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mistletoe

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Posted: 19 years ago

Bani knows what transpired between Jai and Pia in Dubai, she is left with the knowledge that;

a) Jai has always loved her and been loyal to her, from mind and soul (Lets leave the body part out as of now!) (Bani is not too sure on this, she looked very confused when Massi told her the truth)

b) The child that Pia is carrying is in all probability Jai's child and he has disowned both the Mother and the Child from his life

c) Bani remained in love with Jai despite being in the dark about the truth...That only goes to show the depth of her love for him. And Jai remained steadfastedly loyal to Bani, despite knowing that only Pia can give him his heir, the child he so badly wanted!

When a woman is forced upon by a man and she begets a child out of the Rape, she is termed the Victim. And the child in question is not seen as part of the crime, he or she is more as being a Victim again, an innocent.

What if its the other way round? What happened to Jai in Dubai was also somewhat in the line of a Rape. He was drugged and forced into a physical relationship with a woman whom he did not want or desire in anyway. Jai was broken in everyway, an emotional wreck and despite his best intentions, Pia overpowered him, mind you, not by the use of her love, but simply by conning him.

Questions for the Day;

Assuming that the child Pis is carrying is fathered by Jai, do you think, that despite knowing the truth about how it happened, Bani will still carry a grudge in her Heart against this fact or will it not matter one bit to her, as long as she knows that child or no child, Jai loves her the most in the World.

Given Bani's expression's in yesterday's episode (PD was excellent in this scene) she looked not only shaken, but also very confused as Massi told her that it is upto her to believe what she has just been told or not. Do you think that after undergoing such betrayal, Bani will be ready to trust Jai blindly once again or will she take her time?

If Pushkar persuades Pia to tell Jai and Bani (Be it a lie or the truth) that her child is not Fathered by Jai, will that make a difference to Bani's decision of whether she still wants her Marriage or not? Or do you think that Bani has been so hurt by what has happened, that nothing will erase the pain and anguish of being backstabbed once?

If despite hearing the truth from Massi, Bani still cannot come to accept it and decides to leave WM and break off her Marriage, will you support her on the issue? (Think hard on this and don't jump the gun abusing Bani😆)

What do you think had hurt Bani the most? The fact that her own sister backstabbed her or the fact that the man whom she revered as God fell down into pieces?

Whom do you think has been the biggest victim in the whole drama? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons.

Will be looking forward to your answers...

Cheers,

Edited by mistletoe - 19 years ago

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Ashwini

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Posted: 19 years ago

So if Pia is indeed carrying Jai's child, is Jai at fault? Is it his guilt that he has unfortunately ended by impregnating a woman who had literally trapped him into doing so? He has been punished more than was necessary till date. Don't you think that Bani's not forgiving him would be the final nail on the Coffin of injustice against him?

***If Pia is carrying Jai's child, its definitely not his fault, but it doesnt mean that he cannot or should not take the responsibility of the kid, but yes he was punished more than his mistake and it will be a great injustice if Bani doesnt forgive him! I m not telling thsi b'coz I m JW supporter, but as Maasi told yesterday, if a mistake is done purposely its a crime, but if its down unknowingly then that person definitely deserves a second chance and he has never betrayed Bani by his mind or soul and I personally feel that more than physically cheating yr spouse, its emotional betraying which matters the most!

Questions for the Day;

Now that Bani knows the truth, what will be her course of action? Will she leave WM (Yet again) / Will she forgive and forget all that happened and live happily with Jai and Krishna / Will Bani be in a dilemma for some more time to come?

