Asad betrays Zoya yet again [VB Note - Pg9] - Page 10

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

@anushreemishra---nikhat was about to return back with her in-laws, therefore it was important for zoya to stay back, there is no point at ruining nikhat's happiness at the last minute, zoya can wait a few more hours

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

This is certainly not about the actors so if my comment is taken as that, dont even bother dissing me about it.

Both Asad and Zoya are not perfect peolple. They both are flawed .. BUT what Asad has done Zoya has been a part of it.. YES Asad should take her back but why has Zoya not spoken up? If she is not wrong is she is not guilty she can speak up and walk off . But why does she not do it? Because she knows that unknowingly a string of events has caused this and she is responsible for it IN A WAY too. Zoya at least made a mistake big or small which she pays for. What did Asad do in all of it to pay for what happened? Zoya gave priority to Najma over Asad. Asad gave priority to Nikhat over Zoya. They both have sacrificed and both are pained. That is why this situationh hasnt soured anything between them. Because they both know there was no way out. As viewers we kmow there wrre logocal ways to get out of it but as characters and story there wasn't. When they both dont blame each other.Why cant we get over blame games.

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

@anushreemishra---nikhat was about to return back with her in-laws, therefore it was important for zoya to stay back, there is no point at ruining nikhat's happiness at the last minute, zoya can wait a few more hours

Originally posted by: VashH

Hey. Happy that this topic was opened. The views and comments posted was so refreshing . No two individuals think alike . But when u have a chance to actually share each other's thoughts this way .. It's very educational . I think the writers are brilliantly tickling our brain . The responses on each incident is measuring up to the message they are trying to send out . We are really the victims because in reality these are the hurdles life throws at us .changes has to be made but cannot be made without understanding why . Sorry if I offended anyone . I did so deliberately . It's not in me to question and make it personal . This forum really rocks. .

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

No worries Vash...this is a place where everyone shares their views and everyone interprets things differently. The way I see it, life is about making choices and later adapting to the choices you make and face the repercussions. Some choices are right and some are wrong, but end of the day it's the choices we make that we have to face the repercussions for.

Originally posted by: bheegi

Hi Pri

I haven't read all the comments but I will play devil's advocate here

We are talking about how Asad has betrayed Zoya again but what about the opposite scenario?

Each time Zoya asked Asad about his wishes, he always said one thing: I want to marry you. That was his one and only request from Zoya

What did she do to fulfill his wish? She decided to play Bond on their nikaah night and of course as always got into trouble.

If Asad was her priority, she would have never left him like that. At least, she would have talked to him before playing Bond. Didn't she betray him first?

Basically, both Asad and Zoya have prioritized other people over one another and that's the price they are paying.

As I have said before, Asya need to learn to put their own oxygen masks on first before trying to help others.

After this track, they will learn to do that.

Originally posted by: bheegi

Also, if we are talking about self respect- what about a man's self respect?

Why would Asad want to accept Zoya after she got married to someone else on their nikaah night? Wouldn't that wound his feelings? Even though Zoya keeps harping that it's an accident, they all do think that a nikaah did take place.

What if it were the other way around? What if Asad came back and said- oops I got married accidentally but I really want to be with you Zoya.

I am sure as a woman, we will all be furious at Asad for taking Zoya for granted. We would all want Zoya to leave him forever, won't we?

In Asad and Zoya's story both are culprits so I hate to point fingers at the man alone

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

so what nikaht will keep visiting her home so is zoya suppose to stay in SM for her entire life?and everyone said that she could return to SM after Nikhat's nikaah...now since that is done it wouldn't befair to ask her to stay in SM for nikhat's post marriage rituals