I agree that the Rathi family walk all over Sooraj and Sandhya and most of them are upset because the money wont be coming in... they will have to cough up if the separation is long term. They are all greedy for money especially Meena, Mohit and Chavi.
But I don't agree with the fact that Sooraj is not strong enough to love his wife. He loves both his mother and wife equally and in fact for Sooraj this must be very difficult and I am sure that every son goes through this once he is married. Sooraj is trying to balance his wife's dreams with his mother's which are completely different. He is in the middle of a war.
As far as Sandy is concerned she has always been in sacrifice mode since the day she stepped into Rathi Mansion. Bhabo treats her like crap but she still values her more than Sooraj. The only complaint I have against Sandhya's character is that she doesn't express anything. Sooraj is doing everything and anything to make her happy, her dream come true but she cant even hug him or smile at him. I feel sometimes she doesn't understand Sooraj's love and affection for her and takes it for granted. She hasn't transformed into Sandhya Sooraj Rathi yet... she is still Sandhya Arvind Kothari.
The scene yesterday with the samosa was done well... how can you expect a son like Sooraj to forget his mother like that. Sooraj is an ideal son... a shravan kumar. No matter what happens Bhabo is still his mother... you cant change that fact.. the bond between them is strong and I am sure it is for any mother and child. Sooraj loves Sandhya more than anything in this world... he still loves his mother but he will do anything to make Sandhya's dream come true.
Life isn't a bed of roses. The path to IPS is full of thorns but not impossible!