***She will definitely not WM now and I wouldnt call Bani's thinking as a dilemma, but she will surely take sometime to analyse this issue and then live happily everafter 😉

Assuming that the child Pis is carrying is fathered by Jai, do you think, that despite knowing the truth about how it happened, Bani will still carry a grudge in her Heart against this fact or will it not matter one bit to her, as long as she knows that child or no child, Jai loves her the most in the World.
***As far as Bani's character is concerned, she never keeps any grudge against anyone and it will not matter to her until she knows the truth that Jai loves her the most! And actually I can guarantee u that if Pia comes and asks for forgiveness, Bani will soften up a bit! Mind u just soften up, as she is her elder sister and always played a mother role. And a parent always forgives their kid inspite of their numerous mistakes!

Given Bani's expression's in yesterday's episode (PD was excellent in this scene) she looked not only shaken, but also very confused as Massi told her that it is upto her to believe what she has just been told or not. Do you think that after undergoing such betrayal, Bani will be ready to trust Jai blindly once again or will she take her time?

***She was definitely confused and as per the lyrics goes she felt that there is no proof for his innocence, but I m sure if Jai talks to her now, she will blindly believe him once again and this time her trust will be more stronger (actually earlier there was no trust 😉 )

If Pushkar persuades Pia to tell Jai and Bani (Be it a lie or the truth) that her child is not Fathered by Jai, will that make a difference to Bani's decision of whether she still wants her Marriage or not? Or do you think that Bani has been so hurt by what has happened, that nothing will erase the pain and anguish of being backstabbed once?
***Now Bani's decision is not going to be on who is the father of Pia's kid. Her marriage will stay only b'coz of JW's love to her and vice versa! As far as Pia's kid is concerned, if she gets to know its Pushkar's, she will request Pushkar to accept the child as the baby is innocent, but will not forgive Pia for her deeds (not atleast till Pia asks for forgiveness for her mistakes and claims to be sorry and impress her sister)

If despite hearing the truth from Massi, Bani still cannot come to accept it and decides to leave WM and break off her Marriage, will you support her on the issue? (Think hard on this and don't jump the gun abusing Bani)
***Not exactly support, but will not abuse her! As it will not be not a justice for 3 lives. Bani, Jai and the kid! If she still cannot accept the fact that what Jai did was a mistake, its completely her choice and she has a right to decide to forgive or walkout, as its quiet difficult to digest the fact that yr spouse spent a night with an other woman even by mistake!

What do you think had hurt Bani the most? The fact that her own sister backstabbed her or the fact that the man whom she revered as God fell down into pieces?
***The later one affected her more! Its not that the first one didnt, but she has always protected her sisters like a mother and been a protective kind, where as she expected her husband to do the same role of hers with her, and his betrayal hurt her the most!

Whom do you think has been the biggest victim in the whole drama? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons.
***I will get back on this soon!

I hope my answers made some sense

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himali

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Posted: 19 years ago

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Questions for the Day;

Now that Bani knows the truth, what will be her course of action? Will she leave WM (Yet again) / Will she forgive and forget all that happened and live happily with Jai and Krishna / Will Bani be in a dilemma for some more time to come?if for once, bani could think like a wife only, she would stay. she will be in dilemma for some time but jai's pain and hurt will erase it(my wishful thinking) he has gone through alot and bani cant ignore it. she knows that if she leaves Walia Mansion, it would be final blow for jai before he collapses.

Assuming that the child Pis is carrying is fathered by Jai, do you think, that despite knowing the truth about how it happened, Bani will still carry a grudge in her Heart against this fact or will it not matter one bit to her, as long as she knows that child or no child, Jai loves her the most in the World.she was very well aware of this fact. she needs no other incident to prove it. wasnt jai the person who convinced her that they are enough for each other to live rest of their lives and that no third person (kid) is necessary to strengthen the bond...so its a well known fact that child or no child jai loves her.....its bani's own guilt eating her mind.

