Anandi...dominant only in her comfort zone !!! - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Skepblun

Ganga was able to say things as it is because she was not related to anyone. No strings attached.

Anandi used to be frank once. But all that spirit was laid to rest by DS.

Now she thinks ten times before speaking in family issues.

And in KB she has to be more careful because she is a new entry and she is already treated as someone who Shekhars helped or someone who trapped Shiv. She is bashed even for bit of social work she does.

She was accused of hating Sanchi.

Then it is natural she would be hesitant to speak against Sanchi even if it was truth that she was telling.

I agree she should be more firm and proactive.

I wish she had talked to Bhairon so that maamla could be handled from Singhs' side at least. Chhup kar hi phone kar deti!

Excellent analysis ! But it is not correct on the part of Anandi to support a wrong person on all occasions !! At least now she has to expose that double faced girl ...and take care of the family's dignity. ...that's what she is going to do in the coming episodes !!
Edited by SEETHA.K - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: jayakalaj


@bold, how can she do tht? she was made to believe from her childhood that she should not talk matters of her sasural to ppl in her maika😊. even i felt she could have spoken to Bhairon atleast.


then why she did talk to her own father about jagya s rishta for sanchi? 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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BH was where she was brought...it was her family plus she knew if she said something wrong Bhairon and Sumitra would always support her but it's not same for her in KB...only Shiv can support her and even there he has influence in any matter only to some extent
I never found Anandi unique when it comes to being bahu...in face i would say Parvati and Tulsi were better bahus and amazing women compared to Anandi...Anandi is too soft for her or anyone's good.
One of the members said she supports and sympathizes with Saanchi because she sees herself in her place...but i feel any normal human being would have seen the difference she and Saanchi has...Anandi was not faking anything or breaking people's trust whereas even for love Saanchi choose a very wrong way...Anandi found it hard to believe that Saanchi was faking everything and she could be so bad where as any normal person with whom Saanchi has always been rude would have immediately connected dots and accepted how bad saanchi can be
i think after taking so much responsibilities on her head form childhood Anandi is actually used to having duties to mend situations and because of that she cannot help but interfere in everyone's matters and also take up everyone's responsibility

I don't think it's right to compare Ganga and Anandi...Anandi and Ganga are very different and they were also brought up in their environment...Anandi like Ganga had a bal vivah but fortunately neither was her husband too old and neither abusive...in fact except Dadisa no one was mean or bad to Anandi...she also had her parents...Ganga had very bad relatives and a bunch of monsters in form of sasural...i think compared to Ganga Anandi lived like a princess...tough situations made Ganga tougher than Anandi and technically Ganga is not related to anyone or has any relation with anyone so she can speak up to anyone without much care for relations and stuff...she neither related to Singhs and after divorce nor to her in-laws...her only relation is with her son Mannu


Edited by libsrocks - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Spilling the beans on Sa to Shekhars earlier on could have been an easier option - but A chose to look at the fact that Shekhars would get hurt with it! Her mistake is that she cares for happiness of other people! There were way too many people involved in this, Singhs, Shekhars and Sa and J
She wasnt even sure on Sa's status quo - she put up a drama in front of the family of being Miss Goody two shoes, Sumi-Sa were bonding fine on face value - what was she to say? and she did opine long back that Saja is incompatible - what happened then - Sa convinced everyone that she was changing for J!
And now, even if she will finally point out Sa's mistakes - it will all come back on her - because Sa will convince the Shekhars anyway...it is the Shekhars who are bunch of fools - even if she would have spilled the beans earlier - it wouldnt have helped because Shekhars would have supported their daughter anyway
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Here the question is of decision making and thinking !!!
Why has she become sooo dumb after coming to KB??? Whn Saanchi said all these things, inspite of being thr and listening to wht she said, Anandi is saying tht she still cnt believe tht saanchi is wrong!!! Tht ws horribly weird...

Worst of alll, calling the bribing thing as sacha pyar was a nightmare !!! Where are her brains gone????

Ths is wot a Sarpanch quality is??? In tht case, she should support chanda's hubby as well...

And as tvFan2013 mentioned...she ws quick enough to shout at Saanchi whn her Father ws insulted...but wot about the tamasha she made in BH...tht time she didnt utter a word...

If she ws smart enough, she would hv called up Jagya at the time of rishta, and informed him bout ths in advance rather thn just going thr like a dumb person and standing with the family memebers !!!

Also, she told Ganaga, tht she is like her elder sister !!! But hw many times did she show any kind of concern for her after Ganga left for mangalore????




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