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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sorry.

The way Anandi behaved and talked today, no one could be convinced with her.

CM told her how they had to bear with things no matter how wrong it felt. Yet she had her face sullen each time talk of case against Jagya came up.

When she talked to Shiv, she mainly talked about rishta between two families, shame and impact faced by BH wale when police comes to their doorstep, how Jagya was not the only one at fault. Only in the end she added that Sanchi will feel worse when lawyers ask her uncomfortable questions in court.

She could not be diplomatic. She could not be careful with words and convey she supported Shekhars' interests.

This way who'd have been convinced by her?

You call your ex husband by his nickname which only few close family members call him by. You talk of shame your maiyka will have to face. You can't even give impression that you understand family's pain or POV?

I couldn't feel sympathy for Anandi today. I did not think she was convincing.

No wonder Shiv didn't buy whatever she said.

(Strange she is! Earlier showing off that she supported Shekhars she hid truths from both families, now she's talking of shame that will be faced by haveliwallahs or "both families".)

Anandi seriously lacked tact in the way she talked tonight.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

Sorry.

The way Anandi behaved and talked today, no one could be convinced with her.

CM told her how they had to bear with things no matter how wrong it felt. Yet she had her face sullen each time talk of case against Jagya came up.

When she talked to Shiv, she mainly talked about rishta between two families, shame and impact faced by BH wale when police comes to their doorstep, how Jagya was not the only one at fault. Only in the end she added that Sanchi will feel worse when lawyers ask her uncomfortable questions in court.

She could not be diplomatic. She could not be careful with words and convey she supported Shekhars' interests.

This way who'd have been convinced by her?

You call your ex husband by his nickname which only few close family members call him by. You talk of shame your maiyka will have to face. You can't even give impression that you understand family's pain or POV?

I couldn't feel sympathy for Anandi today. I did not think she was convincing.

No wonder Shiv didn't buy whatever she said.

(Strange she is! Earlier showing off that she supported Shekhars she hid truths from both families, now she's talking of shame that will be faced by haveliwallahs or "both families".)

Anandi seriously lacked tact in the way she talked tonight.

I had little relief when shiv said sancho will get punished for her suicide attempt. He just wants to punish jagya and dont really care about hurting singhs. He is more hurt as J broke his trust. Anandi will become mahaan again by helping singhs as they are right this time. She failed big time balancing both the families. I am sure shiv will get hurt big time and separation soon.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree there
She should have talked facts. She should have spoken about how Sanchi isn't entirely innocent and that in court such facts could have a negative interpretation. She should have pointed out how there wasn't really a viable case against Jagya
Instead she cried (Sigh!) and spoke about BH people izzat crap
She wasted an opportunity to talk some sense

But I was thoroughly upset with Shiv too today. Ira was a certified lunatic , but Shiv...It's sad
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shiv was earlier moved and in two minds when CM had spoken. But I believe Anandi's convo to him spoiled it. She put brakes on his introspection by mentioning haveli wallahs and Jagya.

BTW, isn't it hypocritical? She drags others to court and barks about laws whereas talks against "kanooni jhanjhat" and issues of family respect etc. when cases concern her family (read Jagya)?

I was thinking Shiv would manage Sanchi's case using his influence. But I am relieved he did not do so yet.

I wasn't convinced by Anandi's words myself. What to talk of debating Shiv's behaviour?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

Shiv was earlier moved and in two minds when CM had spoken. But I believe Anandi's convo to him spoiled it. She put brakes on his introspection by mentioning haveli wallahs and Jagya.

BTW, isn't it hypocritical? She drags others to court and barks about laws whereas talks against "kanooni jhanjhat" and issues of family respect etc. when cases concern her family (read Jagya)?

I was thinking Shiv would manage Sanchi's case using his influence. But I am relieved he did not do so yet.

I wasn't convinced by Anandi's words myself. What to talk of debating Shiv's behaviour?


