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Posted: 19 years ago
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I'd disagree with you guys too... I think Gauri is a strong character, naive in her belief in the goodness of others, but strong nonetheless. She had the courage to try exposing Daksh to the rest of the family, knowing that Shiv won't support her, and maybe the family will turn against her... She stuck by Shiv when his behaviour towards her bordered on cruelty, just for her father. She was set to fight destiny and make the most of a marriage to someone who hated her...

True, she's sticking by Shiv knowing that will bring her death. Everyone values their life, think how strong a love it is that she's actually willing to die for him. People just talk of giving up their lives for a loved one, she's doing it. Imagine the pain of unrequited love, and she's gone through that too...

You guys say she's weak for forgiving Nikhila, but don't they say 'to err is human, to forgive divine'? She's naive and trusting of Shiv- well he's given her enough reasons to trust him. And naivete maybe a weakness, but that alone can't make you weak...

One thing you have to understand it that Gauri aint going through all this coz she doesn't have a choice or a backbone, she does, and these are her choices. Getting married to Shiv, staying married to Shiv, embracing death... And in all this she doesn't have regrets! Yep, it maddens me to know the whole truth and see her waste her life on someone who is cheating on her, but it takes guts to do what she is doing...

Whew, now that was long... You guys shud have stopped my ramblings ages ago 😊
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: just4coll

I'd disagree with you guys too... I think Gauri is a strong character, naive in her belief in the goodness of others, but strong nonetheless. She had the courage to try exposing Daksh to the rest of the family, knowing that Shiv won't support her, and maybe the family will turn against her... She stuck by Shiv when his behaviour towards her bordered on cruelty, just for her father. She was set to fight destiny and make the most of a marriage to someone who hated her...

True, she's sticking by Shiv knowing that will bring her death. Everyone values their life, think how strong a love it is that she's actually willing to die for him. People just talk of giving up their lives for a loved one, she's doing it. Imagine the pain of unrequited love, and she's gone through that too...

You guys say she's weak for forgiving Nikhila, but don't they say 'to err is human, to forgive divine'? She's naive and trusting of Shiv- well he's given her enough reasons to trust him. And naivete maybe a weakness, but that alone can't make you weak...

One thing you have to understand it that Gauri aint going through all this coz she doesn't have a choice or a backbone, she does, and these are her choices. Getting married to Shiv, staying married to Shiv, embracing death... And in all this she doesn't have regrets! Yep, it maddens me to know the whole truth and see her waste her life on someone who is cheating on her, but it takes guts to do what she is doing...

Whew, now that was long... You guys shud have stopped my ramblings ages ago 😊

Ditto!!!! Couldnt have said it better!!!!

Second your thoughts completely!!! 😊

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Posted: 19 years ago
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just4coll ,i totally agree with your pov.... 😊

you said it rite it needs guts for wat gauri is doing ...

very well said ..so perfect.. 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: just4coll

I'd disagree with you guys too... I think Gauri is a strong character, naive in her belief in the goodness of others, but strong nonetheless. She had the courage to try exposing Daksh to the rest of the family, knowing that Shiv won't support her, and maybe the family will turn against her... She stuck by Shiv when his behaviour towards her bordered on cruelty, just for her father. She was set to fight destiny and make the most of a marriage to someone who hated her...

True, she's sticking by Shiv knowing that will bring her death. Everyone values their life, think how strong a love it is that she's actually willing to die for him. People just talk of giving up their lives for a loved one, she's doing it. Imagine the pain of unrequited love, and she's gone through that too...

You guys say she's weak for forgiving Nikhila, but don't they say 'to err is human, to forgive divine'? She's naive and trusting of Shiv- well he's given her enough reasons to trust him. And naivete maybe a weakness, but that alone can't make you weak...

One thing you have to understand it that Gauri aint going through all this coz she doesn't have a choice or a backbone, she does, and these are her choices. Getting married to Shiv, staying married to Shiv, embracing death... And in all this she doesn't have regrets! Yep, it maddens me to know the whole truth and see her waste her life on someone who is cheating on her, but it takes guts to do what she is doing...

Whew, now that was long... You guys shud have stopped my ramblings ages ago 😊




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alrite! i coodnt agree wit u mor
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i think i agree with "just4coll"


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Posted: 19 years ago
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i think all of us are entitled for our opinions.
some of us think she is stupid and weak but some think she isa strong woman 😊

i personally think she is a strong woman. if i was in her shoes.. i'd say hasta la vista to my other half after knowing the whole raaz!!!

i dont think i could cope with his dysfunctional family, with greedy and psychotic mom who believes about her son bad kundali 😕 , with his aunty who always taunting you or making fun on you because you are not up to her style or fashion , with his uncle who is aftering for a younger and sexy woman as his mistress .. or with his father who always think your husband is nothing but useless son!! 😭 and his lil sister who always making you as a target of bullying 😭 !.. no no.. i cant stay in that house

only 3/4 members of this family are pretty much normal for me. they are: dadi, dadu, shyla n vivan

yeap i saw gauri weaknesses but i think her courage and strength are greater than those weaknesses.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: just4coll

I'd disagree with you guys too... I think Gauri is a strong character, naive in her belief in the goodness of others, but strong nonetheless. She had the courage to try exposing Daksh to the rest of the family, knowing that Shiv won't support her, and maybe the family will turn against her... She stuck by Shiv when his behaviour towards her bordered on cruelty, just for her father. She was set to fight destiny and make the most of a marriage to someone who hated her...

True, she's sticking by Shiv knowing that will bring her death. Everyone values their life, think how strong a love it is that she's actually willing to die for him. People just talk of giving up their lives for a loved one, she's doing it. Imagine the pain of unrequited love, and she's gone through that too...

You guys say she's weak for forgiving Nikhila, but don't they say 'to err is human, to forgive divine'? She's naive and trusting of Shiv- well he's given her enough reasons to trust him. And naivete maybe a weakness, but that alone can't make you weak...

One thing you have to understand it that Gauri aint going through all this coz she doesn't have a choice or a backbone, she does, and these are her choices. Getting married to Shiv, staying married to Shiv, embracing death... And in all this she doesn't have regrets! Yep, it maddens me to know the whole truth and see her waste her life on someone who is cheating on her, but it takes guts to do what she is doing...

Whew, now that was long... You guys shud have stopped my ramblings ages ago 😊

i completely agree with u!! couldnt have said it better myself!! 😃

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