What will be Bani's Decision? Q & A - Page 2

Originally posted by: mistletoe

b) The child that Pia is carrying is in all probability Jai's child and he has disowned both the Mother and the Child from his life

i think ONS itself is not happened between them... in such a drugged state a man can never do that... it was just for camera pia did all such set up and nothing more in it... so the question of his discarding both is not so important... even if he is the father it was like a rape as someone told... jai always were so wished for kids, any kids, if he thought not to punish the innocent child then it is because he is pure human with all + and - things...

c) Bani remained in love with Jai despite being in the dark about the truth...That only goes to show the depth of her love for him. And Jai remained steadfastedly loyal to Bani, despite knowing that only Pia can give him his heir, the child he so badly wanted!

i don't think jai had believed that bani can never become a mother... i feel that he love kids, may be the lost childhood of his own in irony and mothers tears.. he might have wished to have a family of his own in which he can wait to come be happy with..

Jai was broken in everyway, an emotional wreck and despite his best intentions, Pia overpowered him, mind you, not by the use of her love, but simply by conning him.

yes, not by love... her love was not for him, it was for the benefits coming after him... she illussioned no man will overlook her for bani's beauty... she was wondering how everyone love bani so much... it was too much for her, because her brain is not grown beyond to realise that a beautifull body is not the one but mind is the one which attract other to one...

So if Pia is indeed carrying Jai's child, is Jai at fault? Is it his guilt that he has unfortunately ended by impregnating a woman who had literally trapped him into doing so? He has been punished more than was necessary till date. Don't you think that Bani's not forgiving him would be the final nail on the Coffin of injustice against him?

if bani doesn't forgive him then i will tell jai to go, have life ur own in peace with some normal woman... who is the real reason to draw a man to the edge of his life... and it is her own sister whom she tricked him in the mandap too... and did so many things behind his back to help her on. she plainly doesn't deserve to punish him even if he did it... he didn't ask her to be a mahan to drag him to such mysery... does she have any clue how shattered he was in dubai or after that idol swearing... which man will take it.. why none is talking about it... that is what exactly made him so crazy and the other adventures she did to make money for pia's operation...

Questions for the Day;

Now that Bani knows the truth, what will be her course of action? Will she leave WM (Yet again) / Will she forgive and forget all that happened and live happily with Jai and Krishna / Will Bani be in a dilemma for some more time to come?

being bani probably she will be seen crying in front of God for giving jai such pain... till the end of leap i think they will show as if their life is going smooth... even krishna will come out... she will not leave WM

Assuming that the child Pis is carrying is fathered by Jai, do you think, that despite knowing the truth about how it happened, Bani will still carry a grudge in her Heart against this fact or will it not matter one bit to her, as long as she knows that child or no child, Jai loves her the most in the World.

for sure, every woman will be jelous about such a thing.. if not it means that the couple doesn't have such deep bonding between them to leave it nevermind

Given Bani's expression's in yesterday's episode (PD was excellent in this scene) she looked not only shaken, but also very confused as Massi told her that it is upto her to believe what she has just been told or not. Do you think that after undergoing such betrayal, Bani will be ready to trust Jai blindly once again or will she take her time?

i don't think bani is confused from her look... she is shocked... things were not sinking inside her... too much too soon , exactly... she knows if massi told then there nothing to rethink about it.. because she even gone to do the sradh of jai... if any case she wants to leave WM then it is because she or her sister caused such a big pain to him and she will think she is not good for him...

If Pushkar persuades Pia to tell Jai and Bani (Be it a lie or the truth) that her child is not Fathered by Jai, will that make a difference to Bani's decision of whether she still wants her Marriage or not? Or do you think that Bani has been so hurt by what has happened, that nothing will erase the pain and anguish of being backstabbed once?

why do think bani will withdraw from the marriage... she will not do it... if she hold it to for rashi then after knowing the truth why should do otherwise... bani must been hurt by the fact that she has been given the best to her sister with a good culture and love but paid back in such a way... she lost the basic element of life that is trust in relationships.... for she should not blame for any one... one thing she should learn is bond 007 job is not so good a job for a wife do it alone...

If despite hearing the truth from Massi, Bani still cannot come to accept it and decides to leave WM and break off her Marriage, will you support her on the issue? (Think hard on this and don't jump the gun abusing Bani😆)

i will tell her to get lost... jai is far better without that dixit clan even alone his life will be peaceful... isn't it better he adobt a child... than hearing this mera bacha mera bacha... all the time... i am sorry... recently i feel bani become so different... bit selfish... she was about her sisters, but never her own... but that she crossed now

What do you think had hurt Bani the most? The fact that her own sister backstabbed her or the fact that the man whom she revered as God fell down into pieces?

both, that she already told it to jai today...

