Ira vehemently opposed Jagya in the beginning. When anandi assured her, Ira tried to accept. And sanchi's behaviour also scared Ira.
Thus these decisions were taken without Jagya's knowledge. though they said they want to know Jagya's views, They jumped the gun and went straight to Jaitsar and started talks with Dadisa, Sumitra etc.
If we see impartially, we will know the fault lies more with the shekhars and anandi than Jagya himself.
Jagya was cornered by all and he has no escape route amidst all the blackmailing.