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Posted: 12 years ago
#81
Lovely post di
I wasnt watching QH but these two epis have been fantastic
I just loved the AsYa scenes
The way they entered the SM holding hands
The way asad lets go of his hand and she holds on to
They were just heartbreaking
But I didnt like the last lines they were just too heartbreaking
But di did you notice that when asad was saying those shauhar wali baatein the camera was focussed more on AsYa than on ZoYaan 😆
Whatever it is if gul has created this mess I want her to only clean it
At the moment im looking forward to razia and zoe more than anything !
Im sure that will be something epic :D
Edited by MisZoobieDoobie - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agreed! I even have my suspicions now when Asad said the line about the wife and was standing next to her. I'm wondering if something happened in between before they got to the SM. Also you're right. Asad was never told the nikkah is invalid, all he kept hearing was that it was a mistake. Yeah it was a mistake, but it still happened, that's probably what he's thinking. I honestly feel that maybe this might be the real deal for him though. On one end he says that line, but then on another we know the type of man Asad is. Although I'm not happy with the track, I am excited to see how Zoya adjusts to the Siddiqui house.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I completely agree Sangeeta... I would like to give the CVs a chance to unfold the story and clear up the mess they've created and then comment on it... I feel its too early to jump the guns as the track has not been aired completely yet... I agree that Asad was wrong in dragging Zoya to SM when she was not willing, but what else could he do at this point of time... Throw her out of the house as she is married now? Or marry her despite knowing that she his brother's wife now? He knows that the nikaah happened accidentally, but does he know that its invalid? I doubt it as neither Ayaan nor Zoya cleared the air... They too are confused about the situation... They do accept that it happened by mistake, but both of them accepted that they are married... Also, I don't see Ayaan agreeing on Divorcing Zoya at this pint of time as he himself asked Asad to give Zoya away for Nikhat's sake... Yes, Zoya is not ready to go to SM, but Asad has not left her there forever too... He wants to handle the situation and make things right... And the first thing which needs to be taken care of immediately is Nikhat's safety and he is doing it... Later he'll help Zoya out of this situation too...At least, I hope so, and would keep hoping till the track unfolds...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#84
Nice post Sangeeta.
The song "Mere haath mein..." is exactly what came to my mind. But my heart lurched at the word "Fanaa"! If you recall after the Eid special, that's what I had pointed out: the word "Fanaa" bothered me in the song! Yes, AsYa will be separated for a long time, unless TRP aunties demand otherwise. Psst, heard you are contributing to TRPs! 😆 Can you tell me your secret? It pisses me off that I spend more time on this show than my mother in India, yet she contributes to the TRP while I don't! Actually she refuses to watch QH and is stuck on the #1 show. How do you affect TRPs from the US?! 😉 😆

As you know, I was very disappointed with the current track. I still am. 😔

My views on today's episode:
Acting: Awesome (everyone except Tanveer) 👍🏼 👍🏼 KSG, SJ, VM were just brilliant. 👏👏👏
Emotions: Awesome 👍🏼 👍🏼
Direction: Awesome 👍🏼 👍🏼 (After several bad episodes)
The hand holding significance: Awesome 👍🏼 👍🏼
Story/Plot: Sucks 👎🏼 👎🏼 Big time!!

I still can't get over the fact that everyone is trying to validate an invalid Nikaah.

If Asad loves his siblings more than his Zoya, then he deserves pain and suffering.
If Zoya can't speak for her rights, then she deserves pain and suffering.
If Ayaan can sacrifice Humeira for Nikhat, then he deserves pain and suffering.
If Humeira can stand by in silence, then she deserves pain and suffering.