It was anandi mistake that she did not punish J for bigamy. Every women should take her husband to court when he dicthes her to another women. She was mahaan excused jagya for the family but will she advice the same concept in her NGO.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Tactlessness is an understatement.🤢
She was right in that there is nothing to be gained by persecuting Jagya it will only increase bitterness.Instead of using this point to convince Shiv she went on and on about how it will affect Singhs and how it is not only Jagya who is at fault and blah blah😡

She could have given her own example as to why she did not sue Jagya for bigamy.She did not do it mainly because nothing to be achieved by that.

I hope this goes to court of law and she is forced to testify against Singhs.




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Posted: 12 years ago
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"Nothing will be achieved by the court case" is a lame excuse. If Anandi had filed bigamy case against Jagya - he could not have dared to again play with other girls lives. Sanchi is what she is - no one can have sympathy with her. But agreeing to marry someone and then breaking the engagement when even marriage cards have been distributed citing incompatibility and marrying another girl saying he loved her! And what was the real reason - Sanchi badmouthing his family - is it such an evil thing? If this criteria is applied - more than half of India's daughters-in-law end up being divorced/abandoned. Even bribing the pandit for a specific marriage date is morally wrong but not a crime as per law. What Jagya did was wrong - it is just that Sanchi's character is so bad with one and all that people think that Jagya is right this time.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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just being sincere and honest is not sufficient u need to convince and handle smartly
the way she handled the issue of canal project by which shiv was impressed
but today her dialogs where not of convincing type instead it was of caring for singh it showed her concerned for singhs and no concerned for saanchi hence Shiv told told "mana ki woh apki sagi nahi par kuch to hai".
ab to anandi bewakoof si laag rahi hai kab kaise bolna chahiye samajta nahi bas roti hai aur misunderstanding badati hai kon bolega wo sarpanch thi
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

Sorry.

The way Anandi behaved and talked today, no one could be convinced with her.

CM told her how they had to bear with things no matter how wrong it felt. Yet she had her face sullen each time talk of case against Jagya came up.

When she talked to Shiv, she mainly talked about rishta between two families, shame and impact faced by BH wale when police comes to their doorstep, how Jagya was not the only one at fault. Only in the end she added that Sanchi will feel worse when lawyers ask her uncomfortable questions in court.

She could not be diplomatic. She could not be careful with words and convey she supported Shekhars' interests.

This way who'd have been convinced by her?

You call your ex husband by his nickname which only few close family members call him by. You talk of shame your maiyka will have to face. You can't even give impression that you understand family's pain or POV?

I couldn't feel sympathy for Anandi today. I did not think she was convincing.

No wonder Shiv didn't buy whatever she said.

(Strange she is! Earlier showing off that she supported Shekhars she hid truths from both families, now she's talking of shame that will be faced by haveliwallahs or "both families".)

Anandi seriously lacked tact in the way she talked tonight.



very true...OMG anandi was a sarpanch and teacher...whose work was that to convince the other about her own POV...she is really become tactless...she can not asked shiv ...you should stand yourself in the place of J...if girl like sanchi will too much obsessed for you then you will bear it?...she can ask him if you will be in my place and i will going to file case against shekhers and sanchi then what will be your reaction...or she can asked her if you think that sanchi's love is a true love ...then why should not you make a tatto of my name on your hand...after all you too love me..?...But know now a days anandi have no works other than shading tear...what hapened to anandi dear...where is my strong girl who can convince anybody in the world...in fact once upon a time SRS was too amamzed by her tactfulness and convincing power.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anandi tried to convince Shiv today, she was right that court case will spoil Sanchis future, and questions will be asked by the lawyers will not be easy to digest by any of the family members. Police asked whether Sanchi was pregnent or not but Lawyer will further in detail whether they had sexual relationship and what not. SO I FEEL TODAY ANANDI WAS RIGHT, SHE TRIED TO WARN SHIV THE Consequences OF THE COURT.

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