Given Bani's expression's in yesterday's episode (PD was excellent in this scene) she looked not only shaken, but also very confused as Massi told her that it is upto her to believe what she has just been told or not. Do you think that after undergoing such betrayal, Bani will be ready to trust Jai blindly once again or will she take her time?trusting him blindly would be difficult but now she can see past few days in different light. now she would realise that he was the man who risked his own life and saved her.he was the man who without caring for his pain, spoke nastily to her again to save her. he was the man who loved her not a penny less even when he was in dark regarding her pregnancy...etc etc...this new perspective could make her think again about her decision....she has always terms masi as her mother, so now when she is supporting Jai, would be helpful to bani to take right decision.

If Pushkar persuades Pia to tell Jai and Bani (Be it a lie or the truth) that her child is not Fathered by Jai, will that make a difference to Bani's decision of whether she still wants her Marriage or not? Or do you think that Bani has been so hurt by what has happened, that nothing will erase the pain and anguish of being backstabbed once?here more than Jai, Pia will be responsible for anguish. till date bani believed that whatever transpired between jai and pia was a full fledged affair hence she could put the blame on each one of them..but now pia comes in light as culprit and hence sister bani will be hurt more than wife bani.the fact that her man was always her's even when the other woman offered him his heir, i think is enough to efface her hurt a little bit.

If despite hearing the truth from Massi, Bani still cannot come to accept it and decides to leave WM and break off her Marriage, will you support her on the issue? (Think hard on this and don't jump the gun abusing Bani😆)

hehe...for that matter i have never supported her. and this would be the final stupidity on bani's part.

What do you think had hurt Bani the most? The fact that her own sister backstabbed her or the fact that the man whom she revered as God fell down into pieces?

both but as a true blood dixit, i m sure she never expected her sister to stoop so low. remember, when she had seen the footage of pia in mobile shop, till the last moment bani was firm that jai walia had an affair but the moment she saw pia, all her doubts evaporated in thin air...cause she could suspect her God alike husband but pia was out of question alway......so i think its pia's betrayal that caused her the grief more than Jai.

Whom do you think has been the biggest victim in the whole drama? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons.both of them are victims. Jai because he had to endure all this without his fault...and bani cause she was betrayed by not only one person but two of them whom she loved the most..hence her pain is doubled in a way...but again entire GFNs clan stood by her in needy hours but jai was all alone....so i think they balance it. on the finishing note i would say that emotional perfidy is thousand times worst than only physical. a man can hardly be called loyal if he remained so cause he didnt get 'chance'. Jai has always be loyal to bani with his heart and soul and at the end of the day thats what matters........

Will be looking forward to your answers...it was fun answering them Rekhadi.

Cheers,

MT

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majumdar

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Posted: 19 years ago

MT,

(Don't you think that Bani's not forgiving him would be the final nail on the Coffin of injustice against him? )

It would certainly be. If that happens, the worst part is that JW (and the rest of the WM crowd barring Karuna) will see it only as a rightful punishment for his misdeeds while Bani will be treated like a Saint and go away scot free for her antics and for blaming the victim.

(Now that Bani knows the truth, what will be her course of action? Will she leave WM (Yet again) / Will she forgive and forget all that happened and live happily with Jai and Krishna / Will Bani be in a dilemma for some more time to come?)

Let's face it, its easy to see that JW is a victim of rape but it is never easy to accept the fact as the society is not conditioned to accept the fact that a man can be raped. I don't know whether Bani will able to see it in the light that we see it. And besides Bani does have evidence that JW suppressed the fact and did carry on with Pia behind her back for whatsoever reason, mera bachcha and all that. It will not be easy to forget and forgive on Bani's part. But eventually she may, her love for him would be greater than her hurt.

But when things have cooled down I hope she will take time off and reflect on her own conduct as a wife and the treatment that her family has meted out to JW.

(Assuming that the child Pis is carrying is fathered by Jai, do you think, that despite knowing the truth about how it happened, Bani will still carry a grudge in her Heart against this fact or will it not matter one bit to her, as long as she knows that child or no child, Jai loves her the most in the World.)

I guess deep down Bani already knows that JW loves her the most but the sense of hurt will remain for some time and will prevent her from admitting her love either to JW or to herself or to others.