What exactly are the brothers trying to achieve? Ayaan's cockamamie idea was to pretend they are married till Nikhat gets married and then what? Annulment? Talak? What about Nikhat after that? HB won't question why elder bro is marrying the younger one's divorced wife? Doesn't a divorcee have to wait for a period before she can re-marry? What's all the hullabaloo for? So Nikhat can marry Farhan? Watch the fun when he turns out negative while Imran treats Najma like a queen. Is that when Ayaan the hothead will turn negative and mistreat Zoya the bechaari (ugh, I hate that word now) to take "revenge" (senseless) from Asad the martyr? 😆

If Asad's plan is to "loan" Zoya temporarily while he "fixes" the issue, then he seriously miscalculated the situation. The elders are now going to trap them for a longer time. 😡

If he is emotionally reacting because he believes the Nikaah happened, then he needs lessons in his own religion. I read people complaining that Zoya was quiet. I disagree. After Ayaan left KM, she pleaded with Asad that it was a mistake and that she was not aware of what was happening. That means she consciously did not agree to the Nikaah, so it is invalid, irrespective of the fact that they are unaware that her father's name is wrong. He heard it but all he had to talk about was Nikhat's plight and that Zoya did get married. What was the point of saying Do you trust our love? Either he believes she got married or not! He's flip-flopping. He did tell Ayaan that "Mein is Nikaah ko nahin manta". He also asked them what they were doing there and asked Zoya how she reached there? Meaning the confused duo got to tell him what happened. Or at least partially. They just did not show it to us.

What in the world is wrong with Zoya? The woman who gave a lecture to creepo Rajveer about "when a girl says no, she means no", kept saying leave my hand Mr. Khan, I don't want to go. That's it? What if she dug her heels in or fell on the floor? Would he drag her harder? Couldn't she ask Dilshad for help? What if she said "mein marjaoongi"? As the writers are hell bent on showing (incorrectly) that a woman needs to attempt suicide to get her way, perhaps Zoya needs to take that route too and slash her wrists or swallow poison ( I am only being sarcastic). Then she can join the crazy SM suicidal group consisting of Humeira (pioneer of slashing wrists), Shireen (didn't she try to drink poison after the car burning scene?!) and Nikhat, (latest honorary member). Also, Tanveer hurt herself multiple times to get Asad's sympathies! Indeed very progressive women.

What about Dilshad? She doesn't deserve to know what happened? Was Asad right to leave her in the dark and embarrass her yet again in front of the maulvi and guests? For what? A misguided sense of responsibility toward siblings that care two hoots for him and call him sautela at the drop of a hat? 😡

I would have much preferred if they had shown Asad convince/plead with Zoya for a temporary solution till Nikhat got married. And then if it backfired, I wouldn't feel as betrayed as I feel today. Dragging a woman AGAINST her will is a big no-no. I dare any man (except my Dad) to try and do it to me. And I say my Dad because I know he would never do it. Nor would any man in my life. 😆

Too bad Zoya's guardians were not there. I would have loved to see how Asad would have dragged her against her will in front of Zeenat and Anwar. Today my heart cried for Zoya. Yes, she made a big mistake but the price she had to pay was too high and Asad and Ayaan do not have the right to decide her life.

My hopes are now only on Razia! Her love for Humeira will get her back in action. Time for Mangalpur, umm Gudiya factory part deux!! We have to get an "Aag" scene!

What will Asad do then??

P.S. What about Zoya's belongings?? Asad will pack it and drop by again in the morning?

P.P.S. I am not mad at Asad, Ayaan and Zoya. Only mad at the "not-so-"creatives!!


Edited by webuser7 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@webuser-word...I didn't comment on di's post last night coz I didn't know how to express my thoughts but you have explained everything beautifully...people who cant fight for their love dont deserve each other nd i had no sympathies for anyone expect humeira she was left alone in all this
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: anushreemishra

@webuser-word...I didn't comment on di's post last night coz I didn't know how to express my thoughts but you have explained everything beautifully...people who cant fight for their love dont deserve each other nd i had no sympathies for anyone expect humeira she was left alone in all this


Thx, Anushree. Sangeeta's posts encourage us to give our opinions and I'm comfortable doing it here as it does not lead to sparring when people disagree. At least never with us. We have too much mutual respect! 😆

I was quiet for a few days as I wanted to see how it played out (and was also very busy!!). I believe in the advice, If you do not have anything good to say, don't say anything! But then couldn't hold back today!

