Bhabo the mother lost to Sandhya the bahu

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Posted: 12 years ago
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The highlight of today's epi was Sandhya's dumb charade breaking the ego of Bhabo and bringing out the motherly love in her for her son. Sandhya the ideal bahu did what was good for RP by breaking through Bhabo's silence for days towards Sooraj. Sandhya the bahu allowed herself to be dumb to provoke her saas and make her realize she does love her son and cannot see him in misery.
Only problem is Sandhya the wife is not realizing the impact of her actions on her relationship with her husband. Sandhya the wife does not realize that though Bhabo's motherly love for her son coming out , her anger towards his wife is growing. Anger for not taking good care of her son.

Today Sandhya Kothari the bahu won and Sandhya Rathi the wife lost. I want to see how Sandhya Rathi will be able to defeat Sandhya Kothari because only Sandhya Rathi will be able to get appreciation from Bhabo not Sandhya Kothari.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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good post shruthi
today's episode was better
sandy's dumbness was enjoyable ( bhindi)
right from teh first scene all went sandy's way as she per her plan
and she succeeded too as per the precap

the bhindi scene was the best 🤣

now its going to be sandy winning all the way
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Posted: 12 years ago
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if she isnt sandy rathi then she wont do all this.so she is doing all this bcz she s sandhya rathi.she s doing all for suraj and bhabo not for bhabo alone.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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No Sindhu Sandhya Rathi Sooraj's wife will never allow Sooraj's self respect down by degrading herself. See if a wife degrads herself like giving him a daag wala kurtha, ask a man to tell him he is looking sick , tell a child that she has burned vegetables etc.. because a wife's insult is husband's insult too. Especially in this case where Sooraj has stuck his neck out for her she proving Bhabo right delibrately is going against her husband's trust which a wife should never do.
But Sandhya Kothari the bahu who carries the sanskaars of her parents does not think about herself. her sanskaars have taught her to treat her MIL like goddess and her own mother and she should not be a cause of pain to her. her son giving love to her keeping her above his mother is not right as per the sanskaar Sandhya Kothari has got. So it Sandhya Kothari's sanskaar that is allowing her to be belittled in front of Bhabo
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yeah.. This is coz of Suraj Ji..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sandhya might be very silly in trying these tactics but this is the only thing Bhabho responds to by taking care of Suraj and then putting forth another condition for SurYa to please her.
Bhabho is very tough to be convinced for IPS even if Sandhya does a whole lot of things her whole life. Bhabho is very adamant in her stand, she wants Sandhya to only serve Rathi parivaar.

The hints of forthcoming tracks look interesting.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i am sure arvind Kothari must be banging his head against a wall up there.
whatever she is doing now will not serve the bigger purpose.
whatever,if they show bhabho changing...I'll be amused.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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As much as I love this show overall the current track is just not doing it for me - I get that Suraj and Sandhya needed to separate themselves from the family so that Sandhya can focus on her IPS tests/training etc. Suraj had to take a very difficult decision - his mother being dead against his wife's dreams and playing dirty games to sabotage her inevitable win - which is essentially ruining their family peace - he opted to support his wife as is a husband's duty and stepped aside. He's still trying to fulfill his responsibilities as an older brother and the eldest son.
There are sooo many loop holes to this track that I just don't feel excited to watch anymore.
- Suraj and Sandhya decided to move out (best decision of their life) but he ends up right across from them.. ridiculous. Thats clearly not enough space for anyone to miss anyone.
-Bhabo is so disgruntled that Suraj and Sandhya moved out - she wants to treat them like outsiders but she still accepts Suraj's daily earnings.
- Sandhya's ditsy nature towards household chores and cooking is just not acceptable - she's spent a year in the RM - im not expecting her to be savvy but i do expect her to have common sense.
- This damsel in distress trying to bring mother and son closer is cute but she's making the same mistake she always makes - she's keeping suraj in the dark.

In my opinion Suraj and Sandhya should have moved far far away from the mad house, sent them a check every month, separated their accounts and lived peacefully.
I personally don't like the custom of grown children living with their parents - i think everyone needs their space and its unnatural for grown children to live with their parents. If parents come visit them for a few months at a stretch thats ok but living with them - thats not something id be comfortable with. I do understand its a cultural thing and in some cases its practical from a financial standpoint but from a purely individualistic and matrimonial stand point - i don't agree with it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A woman cannot play the role of SAAS and mother in an honest manner...though mother lost but SAAS is still winning...

A woman can play BAHU and BETI in an honest manner because the roles are played at different houses...so a bahu is winning
Edited by timepass - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Rosamine...welcome to the forum

I completely agree with you Rosa...this time sandhya is acting dumb for suraj only...unlike other times where she tries to impress bhabo...the act is justified, but the approach could have been better


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