(Given Bani's expression's in yesterday's episode (PD was excellent in this scene) she looked not only shaken, but also very confused as Massi told her that it is upto her to believe what she has just been told or not. Do you think that after undergoing such betrayal, Bani will be ready to trust Jai blindly once again or will she take her time?)

Long, long time, if at all.

(If Pushkar persuades Pia to tell Jai and Bani (Be it a lie or the truth) that her child is not Fathered by Jai, will that make a difference to Bani's decision of whether she still wants her Marriage or not? Or do you think that Bani has been so hurt by what has happened, that nothing will erase the pain and anguish of being backstabbed once?)

Probably not.

(If despite hearing the truth from Massi, Bani still cannot come to accept it and decides to leave WM and break off her Marriage, will you support her on the issue?)

I will ask her only one question. If she or her sister was drugged, raped and got pregnant and hid the fact out of shame and to prevent distress to her family. And her hubby accused her of being an adulteress, would she side with the hubby or the wife? I will let Bani be the judge.

(What do you think had hurt Bani the most? The fact that her own sister backstabbed her or the fact that the man whom she revered as God fell down into pieces? )

If u ask Bani this question, she will say JW's betrayal. But that would only make her a hypocrite. IF u remember there was a time when she was almost convinced that JW had committed adultery and was snooping around but when she found out that it was Pia she was convinced that JW was innocent. So in her view, JW can commit adultery but Pia won't backstab her. So I have to go with the great Dixit khandaan in this case.

(Whom do you think has been the biggest victim in the whole drama? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons.)

While both have been victims, it is JW who has been the greatest sufferer. Cos at least Bani has/will have the sympathy of being a innocent victim, JW would for the rest of the life have to carry the stigma of being an adulterer. We may acquit him on grounds of being a victim and there is an outside chance that the WM crowd may forgive him but would JW ever forgive himself? I doubt it very much. And during the whole epi, Bani had a whole support system with her, JW was left to (to use a popular Forum expression) "rot in hell" thankfully with at least one good sister (Karuna) to share his pain and later R-R pitched in.

And while JW would always repent for what he did, Bani will go scot free for her antics.

Rgds,

Pri

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Nikita

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Posted: 19 years ago

Hey MT,

Me back!! 😊 Answering your questions after a long time!!!!Okie, here are my answers!!!

1. Now that Bani knows the truth, what will be her course of action? Will she leave WM (Yet again) / Will she forgive and forget all that happened and live happily with Jai and Krishna / Will Bani be in a dilemma for some more time to come?

Bani being her forgiving self, will forgive Jai and might even feel guilty for the way she has treated him though it was not his fault!!! and then they will happily ever after till Ekta strikes again 😉

Assuming that the child Pia is carrying is fathered by Jai, do you think, that despite knowing the truth about how it happened, Bani will still carry a grudge in her Heart against this fact or will it not matter one bit to her, as long as she knows that child or no child, Jai loves her the most in the World.

With regards to her reaction towards Jai, I think she will come back to her loving self. She knows that the ONS happened against Jai's wishes, when he was not counsious!!! Her reaction towards Pia, very confusing....I think she will come to her forgiving and sacrificing mode again and remember all the promises she has given to her mom and get Pia back and mother her child!!! I am sure she will not leave Pia on the footpath!!

Given Bani's expression's in yesterday's episode (PD was excellent in this scene) she looked not only shaken, but also very confused as Massi told her that it is upto her to believe what she has just been told or not. Do you think that after undergoing such betrayal, Bani will be ready to trust Jai blindly once again or will she take her time?

Bani will render her belief in Jai immediately as she has realized the truth from Maasi's mouth!!! woman whom she trusts more than anyone, woman who is like her mother and woman who was with her in her thick and thin!!!! This will give her confidence to get back to Jai!! Plus Jai's stand on Pushkar's voting and his selling of his share for Raashi will only strengthen the bond!!!

