Why SAS BAHU & SAZEESH in INDIA only??
VS
Dear Readers,
I still remember as a child/teen-ager once I was watching tele where an adv was showing on some Jivan ghutti. The mother-in-law was saying something goody goody to her daughter in law. "Bahu baby ko jeevan ghooti pilaya ki nehin? Isse pet bhi thik rehta hai...blah blah".
There was some Mausi/chachi in our place who commented "Sas never talks to Bahu in such a pampered way"
That was the first time I came to know that mother-in-law was something horrible in a female's life.
Gradually I got education, started working, travelled across the world and never did I find that "Mother-in-law" is treated in an evil way than ours. So why it's only India where Mother-in-laws are considered so dangerous by Bahus and vice versa?
Years later I got married and I find my mom-in-law the cutest lady around. Let me tell you people that it was never like that since day one. We had our own reservations and gradually we knew each other. We sorted out our differences and started living under the same roof with all possible happiness in life.
Let me tell you that my mom-in-law is very different from me. I am a pure non-vegetarian whereas she does not eat even onion and garlic, mustard oil and the list is very long. So if either of us is not careful then we would easily end up hurting each other. But that never happens. She takes care of the home, the kamwali, khana-bananewali etc etc. along with the kids. I take care of my office, my work. I don't interfere in her area and she does not in mine. If you ask me; myself and my husband cannot think of a single day in life without their presence. I remember recently when I told my mom-in-law that I might have to travel Hong Kong for few days for work; she made a face similar to what my daughters did; as if crying out loud.
After thinking a lot in this area, I come to this conclusion. Each human being wishes to prove him/herself in some area. We often find differences only when we try to prove our supremacy over the other in a particular area. If we avoid that then there won't be much problem in life.
The current track in BV is one of the worst for me. However how come the TRPs are up? It's because many Indians love to watch this. MASALEDAR..CHATPATA episodes. May be at some corner of mind people try to relate themselves to the character. But these negative tracks end up corrupting our mindset on the relationship.
Why they don't show Sister-Sister SAZEESH? Why don't they show Mother-Daughter SAZEESH? Don't we ever fight with them in life? You got what I mean to say.
Common Indian viewers, let's grow up. Please stop watching such episodes where such immature and silly stuff is being shown. The TRP would go down and no producer/director/writer would dare to show such negative tracks in any of the serials in future.
Let's do something meaningful in life rather than polluting our mind by such KHAYALI SAS-BAHU KHICHDI and keeping grudges against our near and dear ones.
As I believe if the love and understanding between a couple in intact no external relationship could ever affect them for long.
Arjun
Anupamaa