Whom do you think has been the biggest victim in the whole drama? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons.

no, doubt, it jai walia... he is the biggest or worst victim of the whole ting... dixit clan took his 7 years... now dixit clan again broken his public image, reputation and peace of mind, added mental agony and pain... bani was not a vicitim at all... all she gone thru can be avaoided... because there is nothing bigger than a husband or wife for one.. when she pushed it to second life there she started everything.. she herself paved the way for her each pain... and more over pr raaz was her mothers fault... for which she didn't even care to say a sorry to him... jai was so good for this world in his heart which make him a misfit to this world where this type of creatures like jiggy, pia, sahil... etc lives... his own blood cheated him... those whom he given shelter and life had cheated on him... and he is rough on in his dressing not by nature... only by words not by actions so... he is the only victim... i don't forget what bani did... but it was avoidable... jai was not anyway having another option left for him in any of the case... when his own blood and near ones tried to trap him and taking advantage of the situation then none can do anything...

Will be looking forward to your answers...

Cheers,

MT

now my question to you... it because i didn't rad it in your update... n or did understand the hindi lines... what the panditji told jai in the jungle... "like thos who touch the kala jaadu things will be affected?" something like that... was it some kind of pointer to some upcoming bad events to jai... now pia is not he only j/b breakers... there is already someone who is already sleepless for it... can u help?

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Questions for the Day;

Now that Bani knows the truth, what will be her course of action? Will she leave WM (Yet again) / Will she forgive and forget all that happened and live happily with Jai and Krishna / Will Bani be in a dilemma for some more time to come?Deffo stupid amma will be in dilemma for few more episodes and finally she will remember all her kasams as now she knows she is not betrayed she will get back to her old self adn will leave JW for sake of child pia is carrying

Assuming that the child Pis is carrying is fathered by Jai, do you think, that despite knowing the truth about how it happened, Bani will still carry a grudge in her Heart against this fact or will it not matter one bit to her, as long as she knows that child or no child, Jai loves her the most in the World.As u termed JW has been in a way raped,if a man can symphatise a women who is raped but will never accept the kid,so maybe same goes here,wtever may be reasons the child will always be a thron in bani's life as for her the child his her husbands with another women,but JW love for her with/without kid will not come into question as she knows the answer very well

Given Bani's expression's in yesterday's episode (PD was excellent in this scene) she looked not only shaken, but also very confused as Massi told her that it is upto her to believe what she has just been told or not. Do you think that after undergoing such betrayal, Bani will be ready to trust Jai blindly once again or will she take her time?She will take ages!!!!!!!! maybe even the truth he is not the father will not help,but that nothing happ that night b/w them and his last words were I Love u bani may help in nera future if the unedited version of CD is out

If Pushkar persuades Pia to tell Jai and Bani (Be it a lie or the truth) that her child is not Fathered by Jai, will that make a difference to Bani's decision of whether she still wants her Marriage or not? Or do you think that Bani has been so hurt by what has happened, that nothing will erase the pain and anguish of being backstabbed once?First thing first pushkar has finally beacme sane so he will never do such a khurbhani

If despite hearing the truth from Massi, Bani still cannot come to accept it and decides to leave WM and break off her Marriage, will you support her on the issue? (Think hard on this and don't jump the gun abusing Bani😆)I am expecting only this from amma no second thoughts on this issue so abusing her😉

What do you think had hurt Bani the most? The fact that her own sister backstabbed her or the fact that the man whom she revered as God fell down into pieces? i felt its pia who hurt her more

Whom do you think has been the biggest victim in the whole drama? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons.anyday my vote goes to JW ,see bani left him adn they were seperated for 4months and bani wanted him to hate her and what all she did in name of protecting his property her final motive was to leave him so why lament over his ONS as what she exoected him to do???Live alone for rest of his life expanding his empire for no one and do her jaap,she had his child but he was absolutely alone.

Will be looking forward to your answers...

Cheers,

MT

My only question if bani left him,say they even get divorced and later if jai marries pia would she felt the same???

Originally posted by: mistletoe

Questions for the Day;

Now that Bani knows the truth, what will be her course of action? Will she leave WM (Yet again) / Will she forgive and forget all that happened and live happily with Jai and Krishna / Will Bani be in a dilemma for some more time to come?

No she won't leave bec she contended that his lack of trust in her that broke the camel's back resulting in her wanting to leave now. willingness to forgive is the necessary first step towards rebuilding the relationship and sorry to say it takes time not something done with a snap of the finger. Forgetting, never it will always remain in the back of your mind. We make our own happiness and if she wants to be happy she can. I know krishna will bring her that happiness.

Assuming that the child Pis is carrying is fathered by Jai, do you think, that despite knowing the truth about how it happened, Bani will still carry a grudge in her Heart against this fact or will it not matter one bit to her, as long as she knows that child or no child, Jai loves her the most in the World.