If Pushkar persuades Pia to tell Jai and Bani (Be it a lie or the truth) that her child is not Fathered by Jai, will that make a difference to Bani's decision of whether she still wants her Marriage or not? Or do you think that Bani has been so hurt by what has happened, that nothing will erase the pain and anguish of being backstabbed once?

I think the fact that Jai was not councious when ONS happened and the fact that whatever he has done till now has only proved that he still loves Bani, is enough for her to erase her pains wrt Jai and give her marriage one more chance..The fact that Pia carries Jai's child will not ctand between Bani and Jai now but yes, she would have to decide what has to be done about the child as no matter what the child is Jai's...In these circumstances If Pushkar makes Pia tell everyone that the child is that of Pushkar, it will only ease Bani's burden with regards to her next POA!!!

If despite hearing the truth from Massi, Bani still cannot come to accept it and decides to leave WM and break off her Marriage, will you support her on the issue? (Think hard on this and don't jump the gun abusing Bani)

I will not as I wouldnt have left WM myself in the circumstances!!!! Its not about jumping the gun and abusing Bani but putting myself in her shoes and deciding...Now that it is proved that Jai was part of ONS unconsciously is enough for me to give one more chance to the marriage!!

What do you think had hurt Bani the most? The fact that her own sister backstabbed her or the fact that the man whom she revered as God fell down into pieces?

I think it was the combination of both!!!! The fact that ur love has a relationship with a person you know and trust hurts badly, more than If u know only one party among the 2....but the fact that both of them were extremely close and formed her world altogether was enough to shatter or kill her emotionally!!! Frankly speaking, its difficult to measure and quantify teh feeling u get when u r hurt in all the circumstances and decide which one hurts "more", but when it comes to forgiving or forgetting these incidents, its the one where both the parties are close to you, is the more difficult one!!!

Whom do you think has been the biggest victim in the whole drama? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons.
Emotionally I would say both equally as both of them loved each other with the same intensity and forseeing a life without each other is very painful for both of them!!!
With respect to relationships, its been Jai because not only did he loose Bani and his family's trust, he was declared dead by his Maasi whom he considered the zenith of all relationships!!

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Ashwini

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Posted: 19 years ago

Whom do you think has been the biggest victim in the whole drama? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons.
***I will get back on this soon!
***MT on this question, I agree with Himali and Pri's answers! Mine is not different than theirs

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Ayesha

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Posted: 19 years ago

hhhhmmmmm....... interestng i think it will take tym for Bani to trust Jai agen cuz even tho he was the victim in all da ONS stuff he still didnt tell her da truth her, even if it ment loosing her atleast she wud have have known da truth 4m him n not by da means she did find out.

i think if pushkar does manage to persuade pia in telling (a lie or truth) dat the baby is not Jai's den atleast she can be thankful abt the fact there isnt a child out thier that will constantly remind her of wat her sista did 2 her 😡

if bani afta hearing all this 4m massi still decides to leave then its understandable becuz wether she holds a grudge or not she still has been hurt intentially or unintentially by da two ppl she thout were most clse to her.

i think wat hurt bani the most was the fact she thout pia no matter how self centred mayb did not think wud hurt her sista in such a way. i mean wen she ran away wid pushkar bani forgave becuz da she chose love over money, but here she chose da lust of Jai over da motherly love her sista gave i mean der shud b no comptio wen it cumz 2 da love of ur mother cuz a motherz luv is always 2 win but wid her cuz shes soo selfish it didnt matter to her ( its lyk dey say love is blind in pias case its deaf 2)

finally in all this i actually think that Jai is the victim no1 else even tho Bani was hurt and potrayed as the biggest victim jai did not have ne1 2 share his pain with therefor him being hurt the most as every1 thout he deserved it and what he did 2 bani was on purpose however all he did was self inflict woundz on him self and if any one hu tries to hurt themselve it hurts more than if someone hurts you (some poetic stuff i read in yr 10 dnt knw if its true tho)

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ARMaanEet

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Now that Bani knows the truth, what will be her course of action? Will she leave WM (Yet again) / Will she forgive and forget all that happened and live happily with Jai and Krishna / Will Bani be in a dilemma for some more time to come?

