I can't frame that sumi Hates Ganga ..yeah on the surface ..to show her angust that Ganga always given status that everyone compared to Anandi..it can be stated as hated in more easier terms.
For sumi its very very hard to accept that another women can be equally Moral ,intelligent and caring ..In her pov ..other than Anandi no one can fill that Gap of being badi haveli bindini ...its not that who is that person who keeps her son happy..but who is that person who can fulfill that position of badihaveli which was left by Anandi ..who is one and only efficient and suitable ..
if anyone even near to that requirement her belief and her blind love for Anandi will not be valid anymore in her own eyes ..that hidden proud and arrogance that she is the mother and mother in law for Anandi ..who had made her ..given the abilities and willpower to Anandi ..she feels that she is the person who supported her ..their is years of struggle to reach this stage where she and Anandi are ..both are struggled to reach to this shore from the past ..that has given pain to both of them because of jagiya in the past ..they are always for eachother when times are bad ..
she relates to Anandi and her pain ,her happiness everything..so if an orphan who took shelter in their house ..who is nothing for her ..just a person who took their help ..she don't have a family..her background for sumi's like not more than being from a criminal family ..though she knows Ganga is no where related to rathan and his family ..but Mannu is ..his father is criminal ...and her fear is Rathan will comeback for Mannu ..as long rathan alive ..
suddenly Ganga with her flaws according to sumi and claims that she is equivalent to Anandi and preferable as badi Haveli Bindini ...for that her ego hurts and she thinks all her struggle with anandi ..her upbringing got no importance in the eyes of her own family memmber's that they are simply saying that Anandi and Ganga are on same scale ..so its very hard For sumi accepting Ganga rather than saachi..
i don't think Sumi prefers a virgin or wealthy bahu for Jagiya ...she just not prefers Ganga for above reasons ..other than Ganga anyone who is with minimum standards to take care of family and her son is more than enough for sumi ..as those girls reminds the every family memmber including jagiya that how they miss anandi as their daughter in law ..that makes sumi feel proud that she is the one who is behind such beautiful and wonderful human being she built
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so its like Dronacahyra love for Arjun which made ekalavya cut his thumb ..and made arjun a great archery worrier 😳...
Edited by vasiraju - 12 years ago