A girls true family are her in-laws....REALLY? - Page 2

kudos to u

n im glad in bv they r showing A , Shiv n J working for the betterment of their people. they r doing their bit in the show. all other drama is in one place but its good they still have the theme of showing how A uses her own experiences n knowledge to help other women.

she has also raised mahi well , he's also a sensible n sensitive boy. remember how he talked to anandi about jagya-sanchi rishta.

mahi's wife will also be one lucky girl and will be happy like anandi with shiv !!

Thanks Ithas...You are so right we have to change our mindset. Still in india there are different rules for boys and girls...its just hard to fit into my mind that why these standard rules are different for girls and boys... I understand earlier due to lack of education and awareness there were different norms, but now plp should be able to make their own decisions and should be able to figure out. Its so frustrating for the daughter of the house to think that just 'coz she is a girl she cannot have certain privileges and fun and she has to do certain chores!! 😲 Sanjeev Kapoor started the trend of cookery shows in India & now we have master chefs still many women have issues with their son's cooking and helping their wife's in the kitchen. Their blood pressure shy rockets seeing their son touching kadai & Tava 🤢. My dad spends more time in the kitchen than my mom; but that's because he loves cooking. She didn't demand it - he didn't request it. Chopping onions is stress buster for him 😆. And I'm glad my Dadi did not abandon my mom for that.

Tina - Brilliant and a very thought provoking post. ⭐️

Thanks to BV and its writers that they give us scope for such discussions!!😊

Unless and until women stop being willing accomplices to perpetuating patriarchal thoughts, things will not change.. Gender sensitization at all levels could be one way of changing perception and this should begin right from childhood..

Am hoping that BV writers through Aji's Bhaili take up these burning issues

For starting discussion on this topic.

Me too feels that like Anandi many girls parents are also responsible for the sufferings of their daughters. First they raise their daughters as 'parai amanat' and make them believe that they are not equally important part of their parents homes and secondly when they are in need of their parents support to break free from their in-laws torture, their parents preach them about making adjustments in their in-laws houses(their real homes )and leave them to their fate pretending to be busy in other responsibilities. Coz of lack of strong support system and will to oppose the torture of in-laws, many girls and women have to suffer silently through out their life and some have to even pay for their in-laws sins and parents silence with their lives.If parents infuse in their chirldren(both in girls and boys) from early age that girls are as much part of the families as are the boys, not only their daughters will not feel themselves alone in their fights, their brothers will also stand up for them when required.