Im not exactly sure , but i get a feeling that bani will forgive jai and live happily with jai and krishna...well i hope so.She will take time though, maybe 1 episode or something.

Given Bani's expression's in yesterday's episode (PD was excellent in this scene) she looked not only shaken, but also very confused as Massi told her that it is upto her to believe what she has just been told or not. Do you think that after undergoing such betrayal, Bani will be ready to trust Jai blindly once again or will she take her time?

She will forgive him but i think she's going to take her time because she did look confused.

If Pushkar persuades Pia to tell Jai and Bani (Be it a lie or the truth) that her child is not Fathered by Jai, will that make a difference to Bani's decision of whether she still wants her Marriage or not? Or do you think that Bani has been so hurt by what has happened, that nothing will erase the pain and anguish of being backstabbed once?

I think that that a difference made in bani's decision about if she wants her marriage or not will only be that she will forgive jai more and now think that krishna can have her rights too.so she would want her marriage more.

If despite hearing the truth from Massi, Bani still cannot come to accept it and decides to leave WM and break off her Marriage, will you support her on the issue?

If she does do that then I don't think I would support her in that case.

What do you think had hurt Bani the most? The fact that her own sister backstabbed her or the fact that the man whom she revered as God fell down into pieces?

I think both hurt her equally because she loved them two the most including rano and if they betray her, shes not exactly going to be hurt by one more that the other.

Whom do you think has been the biggest victim in the whole drama? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons.

In the whole drama i think its been bani.Because from the start loads of things have been happening like she lost her parents, she loved pushkar and had to leave him, she had to marry jai(which at that point wasn't her wish),then finding out her husband killed her mother, then knowing that jai's life is in danger, losing her 1st child, her own sister backstabbing her, not being able to see jai's real love because of pia, and all that jadoo things in her room...the fact that she always got blamed.
and i think theres loads of other scenes and things i forgot to mention.

Thanks for the questions MT..! 😊

Edited by dhruvnved 4eva - 19 years ago

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simz99

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Posted: 19 years ago

Now that Bani knows the truth, what will be her course of action? Will she leave WM (Yet again) / Will she forgive and forget all that happened and live happily with Jai and Krishna / Will Bani be in a dilemma for some more time to come?

MT, I don't see how Bani can leave WM (for the nth time now!) esp since she's never stopped loving Jai. I'm actually a bit stumped at last nite's episode…now that the truth is out and Reptile and her offspring have been dumped…what next?!! The only way that I can see Bani leaving WM now is if Reptile/Tarun/Nattu get together and use foul means to get rid of her!!>

Assuming that the child Pia is fathered by Jai, do you think, that despite knowing the truth, Bani will still carry a grudge in her Heart against this fact or will it not matter one bit to her, as long as she knows that child or no child, Jai loves her the most in the World.

I can't see Bani ever bearing a grudge against the child esp now that she knows what was the real reason behind Jaigiri. Remember how she pushed to have Nattu accepted in WM? I'm sure she'll accept this child as well with her customary dignity and compassion.

Given Bani's expression's in yesterday's episode (PD was excellent in this scene) she looked not only shaken, but also very confused as Massi told her that it is upto her to believe what she has just been told or not. Do you think that after undergoing such betrayal, Bani will be ready to trust Jai blindly once again or will she take her time?

I really believe that deep down Bani's always trusted Jai despite the awful circumstances…coz how can love exist without any trust? I do hope though it makes her less nave and question people's motives a lot more.

