Was anandi's support - Page 3

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

True , she is neither responsible for Saanchi nor Ganga .

But she herself MADE herself responsible by grooming Saanchi and telling Ganga to phone her if she needed to talk about Jagya

when all the time after the rishta was taken without asking her opinion she should have stayed OUT .

She opted NOT to stay out but get involved or these people today would not have the himmat to tell her to get involved and salvage THEIR blunders .

She can STILL refuse to get involved . My guess is she WON'T .

Neither is Ganga related to Shiv nor is Jagya Ganga personal attraction any of his concern but

i feel she should have apprised him of a lot of happenings simply as a husband . Not that he would have got involved or something ...one simply talks to a husband .

Anandi does NOT .

She did not apprise him of many small details .

Saanchi's atrocious behaviour at her maika

Her suspicion that Jagya may be attracted to Ganga

that Ganga may feel the same

that Saanchi bribed the pundit for both the engagement and the wedding

overhearing Saanchi TWICE

Saanchi saying one thing and doing the other ...saying she will change him according to her tastes [ see her dialogues when Anandi pointed out that Jagya does not wear bright colors] but acting as if she is moulding herself according to his tastes

Anandi did not mention many small details to Shiv . These details were small but have become very important today . Small details also make a husband wife conversation in a bedroom before they romance and just swap day to day details .

Shiv would not have acted on each detail ...but they would be tucked away at the back of his mind and there would be no scope for any misunderstandings between him and Anandi . Her habit of remaining silent will perhaps bombard on her .

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

When sanchi opens about ganga anandi bonhomie, shiv surely is going to ask anandi as to why she never squeaked about gang Jagya special relationship. anandi again may say that she was not sure but definietely it will not go down well with Shiv or Ira. they will think that anandi has hidden a very important aspect of Jagdish ganga from them. As some other member put it a wife and husband discuss many things relevant and irrelevant and anandi becoming suddenly scrupulous will not gell well. So she will have to be in the dog house for a while.😆 Until shiv takes pity on her.

The thing is one cant stay good with both sides...one has to take up stand and a side...

Anandi did not ..she is justas always portrayed as Miss goody two shoes and trying to be sweeter than sugar to evryone...

dono patthar par pair rakhoge do doob jaaoge..

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

True , she is neither responsible for Saanchi nor Ganga .

But she herself MADE herself responsible by grooming Saanchi and telling Ganga to phone her if she needed to talk about Jagya

when all the time after the rishta was taken without asking her opinion she should have stayed OUT .

She opted NOT to stay out but get involved or these people today would not have the himmat to tell her to get involved and salvage THEIR blunders .

She can STILL refuse to get involved . My guess is she WON'T .

Neither is Ganga related to Shiv nor is Jagya Ganga personal attraction any of his concern but

i feel she should have apprised him of a lot of happenings simply as a husband . Not that he would have got involved or something ...one simply talks to a husband .

Anandi does NOT .

She did not apprise him of many small details .

Saanchi's atrocious behaviour at her maika

Her suspicion that Jagya may be attracted to Ganga

that Ganga may feel the same

that Saanchi bribed the pundit for both the engagement and the wedding

overhearing Saanchi TWICE

Saanchi saying one thing and doing the other ...saying she will change him according to her tastes [ see her dialogues when Anandi pointed out that Jagya does not wear bright colors] but acting as if she is moulding herself according to his tastes

Anandi did not mention many small details to Shiv . These details were small but have become very important today . Small details also make a husband wife conversation in a bedroom before they romance and just swap day to day details .

Shiv would not have acted on each detail ...but they would be tucked away at the back of his mind and there would be no scope for any misunderstandings between him and Anandi . Her habit of remaining silent will perhaps bombard on her .

Originally posted by: aparnauma

@tm -

I don't think supporting Ganga or Sanchi is her undoing.

She had doubts about Sanchi and Ganga's feelings for Jagya at about the same time.

Ganga is a nobody for her she is just someone her family has given shelter to.She did feel a certain kinship with Ganga but in no way was she responsible for her welbeing.

She confessed her doubts about Sanchi to Shiv because she is family.There is no reason for Anandi to tell Shiv or anybody in his family about Ganga's feelings for Jagya because Ganga is of no concern for them.

As for supporting Sanchi - she always felt that Jagya Sanchi marriage is a bad idea and tried convincing them when they did not listen to her she just did her bit help Sanchi get acquianted with Haweli and it's way of life so that Sanchi can prepare herself.She did it because Sanchi was family.

Ganga was never ever her responsibility She was Singhs mainly Jagya and DS's responsibility.She was just someone she liked and bonded with her like a girl bonding with another girl.After all she had more in common with Ganga than she had with Sanchi.She never supported Ganga against the family members.She was angry with Sumi for allowing a lone woman with a small child to leave home in the middle of the night.She was not responsible for the way Sumi treated Ganga.When Sanchi behave d badly with Ganga she apologiesed on behalf of Sanchi.

As for her not thinking of Ganga as a possible partner for Jagya it was not her responsibility.It was his family to see someone suitable for Jagya and have her meet the girl.

When she had doubts about Jagya's feelings for Ganga she confronted him and tried to bring this issue to Shiv.But it was Shiv who brushed away her concerns.

She kept quiet about Jagya Ganga issue because that has no role in SaJa break up.

There was never any support for Ganga - Jagya from her despite her liking Ganga and thinking in the end that they are right for each other.

She supported Sanchi and her efforts to change herself.It was Sanchi who did the cheating and will most likely blame her falsely.

you just wrote my heart out!
even we viewers who say Anandi shouldnt get involved get any opportunity in put Anandi into people's bussiness.
she cant sit in the house as if nothing is happening. and until she is evidence she she not suppose to act.
she support JaSa because she thought, even though Sanchi is childish, she seems to love Jagya and is changing for him. She also thought Jagya accepted Sanchi because he also likes her.
she thought Ganga's love is one sided so why should she support JaSa for a one sided love?.

the only fault Anandi ever had was to ignore the priest when he told her that Sanchi paid him for a false date. i felt she should have let Shiv know at least.

i dont think anandi was responsible about telling anyone about ganga's feelings but yes she should have told shiv about sanchi's behavior towards her n ganga . also she shoudl have told DS n others about the pandit incident as soon as she found out. n when jagya broke off the rishta and she told the shekhars about sanhci's converstaion she should also have called up DS n singhs n told them clearly what happened.

Instead of Anandi, it is Jagya's fault for not communicating with his family. He should have told the reason why he broke the engagement, that he loves Ganga and Ganga loves him. Why Anandi has to tell these things to anyone. Anandi had not taken the decision - either to take the rishta of Sanchi for Jagya or to break the engagement. She could have told Shiv about various things that she knew, but it is not because she was hiding these things. What will she gain by hiding? Anandi never told Shiv even about Sachi bad behaviour with herself, so her not telling anything about Sanchi's behaviour towards Ganga does not amount to hiding.