Oct. 16th: Things I liked - Page 7

Originally posted by: Meera...

agree anyone in saachis place wld have felt bad..yaar..and on top fo tht..someone tells u he /sje loves u..anyone in his/her place wld have been irritaed..but jst dont want saanchi to talk harshly to dv tdy..poor boy...

oh it is bound to happen .. :) i mean being a girl i wld do the same as Saachi did.. & that is what a like abt her ! like in others shows girls have no substances,they r just hero's desire filling machine .. i mean one moment she says no & second moment falls into hero's lap..r u kidding me? so i m very happy with the realistic approach here :D and don't wry,soon DV wil win her heart & trust ! :D

Long 8 pages... Gud to read a lot of analysis n diffrnt opinions..

Originally posted by: xaviara

I actually understand what you trying to say, and yes the confession was shown in a very simple and straight forward manner. In my opinion the reason there was no angst in his confession yesterday was because the reason for him confessing was all about reassuring and comforting her, because she kept telling him to leave her, because her bad luck would rub off him too. The angst shown earlier before this was always because of his not being able to express his feelings and to act and be normal around Saachi, which was such a difficult task for him. I think the writers kept only one emotion in mind when writing the confession, and that was DV's worry for Saachi, which was the reason for him blurting out his confession in such an awkward manner.

it did seem so that DV was only worrying for saachi wen he confessed...but we all know that is not true in the deeper sense...i mean DV does love her and is not confessing to console her or to become a support to her...his confession did seem like feeling sorry for her but the actual truth is the confession is true in every way...
wat i feel that the instant DV learnt in panchgani that saachi cannot even think of a relation with him he decided to leave...in any other show the guy wud at least thinking of gving his love a chance before deciding to leave...but he just left not even thinking once that he shud at least try and talk with her...maybe it was because the way saachi showed disgust wen she said that rishi told her DV loves her...DV even said to dils that saachi considers this as ghatiya...i agree with anu that rishi saying this thing polluted the whole thing in saachi's mind...

but the bottomline is that DV left panchgani widout gving love any chance...it was like he was ready to move on in life (reluctantly though)...and then case thing hapnd and this eventual confession...it was like in one episode we get the feeling DV is leaving saachi and then the next we see him confessing...admitted in between he went thru a lot of agony...but if they wud hv won the case then it was obvious that DV wud hv left her again widout confessing...
this also made me feel y the confession scene lacked emotional appeal...a guy who is prepared to move on is proposing to the girl wen she desperately needs a shoulder to cry on...wat does it imply...that he is doing humdardi by confessing...

i entirely blame the writers for this...i only hope from now on they will show DV focusing only on winning her heart rather than assuring her that he will try and win the case for her...because widout lease paper thatz not possible...so they can either show DV searching for the lease paper and once finding it wins the case for her and then after that again confessing love or else he shud stop talking about the case and leave his lawyergiri aside and only focus on convincing her that he loves her...

Originally posted by: bird_fly_ca

I actually liked today's episode - for a change, it was an emotional episode. Saachi finally opened up to DV about her childhood memories, about her aspirations and etc. Saachi is a reserve person by nature, and chooses not to share anything with anyone else. However, for the first time, she bursted out loud about her feelings (knowingly or unknowingly) to DV.

There are two things I didn't quite get about today's episode:(a) slap, and (2) taking advantage.

Slap: Every time a person says "I love you", you slap that person? I'm not sure I followed that part. You slap an individual when a person usually insults or hurts your ego. But, why was she hurt? It's not like she was planning on tying rakhi on DV!

Advantage: Sachi says you're taking advantage of the situation. But, how so? How's telling someone I love you is taking advantage...In fact, wasn't Sachi the one who made DV come back to take up her court case? Wasn't she the one who felt it was okay to share a hotel room? So, really, the rhetorical question is, who is taking advantage of whom?

Okay, fine..who says it needs to be logical ! 😛

I was also quite touched by Saachi opening up about her childhood memories...showed how broken she was to make herself vulnerable enough to share all this.

Re: Slap...lol because these are basic daily soap female characteristics...lol...always presume the worst😆...actually that isn't fair...I saw the same misunderstanding in a Pakistani show too...lol...think about it...most of the times when a younger boy shows interest in an older woman, it's dismissed as either a crush or hormonal lust...cuz the younger man isn't credited with enough maturity to MATURELY approach the woman.

In Saachi's case, yesterday was the absolute worst possible moment to throw something like this at her...she's anyways reeling from having lost the case...she was nowhere near the rational frame of mind to even PROCESS what DV was saying...it's a bolt out of the blue to her as far as she's concerned...so she jumped to the one instant conclusion that most women would jump to if they haven't consciously noticed the signs before...the slap was her lashing out blindly cuz she didn't know what else to say.

Maybe later when she calms down, she will think about what happened vis a vis the hotel room sharing and WHO went out of the room despite her insistence😆

Originally posted by: xaviara

I actually understand what you trying to say, and yes the confession was shown in a very simple and straight forward manner. In my opinion the reason there was no angst in his confession yesterday was because the reason for him confessing was all about reassuring and comforting her, because she kept telling him to leave her, because her bad luck would rub off him too. The angst shown earlier before this was always because of his not being able to express his feelings and to act and be normal around Saachi, which was such a difficult task for him. I think the writers kept only one emotion in mind when writing the confession, and that was DV's worry for Saachi, which was the reason for him blurting out his confession in such an awkward manner.

@bold: Good point...this makes sense now when I think about the scene again...it was a blurted out confession when all that was on his mind was his worry for Saachi and the way she felt so alone...thus the awkwardness...I just wanted him to be a bit firmer and more intense in the scene...but oh well...as you said, this might be the semi-confession...more intense one might follow later😆