If Pushkar persuades Pia to tell Jai and Bani (Be it a lie or the truth) that her child is not Fathered by Jai, will that make a difference to Bani's decision of whether she still wants her Marriage or not? Or do you think that Bani has been so hurt by what has happened, that nothing will erase the pain and anguish of being backstabbed once?

As far as Reptile is concerned I can't see Bani ever trusting her again, no matter what. She's lied and deceived deliberately and Bani now recognizes that there's only one thing that Pia loves…and that's money.

If despite hearing the truth from Massi, Bani still cannot come to accept it and decides to leave WM and break off her Marriage, will you support her on the issue? (Think hard on this and don't jump the gun abusing Bani)

Nope I won't as long as she talks to Jai about it and doesn't disappear .…not just coz I'm a Bani supporter but also because if she chooses to end her marriage for the right reasons, then that is her prerogative..

What do you think had hurt Bani the most? The fact that her own sister backstabbed her or the fact that the man whom she revered as God fell down into pieces?

Both really – the two people she's loved most in the world have betrayed her. How do you measure pain anyway?.

Whom do you think has been the biggest victim in the whole drama? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons.

That's like picking between the chicken and the egg, MT….they've both been badly betrayed and are victims of equal proportion in this whole sorry saga. .

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jbks

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Posted: 19 years ago

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Now that Bani knows the truth, what will be her course of action? Will she leave WM (Yet again) / Will she forgive and forget all that happened and live happily with Jai and Krishna / Will Bani be in a dilemma for some more time to come?

Judging from her reaction yesterday, looks like she will recall how she had created hatred for herself in Jai's eyes to save him. And Jai did exactly the same for her. If we follow this than it looks like she will forgive him but may take sometime.

Assuming that the child Pis is carrying is fathered by Jai, do you think, that despite knowing the truth about how it happened, Bani will still carry a grudge in her Heart against this fact or will it not matter one bit to her, as long as she knows that child or no child, Jai loves her the most in the World.

Knowing Bani's character, she will not carry a grudge. Knowing that it was Pia who seduced Jai and Bani knowing that Jai doesnot love Pia, makes things a lot more simpler. And like you said Jai loves her the most in the world is what really matters to Bani.

Given Bani's expression's in yesterday's episode (PD was excellent in this scene) she looked not only shaken, but also very confused as Massi told her that it is upto her to believe what she has just been told or not. Do you think that after undergoing such betrayal, Bani will be ready to trust Jai blindly once again or will she take her time?

No, she won't trust him blindly yet because what she is probably thinking is why didn't Jai confide to her about his mistake.

If Pushkar persuades Pia to tell Jai and Bani (Be it a lie or the truth) that her child is not Fathered by Jai, will that make a difference to Bani's decision of whether she still wants her Marriage or not? Or do you think that Bani has been so hurt by what has happened, that nothing will erase the pain and anguish of being backstabbed once?

This might make a lot of difference since Push is involved. Bani trust Push a lot. Push just saying that it wasn't Mr Walia's fault but her evil sister's hatched plan from day one will make all the difference.

If despite hearing the truth from Massi, Bani still cannot come to accept it and decides to leave WM and break off her Marriage, will you support her on the issue? (Think hard on this and don't jump the gun abusing Bani )

Yes, I will support her, since she has been through a lot and she needs to get away from the mad house and recollect her thoughts. But the every fact that she knows Jai loves her very much and the child she is carrying is going to have a big impact on her decision Also Rashi might play a part in this.

What do you think had hurt Bani the most? The fact that her own sister backstabbed her or the fact that the man whom she revered as God fell down into pieces?

The latter, he was her everything.

Whom do you think has been the biggest victim in the whole drama? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons.

Hands down it is Jai Walia.

First - he was seduced into something he would have never committed.
Second - he was blackmailed by every evil witch going
Third - he lost his self respect
Fourth - he got disowned by his own family
Fifth – the most important of all. He lost Bani's trust/love for him.

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