I feel the insecurity is the issue here not grudges. Witholding character assasinations, bani has been etched out to be a down to earth person not the type to hold grudges or take revenges. I think she is the type to analyze and see how she can move forward. I think Jai has to show her he loves her again and again. I think this entire episode has surfaced a kind of doubt in her as to the character of mankind. Probably the thing that will bug her now is why did he not tell me before. If he had so much love and faith in their love why did she have to find out the way she did.

Given Bani's expression's in yesterday's episode (PD was excellent in this scene) she looked not only shaken, but also very confused as Massi told her that it is upto her to believe what she has just been told or not. Do you think that after undergoing such betrayal, Bani will be ready to trust Jai blindly once again or will she take her time?

I don't think she is going to trust anyone so blindly anymore. These life- incidences are always a lesson. it is up to you whether you want to acknowledge and learn or live in ignorance. I want her to learn to be more independent and more selfish to herself. I want to see a more sensible and realistic Bani who doesn't jump into Banigiri mode.

If Pushkar persuades Pia to tell Jai and Bani (Be it a lie or the truth) that her child is not Fathered by Jai, will that make a difference to Bani's decision of whether she still wants her Marriage or not? Or do you think that Bani has been so hurt by what has happened, that nothing will erase the pain and anguish of being backstabbed once?

At this juncture the question of the paternity of the child is not an issue. It is the actions by her beloved sister Pia and her godlike husband that are the cause of the pain and anguish she is experiencing. Whilst Jai may have been a victim in all this , the pain caused by Pia's betrayal cannot be completely erased nor should it be. Pain on healing always leaves a scar.

If despite hearing the truth from Massi, Bani still cannot come to accept it and decides to leave WM and break off her Marriage, will you support her on the issue? (Think hard on this and don't jump the gun abusing Bani😆)

You have to believe in your marriage to live in it. If sincerely Bani introspects and sees the value of her marriage in her life and then decides she wants out, then it is her perogative. This time she has to keep in mind that she is not alone, she has a child to think about and is her decision fair on the child especially since knowing that Jai was taken advantage of. If for introspection reasons she decides to move out to give herself space and time then I will support her. If she feels the marriage is just going to be a farce and her feelings for Jai hold no water then I will support her because that will allow all parties to move on with their lives rather than live in a make pretend world of honky-dory.

What do you think had hurt Bani the most? The fact that her own sister backstabbed her or the fact that the man whom she revered as God fell down into pieces?

Pia's backstabbing definately. This was beyond her wildest imagination. Betrayal by flesh and blood is a deterioration of all family values and sanskars. Jai falling from his pedestal is a good thing. I don't believe in treating men like God , they are humans and it is the mistake of us women to put them on this pedestal.

Whom do you think has been the biggest victim in the whole drama? Jai or Bani? Please give your reasons.

Jai . He was emotionally damaged by banigiri and masi's mauhn vrat and used as a pawn in a vicious game by his SIL. If the walia family had not supported Bani then I would have voted for her.

Society has difficulty accepting that men can be raped. These cases are often not reported for fear of shame as men are portrayed as brave etc etc. Since Ekta has brought up this issue, she should do justice to it and show irrespective of sex, a victim of rape is equally traumatized and emotionally damaged.

Will be looking forward to your answers...

Cheers,

MT

I think JW has suffered so much. Since J &B realized their love for each other, Bani always took him for granted. For example: PR raaz, property issue, after ons ans so on. As far as trust in relationship is concerned, trust was lacking on Bani's part. Despite knowing JW inside out, she never trusted JW as much as he did. On the other hand, she always trusted Pia blindly.

Remember? When bani was suspicious and investigating the other woman in JW's life. As soon as she came to know the involvement of Pia, she changed her mind, her doubts were cleared .

I understand that she nurtured her sisters like a mom and it is natural to be careful and concerned for them. If she is like a mother, she has to treat both the sisers equally.Why she gives so much importance to Pia? No matter what she does? However, she need to be fair with JW too. Even on their wedding anniversary, she gor ready to go to Dubai for pia's sake not for JW. Bani has always used all the resourses provided by JW for her sisters especially Pia.

On the other hand, since JW realized his love for bani, JW never questioned or doubted Bani for anything. He always trusted and supported bani no matter what. Remember? When Ranveer took Pusshy and bani's photographs and presented in court, JW had all the reasons to suspect her. There are many many incidents like this happened but JW's trust towards bani,remained intact. UNFORTUNATELY, I CAN'T SAY THE SAME FOR BANI.

Even now, I think bani will not trust JW completely until pia tells her that nothing has happened or until she gets some solid proof like DNA report. Bani needs to learn something from JW.

I am a JB camper too. But I can't see JW like this.😭