such immature way of handling situation - Page 2

First of all in our house when someone does chillam chilli we don't name it as bachpana...If I say I can get engaged myself my family will not say we are trying,now you are happy meri gussel granddaughter...If I would have said to my mother that my brother and my sister in law not doing what they should do my mother would give me a lafa and I wouldn't be able to look at her properly for atleast one month...We don't scream in front of the guests that I can't marry him because I love somebody else...Nobody can even imagine falling in love with ehr bhabi's ex,marriage to bohot dur ki baat hai...If I would have bribed some person I don't know whtawould have my mother do to me...As my family didn t showered me unnecessary love and was always strict when it was necessary thats the reason I can't even think how can people do such cheap things,thats the reason I will think thousand times before doing something...When jagya will break the rishta if sanchi attempts suicide then the soul reason of that incident will be ira,alok and daddu...She is used to throwing tantrums and she will expect that after seeing her tantrums they will definitely bring jagya to her anyhow...They left no stone unturned in pampering a brat and shaping her up as a devil...Jagya has clearly said he is not able to do anything for sanchi...They are different,they can't be happy and he has taken this decision after thinking a lot...He is saving himself,sanchi and the two families...In normal life engagement doesn't break so easily also engagement doesn't mean the end of the world...In serial world every serial show one or two calling off engagement...Its a serial thats why it has become so common...In normal life people doesn't take decision so hastily nor they compels people to say yes...If the groom is coming and saying they are not compatible then they should think if he is not happy then how can sanchi be happy...Whatever happened in sanchi,s case I can't even connect with it because its impossible for me to believe that a girl is enjoying that she is in love with her bhabi's ex and whenever her bhabi and her ex feels awkward she enjoys...But as a viewer I can say it was the most apt way to handle the situation where botha anandi and sanchi were not anywhere near of defamation...All the blame is on the boy though he is not at fault...

Originally posted by: BeyondTheSky

well said tina !

this is why i like the jagya's charaterization a lot...he is more real, practical...& he did the right thing eventually...i would have like it better if jagya could have informed his father about his decision & action he was going to take...but that would have been too practical 😆

jagya was fantastic yesterday 👏 he could convey so many things so well... a feeling of guilt that he is hurting the family so much...but at the same time a sense of firmness that this needs to be done now ! i liked the way he was stealing glances at anandi 😉... what did that mean...was he reassuring her or asking for her support?...not very sure of that.

@ bold i don't think he was asking for her support if so he would have given call before visiting KB i think he was just looking at her reaction since she knew the truth. He madeup his mind and delivered it too in sensible words .😊

Originally posted by: meena678

To all those who say jagya did right,what if he did same with your daughter,i think at this stage to come up with reasons like we are not compatable is very harsh.What will they feel that their daughter is making every effort forchanging herself and he breaks rista by saying we are not compatible .I dont get why he doesnt speak up .What good he did by hiding.

whatever u r giving reason is applicable only for a normal girl and not for a girl like sanchi whose thoughts and acts differs and playing badly with the emotions of everyone. She least bothered and worried abt her parents feelings too. she made fool even shekhars. he did good by not informing them so that their happiness abt sanchi remains the same, and their peacefullness will remain the same after settling her out with perfect partner .

Maturity has never been J's forte...but in the current scenario, this was the only solution to the problem...

Originally posted by: vidya0000

whatever u r giving reason is applicable only for a normal girl and not for a girl like sanchi whose thoughts and acts differs and playing badly with the emotions of everyone. She least bothered and worried abt her parents feelings too. she made fool even shekhars. he did good by not informing them so that their happiness abt sanchi remains the same, they will peacefullness by settling her out with perfect partner .

But for shekhar their daughter is normal girl right,So they need to be told about their hidden intentions of sanchi ,why to hide the truth,its plain stupid to hide the truth ,giving reason like we are not compatable isnt right,they would naturaly feel betrayed,whole six he kept quite and now suddenly we are not compatible.I m not bothered about sanchi but why to keep quite when you can always speak the truth

Originally posted by: meena678

But for shekhar their daughter is normal girl right,So they need to be told about their hidden intentions of sanchi ,why to hide the truth,its plain stupid to hide the truth ,giving reason like we are not compatable isnt right,they would naturaly feel betrayed,whole six he kept quite and now suddenly we are not compatible.I m not bothered about sanchi but why to keep quite when you can always speak the truth

Does he have proof to speak the truth. Even if he says, alok will tell ok first u marry her later we will convince her to settle in jeitsar. 🤢

Originally posted by: meena678

But for shekhar their daughter is normal girl right,So they need to be told about their hidden intentions of sanchi ,why to hide the truth,its plain stupid to hide the truth ,giving reason like we are not compatable isnt right,they would naturaly feel betrayed,whole six he kept quite and now suddenly we are not compatible.I m not bothered about sanchi but why to keep quite when you can always speak the truth