This track (or something similar) would have played out better in March or even right after the SR track. AsYa are too committed now for it to look logical! They should have gone with something else to pave Zoya's entry into SM. Heck, it could have been to take care of BB after the Eid episode! 😆 Razia was not there to complain! I doubt Ghafoor would have said anything!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great post ! :D

However, Zoya may be really upset with Asad and wouldnt want to return back to him that instant, but she knows well hiw much Asad loves his siblings and she definitely wouldnt ignore his words (Aapko humare mohabbat mein yaken hai?) She would definitely ponder upon it and hopefully knows that Asad still has faith in their relationship.
Zoya and Ayaan, both, strongly believe that the nikaah is invalid, they are accepting it in front of the family for Nikhat's sake, (the nikaah wows were not read at that point of time, so it still remains invalid), I dont think she will want to make this marriage work.
Asad will get her out of this mess sooner or later, but I would like to see him explain his actions to her soon. I dont want another show with the lover helping the girl make her marriage work. :P
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: webuser7



Thx, Anushree. Sangeeta's posts encourage us to give our opinions and I'm comfortable doing it here as it does not lead to sparring when people disagree. At least never with us. We have too much mutual respect! 😆

I was quiet for a few days as I wanted to see how it played out (and was also very busy!!). I believe in the advice, If you do not have anything good to say, don't say anything! But then couldn't hold back today!

This track (or something similar) would have played out better in March or even right after the SR track. AsYa are too committed now for it to look logical! They should have gone with something else to pave Zoya's entry into SM. Heck, it could have been to take care of BB after the Eid episode!😆Razia was not there to complain! I doubt Ghafoor would have said anything!


yes di's posts are always very encouraging for a discussion but i was seriously pissed off yesterday...there are just too many logical flaws for me to look past and asad dragging zoya like that and zoya not standing up for herself was the last straw...for me asya are at that point where I find it really hard for them to come back...i honestly believe that a self respecting woman should not go back to her love after this...i wish I could say zoya would do it but i have no hopes
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Would like to know your two cents on the Objectification that the Lead character was subjected to in yesterday's episode!

For once Di can we please not care about who and what Asad is, what could be the reasons behind his actions and simply look at the audacity with which two men decided as to what a woman will do to save the honour of their sister, not caring to. listen to her protests and simply making her do what they feel would help in bringing about their desired outcome.

Also Di please do read Mona's poem 'Main Zoya hoon',

The feminist in me is simply refusing to look beyond this perspective.

Edited by Nikita_Smith - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: webuser7


Thx, Anushree. Sangeeta's posts encourage us to give our opinions and I'm comfortable doing it here as it does not lead to sparring when people disagree. At least never with us. We have too much mutual respect! 😆

I was quiet for a few days as I wanted to see how it played out (and was also very busy!!). I believe in the advice, If you do not have anything good to say, don't say anything! But then couldn't hold back today!

This track (or something similar) would have played out better in March or even right after the SR track. AsYa are too committed now for it to look logical! They should have gone with something else to pave Zoya's entry into SM. Heck, it could have been to take care of BB after the Eid episode! 😆 Razia was not there to complain! I doubt Ghafoor would have said anything!

i absolutely agree with you rehsma and you know my views about this track and execution already😆
i have nothing to say and i am too numb in this situation..and it has nothing to with characters or asya story its all about how insensitivity and disgust they have used to bring and execute this track without any logic ..anyays and thats why i am not posting on sangi's thread...
but yes you have spoken my mind...thnks sistah..
but i know sangi's thread is the most safe place for putting your views even if its against her or majority...because here most of mature and sensible people do not indulge in fight or demean others opinion just because they don't match ...
so yes sangi is definitely very calm and friendly when she answers your questions so thnks sangi..
Edited by sujataraje - 12 years ago

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