Why doesn't Sumi make Jagya a ghar jamai?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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The way Sumitra keeps asking him to go to KB and ask everyone's haal-chaal or convey something to Ira ji and Sanchi is ridiculous!

They send him to Udaipur even if he has to go elsewhere. And if he is going to Udaipur then they expect him to go and pay obeisance to KB as if it is some temple! 😡

Doesn't he have work to do?! His meetings aren't important?!

Why Sumitra keeps pushing Jagya to KB?! (Earlier DS also did it)

Itna hi hai toh usko palki mein bitha ke ghar jamai ke roop mein bhej de na wahan! 🤢

It is not wrong to respect and take care of one's in laws. It's great. But there is no need to spread yourself on the floor like a rug!

And that too before marriage! Before engagement also Sumitra expected Jags to serve them. After engagement toh even more pressure to take care of them. What will happen after marriage?!

Would Sumitra have done this if Jags had married someone else and NOT someone from Laado Anandi's saasra?!

Respecting Anandi's sasra is fine. Why go overboard?!

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Posted: 12 years ago
#2
TM,very good post😊
but u dont know onething,sumi already sold Jagya to KB,the price she got is one and only Anandi's happiness(according to sumi)😡🤢
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I can understand sumi's feelings. Because she can understand her daughter anandi's problem. See anandi canot live without seeing her true love...And sumi cannot live if anandi is sad.. So, sumi is pushing jagya...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I believe Jagya was getting good rishtas even before Sanchi the great Only Kanchan was so called divorcee rest Urmi devi 's daughter was well educated girl from good family unmarried too it ended only because of Dadisaa's karma otherwise probably it would have been done
and whats up with Sumitra mata jee its very clearly shown in serial its not Jagya's history he won't get another rishta its her vendetta against Ganga Sumi the great thinks Ganga is doing jaado tona on her son and he is getting attached to her and her child and this is hurting Sumitra's ego big time so she is making sure Jagya gets tied to Sanchi sooner Thats why she is in rush for marriage as well as sending him to Udaipur to say Salam namaste to Shekhars so he can get more attached to them by being around them
Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Deep down Sumitra aunty knows well that Jagya is deeply unhappy and that Sanchi is a high headed b**** and KB is full of loonies and an old tharki buddha who likes to flirt with DS...but she never truly loved Jagya beyond a sort of attachment all mothers have to their child...she just needed Jagya to be obedient, Sumitra is dying to fatten him up, mount him on the ghora and let it fly off to US, UK, Canada or wherever as long as Sanchi marries him and not Ganga. She knows her kid has given his heart away...I bet she is aware of it...both Sanchi & Sumitra are on the same page and both equally fear Ganga and for the same reasons, she is compatible to Jagya and she makes him immensely happy...therefore it is best to tie him up from all sides, suffocate him, stuff him up and humiliate him, make a pinata out of him and let everyone beat him with a stick...the stick honors go to the people of KB.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It is not about anandi's happiness. It is about her own selfish motive to keep ganga away.

She would have been happy with any family which can keep ganga away from her son. anandi is only a bahana.

Little knowledge and obstinacy are 2 things which blinds us.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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She has devalued Badi Haveli

its one thing to be snobbish and chauvinistic

its quite another to be this self effacing

Ira , whatever she may be , has more pride than her

she carries herself with dignity

this dame has devalued her son as if he is not MS but a chaprasi

and she is some ayah waiting for Saanchi to enter and bless her by giving her a meaningful vocation

frankly speaking even Makhan must be having more dignity in his sasural


Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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agreed TM
for a little time i thought she was just a mother who wants her son's happiness

but now it feels like
she do not care about anandi
she do not care about jagya
she do not care about sanchi

all she want is GANGA out of there life and she is just using bahana of saja mrg 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why does sumitra want J to prostrate beforeShekhars? Because she is a total shit head.
Initially I thought she was a wonderful woman ,but just a little stupid. Now i think she is just a
Ding bat and dunder head. Since all the mothering was taken over by DS as far as Jagia is
Concerned, she has no connection or understanding with Jagia other than ownership.
She just does not care whether he is happy. All that matters to her is whether she can be happy
With the way Jagia leads his life.
Ira is 100 times better than her and a real mother to her child. That is what mothers should do. Look out for happiness of her child. At least that instinct should be there. Ira is a straight shooter. If she
Comes to know about Sanchi's scheme , she will be the one to break this engagement.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If Sumitra truly cared about her son's honor and dignity, she would not report his movements to his fianc every minute she got.
Personally, i firmly believe that the moment a person indulges in gossiping with an outer circle member about your inner circle member, you are giving outsiders the licence to disrespect you and you inner circle. Indulging in gossip is a reflection on the participants themselves.

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