Anandi...dominant only in her comfort zone !!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anandi's true characteristics were seen after she got married to shiv...she is like any other normal Bahu who keeps quite, who is scared of speaking !!
It ws easy for her to be outspoken, dominant in BH, coz she ws brought up like a daughter and they were illeterate ppl, the moment she entered a lil high standard family, she could not be the same !!!!

This wsnt smething tht ppl were expecting from Anandi...!!!

It is sooo weird to see Anandi just standing and not giving her opinion most of the times, and sharing it with only Shiv (like most aam bahu does).

Where is tht Anandi who ws a Sarpanch...who used to tke decision rightly, will not think twice if any person is actually wrong?????

Supporting Saanchi till nw ws biggest stupidity !!!

Ganga is way better thn u Anandi...!!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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anandi supporting sanchi even after knowing her truth.
anandi may do everything to win sanchi but sanchi will be the one who will create problems for anandi.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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People in BH are way different from KB.
Bhairon and Sumi doted on her but DS was very strict with her and it was her conditioning that made Anandi the way she is now.

DS never ever allowed her to speak on family matters.

Anandi is a tigress when it comes to tackling issues regarding social justice but with the family members she always kept quite.Even when she tackled Heth Singh over something DS was very angry with her and did not atlk to her.

But the difference is that DS and Anandi learnt to love each other.

Anandi had to earn the position of daughter in BH.It was not freely given to her.Mostly because of guilt feeling.BH members felt guilty for what Jagya had done to her specially DS because it was partly due to her fault that Jagya left Anandi.That's the reason they bonded with each other.

This Anandi seen in KB is someone trained by DS.

Supporting Sanchi's wrong doings is different from supporting Sanchi when she is in need.
As of now she is still coming to terms with Sanchi's true colors and finally she is convinced about Sanchi and she told about her in front of the family.
Now Sanchi whatever kind of human being she may be she needs support and I hope ANandi supports her.
Edited by aparnauma - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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She will show her courage in other familes like Chandha's and even get them arrested (dont care about breaking their rishta) . but plays a spectator role in her sasural she cant speak the truth and even hide the truth about her SIL. COWARD😡
Edited by shalinii173 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Lets wait and watch - Anandi is five years old character. Ganga is not even one year. All that glitters is not gold. And BV want to play around, so hope your joy remains forever.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i dont agree that ganga is better than anandi
obviously anandi has so much responsibilities to handle plus
she also needs to maintain the peace, integrity and happiness of the both the houses without having any clash in either side

BH people are like the real (mayka) family where she can speak her heart out
but she cant do the same coz she is a bahu of KB and obviously she will hav to go by her in laws, she only can share her opinion with them but cant put her decision
and obviously not with sachi coz sanchi has her parents to decide about her
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ganga was able to say things as it is because she was not related to anyone. No strings attached.

Anandi used to be frank once. But all that spirit was laid to rest by DS.

Now she thinks ten times before speaking in family issues.

And in KB she has to be more careful because she is a new entry and she is already treated as someone who Shekhars helped or someone who trapped Shiv. She is bashed even for bit of social work she does.

She was accused of hating Sanchi.

Then it is natural she would be hesitant to speak against Sanchi even if it was truth that she was telling.

I agree she should be more firm and proactive.

I wish she had talked to Bhairon so that maamla could be handled from Singhs' side at least. Chhup kar hi phone kar deti!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@TM, I disagree with the heading itself.
When did Anandi try dominating? as far as i know she never dominated anybody.

she believes in winning people , not dominating. she even won the hearts of the highly dominating DS with her patience . she always tolerated the insult on her , but she always reacted when someone in her family is insulted. she can go to any extend for her family. thts y she is tolerating Sanch's nonsense. i am sure one day she will change Sanchi too.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

Ganga was able to say things as it is because she was not related to anyone. No strings attached.

Anandi used to be frank once. But all that spirit was laid to rest by DS.

Now she thinks ten times before speaking in family issues.

And in KB she has to be more careful because she is a new entry and she is already treated as someone who Shekhars helped or someone who trapped Shiv. She is bashed even for bit of social work she does.

She was accused of hating Sanchi.

Then it is natural she would be hesitant to speak against Sanchi even if it was truth that she was telling.

I agree she should be more firm and proactive.

I wish she had talked to Bhairon so that maamla could be handled from Singhs' side at least. Chhup kar hi phone kar deti!


@bold, how can she do tht? she was made to believe from her childhood that she should not talk matters of her sasural to ppl in her maika😊. even i felt she could have spoken to Bhairon atleast.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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h mm sanchi insulted A's mayka too. was not her family? then also she kept silence!! when sanchi insulted A's real father she reacted immediately so where is the equality . i can see here only hypocrisy
sanchi has filled up her brain with lots of poison for sings still A is supporting her
Edited by tvFan2013 - 12 years ago

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