do a FD in my name I would commit suicide" blah blah blah. Ultimately one day she did.

Usually the people who threat with suicide or plan suicide often share it with others and even write a suicide note much beforehand. Such people don't fall under sound mental condition.

They need serious help. I wonder how come the educated bunch of Sekhars did not realise that yet. The first thing she needed was psychiatric help and counselling. Her aggression needs sleeping tablets for next few days to cool down 🥱

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MagicalPari

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Debbiee
I know a lady who used to threat her husband "If you don't bring me a gold necklace this diwali I would commit suicide".. "If you don't do a FD in my name I would commit suicide" blah blah blah. Ultimately one day she did.
Usually the people who threat with suicide or plan suicide often share it with others and even write a suicide note much beforehand. Such people don't fall under sound mental condition.

They need serious help. I wonder how come the educated bunch of Sekhars did not realise that yet. The first thing she needed was psychiatric help and counselling. Her aggression needs sleeping tablets for next few days to cool down 🥱

I agree

Me too read in newspaper article that the person who want to commit suicide drops various hints for people around him / her. This people needs treatment, but BV is 🤢

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Awfulggt

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Posted: 12 years ago

My grand mother used to say - One has to look for the past 7 generations of a family(of the mother and father of the guy) before giving a girl into their family! The same thing probably goes for a guy too! Then i used to wonder if anyone would ever get married if the follow this principle!😆😆

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debbie

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.
My grand mother used to say - One has to look for the past 7 generations of a family(of the mother and father of the guy) before giving a girl into their family! The same thing probably goes for a guy too! Then i used to wonder if anyone would ever get married if the follow this principle!😆😆

You are right friend. However even before marriage Sanchi and Choti Maa used to ill-treat her. And both of them were Shiv's dearest ones. She never protested. The same thing got repeated even after marriage. Choti Maa knew her and accepted her wholeheartedly before wedding, however Sanchi never did. Have we forgotten the drama she created on their Sangeet? Has Sumitra totally forgotten it?

How Anandi jumped into such a relationship so soon without a second thought?

Did she assume that she would change everyone in the world with a Jadoo ki chadi?

Edited by Debbiee - 12 years ago

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divine_ram

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Debbiee

You are right friend. However even before marriage Sanchi and Choti Maa used to ill-treat her. And both of them were Shiv's dearest ones. She never protested. The same thing got repeated even after marriage. Choti Maa knew her and accepted her wholeheartedly before wedding, however Sanchi never did. Have we forgotten the drama she created on their Sangeet? Has Sumitra totally forgotten it?

How Anandi jumped into such a relationship so soon without a second thought?
Did she assume that she would change everyone in the world with a Jadoo ki chadi?

Don't worry like chotti maa anandi will reform saanchi one day. Once alok said to Ira before marriage, hope anandi change saanchi behavior. I knew then itself cvs will plan something big.

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