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Posted: 12 years ago
#31
Asad's all about family and having helped in Ayaan's growth when he was practically a baby, Ayaan is a huge part of his life and as you said Ayaan is kinda that link between him and Rashid. With him and that family on the whole.

I agree with Asad leaving Ayaan to fend on his own a bit because he's still very immature in certain matters. Where that hug was one of relief and love for Asad, Ayaan didn't seem to be completely into it which means he's not over what happened.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: niki_12

Great point and I agree with you! But i also feel that this time Asad felt guilty. He felt he was wrong and had wronged NIkhat and Ayaan. Asad is a man of principles and like he said he would not want to set up Najma's marriage at the cost of Nikhat's sadness. So he wanted to set things right. That is what Asad does. However, in the past when Ayaan was wrong Asad did not side with him. During the Gudiya factory days and then when Ayaan burned the car. He did not support Ayaan then or go running to apologize to him or clarify things. Because Asad knew that no matter how much he loves Ayaan if he is wrong he is wrong. In this case Asad felt he was wrong and Ayaan was right because Asad is selfless.


In the future, I think if Ayaan is ever supporting the wrong side. For example, if Zoya's mother's truth comes out and Asad wants Rashid punished and Ayaan sides with Rashid I don't think Asad will go to Ayaan and make up for things then. Asad is going to stick to principle and what is right! If Ayaan forces Asad to choose between him and Zoya I am positive Asad will choose Zoya.

But i do agree that his relationship with Ayaan is due to his longing for his father. Some where deep down that is his only connection with him.

And that is why when Asad has to be against Rashid (Zoya's mothers truth)-Asad will no longer side with Ayaan IMO!!

Have a great weekend 😃


Thanks Niki. Yes, there have been times when Asad has stuck to his guns but overall, he is still quick to forgive Ayaan and doesn't let him learn a lesson the hard way. Kind of a dysfunctional parent-child relationship. One day, this will snap and SNAP hard
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: me2you

Ah very nice Di! 😊


I totally agree with you on this one. Indeed, if Asad had not cared for Ayaan, he would never ever come to him and talk to him. Ayaan means way too much for him, he loves him no matter what. He can't see anger in Ayaan's eyes for him. Therefore, for that love and concern, he came to sort out things. His mind would not be in peace otherwise.

I must say that the CV's are doing a great job by showing the differences in characters: older bhai/younger bhai, older sister/younger sister.

Mr. Khan, your siblings should be proud to have a bhaijaan like you.


Yes, Asad is def a great brother to his half siblings. Can't see it working vice versa yet except for Nikhat's mature gesture towards Najma this week

Asad never visits SM...the fact he did shows how much he cares for Ayaan
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: MannieXO

interesting way of looking at it, nice post 😊


yes I remember very clearly that look Asad gave when Rashid and Ayaan hugged each other right in front of him ... his expression looked like he was thinking many things all at once... it looked like a mixture of disgust (why are you crying over my mother when you were the one who cheated on her and left) and to a certain extent it looked like he was jealous; looked like he wish he had a father to hug like Ayaan does.



I think it was the latter. Even in that factory rain sequence, he went to Rashid as a cry for help but Rashid has always failed Asad
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: divyabelle

Nice post Sangeeta Di.


I have no complaints about Asad. Maintaining relationships he values are very important to him. But, Ayaan is too spoilt. Today Rashid and Badi Bi gave in to his requests and if not for Nikhat's intervention, Asad would have also. The day will soon come when Ayaan will have to grow up.


I agree...it would be a harsh awakening for Ayaan one day
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Posted: 12 years ago
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agree wid u bheegi asad pampers ayaan to d core coz he just nt want to loose him at any cost ...n nt only ayaan ..its applicable to all his lugd ones
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: niki_12

Great point and I agree with you! But i also feel that this time Asad felt guilty. He felt he was wrong and had wronged NIkhat and Ayaan. Asad is a man of principles and like he said he would not want to set up Najma's marriage at the cost of Nikhat's sadness. So he wanted to set things right. That is what Asad does. However, in the past when Ayaan was wrong Asad did not side with him. During the Gudiya factory days and then when Ayaan burned the car. He did not support Ayaan then or go running to apologize to him or clarify things. Because Asad knew that no matter how much he loves Ayaan if he is wrong he is wrong. In this case Asad felt he was wrong and Ayaan was right because Asad is selfless.


In the future, I think if Ayaan is ever supporting the wrong side. For example, if Zoya's mother's truth comes out and Asad wants Rashid punished and Ayaan sides with Rashid I don't think Asad will go to Ayaan and make up for things then. Asad is going to stick to principle and what is right! If Ayaan forces Asad to choose between him and Zoya I am positive Asad will choose Zoya.

But i do agree that his relationship with Ayaan is due to his longing for his father. Some where deep down that is his only connection with him.

And that is why when Asad has to be against Rashid (Zoya's mothers truth)-Asad will no longer side with Ayaan IMO!!

Have a great weekend 😃

Nice reasoning 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: me2you

Ah very nice Di! 😊


I totally agree with you on this one. Indeed, if Asad had not cared for Ayaan, he would never ever come to him and talk to him. Ayaan means way too much for him, he loves him no matter what. He can't see anger in Ayaan's eyes for him. Therefore, for that love and concern, he came to sort out things. His mind would not be in peace otherwise.

I must say that the CV's are doing a great job by showing the differences in characters: older bhai/younger bhai, older sister/younger sister.

Mr. Khan, your siblings should be proud to have a bhaijaan like you.

Must say, the thought has crossed my mind...wish I had an older brother like asad - selfless, protective etc etc
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Posted: 12 years ago
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And above all that... he is the elder one. He's the less impulsive one. He knows better than to severe relationships at the cost of his ego- HE'S LOST AND WENT THROUGH TOO DAMN MUCH ALREADY!! Ayan has not gone though what Asad has been through- HE'S MEANT TO BE HAPPY AND CAREFREE. I totally connect with Asad as I too have a younger sibling. She can be impossible and irrational at times, but then at those times I never forget the times when she has tried to be there for me in her own way. Just like Ayan did when Asad was going through issues with Tanveer- Ayan never lost faith in him when everyone else did. ASAD IS TOTALLY JUSTIFIED 😊

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