Why everyone is forgetting JODHA has lost everthing

Everyone is thinking about Jodha is too stubborn. I don't blam her to be like that for following reason:

jodha is not reacting correctly

Originally posted by: jeannierocks

jodha is not reacting correctly

she has to beat up jalal for his actions

Originally posted by: shahbhavini

Everyone is thinking about Jodha is too stubborn. I don't blam her to be like that for following reason:

1. She had to get married to the person who she thinks her #1 enemy. Yep, that's right.

2. Her parents didn't left her any choice other than getting married to him. hmm. But you see.. her hatred is only reserved for him. She doesn't blame her family for anything. It was bhairmal who had taken the proposal in the first place.. NOT JALAL.

3. Jalal has not to change anything. Jalal has same life with his queens and his state... Everything Jodha has to suffer, New State, New Culture and Jallad (My sweetu Jalu😉) hubby.Every woman has to do that.. But Jalal has made a lot of adjustments. Even Jodha accepted this in Monda's epi. Many people are against jalal 'cuz of this.

4. She think Jalal has killed raja suraybhan. I don't think the thought even bothers her. She never thought of him, once.. But when she was Mr sunshine.. she took Jalal's name atleast 10 times 😆

5. She is not getting respect from Jalal in front of other people or in private. First night drunk episode..Before that she disprespected him publicly..

religion and culture was her two condition before marrige. Jalal is not doing any favour to her .he is following her conditions. Her parents may have forced her to accept it on Jalal's terms and conditions..

6. She does hate him and she metioned many many times but what Jalal has done nothing for her to make her happy. He knew what (parityakta) means. and gave her that option right after MC track .you better stay happy with me means accept me or go back to Amer. He has not given her enough time.

Actually, that was his attempt to make things right with her. Even in the Meena bazar.. he was good to her and she disrespected him publicly..

He was wrong in many occassion 1st sing in front of lot of people 2nd chess competition 3rd MC track. He did not even tried to understand her situation. He was wrong right... There was nothing wrong with he chess competition.. Rukaiya fell face down..

She is left out from everyone. Her own family , Husband at this stage she has no one she can trust on. In 1500 century women were not that independent. They can not live their life by themselves. So decide to kill her self what is wrong in it...The way she behaves with Jalal. .. no 16th century woman can.. especially who is also an emperor and has absolute power. The way he gave in to her wishes, the way he apologised publicly speaks volumes about him.. He did not have to do it..

If you love person you don't hurt them. At least not in front of court.He doesn't love her.

My all sympathy with JODHA not JALAL...

Sorry I have put too much favouring Jodha than Jalal. Both of them have made mistakes but Jalal has been far more understanding.. He tries to take a step forward and Jodha takes 10 steps backwards.

Both have made mistakes..Both are at fault.

This is my first topic so bare with me but I could hold myself... I think Jodha is reacting correctly.

Originally posted by: shahbhavini

Everyone is thinking about Jodha is too stubborn. I don't blam her to be like that for following reason:

I think more than stubborn she is prejudiced...

1. She had to get married to the person who she thinks her #1 enemy.

yup...he was an enemy...point taken...

2. Her parents didn't left her any choice other than getting married to him.

Her parents are a party too...so, she can't blame jalal for everything...her father chose alliance over battle...and, unfortunately she was the price...

3. Jalal has not to change anything. Jalal has same life with his queens and his state... Everything Jodha has to suffer, New State, New Culture and Jallad (My sweetu Jalu😉) hubby.

True...she is new to that culture...she needs time...she had started to settle in there but with mc track things went for a toss...jalal let her follow her religion and customs...he was under no obligation to let her do so...but, he always respected her religious sentiments...it's a huge thing...

4. She think Jalal has killed raja suraybhan.

I think surya is a closed chapter...and, good that she moved on...

5. She is not getting respect from Jalal in front of other people or in private. First night drunk episode..

She also gives as hard as she gets...but, yeah asking her to sing in the court was bad...she was rude to him in meena bazar...btw, she once scolded adham in front of everyone..but, jalal patiently asked her to leave...

religion and culture was her two condition before marrige. Jalal is not doing any favour to her .he is following her conditions.

After marrying her...he could have easily refused to fulfil his promises...but, he stuck to his words...I think he deserves credit here...

6. She does hate him and she metioned many many times but what Jalal has done nothing for her to make her happy. He knew what (parityakta) means. and gave her that option right after MC track .you better stay happy with me means accept me or go back to Amer. He has not given her enough time.

She was given two options...she chose amer...the holi fiasco left her option less...

He was wrong in many occassion 1st sing in front of lot of people 2nd chess competition 3rd MC track. He did not even tried to understand her situation.

Agreed...he should NOT have asked her to sing on the court...he was cruel to her in mc track...nazarbandi was okay...but...threatening her was wrong..he tried to rectify his mistake by apologising...whether to forgive him or not...the choice lies and should lie with jodha...

She is left out from everyone. Her own family , Husband at this stage she has no one she can trust on. In 1500 century womens were not that independent. They can not live their life by themselves. So decide to kill her self what is wrong in it...

she is an emotional wreck...that's why such a harsh step...

If you love person you don't hurt them. At least not in front of court.

he doesn't love her...he is obsessed with her...but, doesn't love her..

My all sympathy with JODHA not JALAL...

Sorry I have put too much favouring Jodha than jalal

Never be sorry...it's your opinion...you have every right to express it...😊

This is my first topic so bare with me but I could hold myself... I think Jodha is reacting correctly.

@ shahbhavini, both are at loggerheads n this is not less than a Jung for either. N as we know, everything z fair in love n war. Yahaan to dono hai. @ jeannierocks & aanchal_c, Jodha should slap Jalal?
Hellow!!!
Jodha ko bhadkaneki kya zaroorat thi?
Jodha ne tum logoke mann ki sun li. N thappad chodo, tiger muh pe mar diya bechare Jalal k!!

Originally posted by: jeannierocks

jodha is not reacting correctly

she has to beat up jalal for his actions

wah wah kyaa baat hai alakh and suvi...mwah...

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

You do realize that he can actually kill her for her behavior with him?

Originally posted by: lashy

wah wah kyaa baat hai alakh and suvi...mwah...

as i mentioned elsewhere..no one's ever going to argue that Jodha didn't lose anything...she did lose a lot...but, she's also not looking at what she's gained...and THAT is the issue/cause for at least some of her suffering!

😃