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I'm siding with Massi. For some of us who are mother-in-laws would probably do the same if their daughter-in-law is a good person.

I will tell you by my example. I have a daughter-in-law and she is a really good person, kind and considerate to everyone and always think of my husband and myself as a real mother and father to her.

Sometimes, my son takes a few drinks and come home and just pester her and get angry with her for nothing, and I just feel like hitting him on the head, I'm so mad that he picks on her for the smallest of things. My husband always get mad with him and tell him to get out of the house and leave her alone.

Now if I were to find out that my son was having an affair and the girl is having a baby, I would definitely put him out for betraying my daughter-in-law, simply because she is someone's daughter, she is now under our care and she is above all a good person to get hurt like that.

You have to understand Massi's point of view. She saw her sister (Jai's mother) going through a hard time with Jai's father. She certainly would not want Bani to go through that knowing that Bani is a good person. Remember what Massi heard is that Pia's baby is Jai's and they are having an affair, so definitely she reacted to that. She saw Bani leaving and she had to make a choice of either Bani or Jai stay. Remember also that a daughter-in-law is the responsibility of the in-laws, especially the mother and father and Massi took that seriously.

However, with the same breadth, I think because of her strong anger towards him at the time, she did the shraad, and that I don't feel she should have done, but I understand why she did it. I'm sure she will regret it later.

Maybe for the youngsters on the forum, this might be a little strange but for us older folks, when a daughter-in-law comes into the home, it is our duty to protect her and treat her just as we would our own daughter.

i hate masi for throwing jai out of his own house

Uh uh.....no way is masi being blamed for her actions....no one can see how much pain that woman is goin through right now....only masi knows how her sister felt when uday cheated on her.....this is the only reason why she got even more pissed off.....i understand that she should've said something about why bani wanted to divorce jai before.....i know she shouldn't have been quiet but still.....i think masi is right!!!! no offense to jai fans....if ur sister gets cheated like that by her husband and then ur sister's son grows up and does the same thing to his wife....i would get pissed off too....and that too someone who loved him so much....i know wat bani did was so stupid....but still....i even know that it wasn't really jai's fault....but still masi is right....and i fully support her for her actions....put urselves in that womans shoes....maybe u might think i am also right!!!!

Originally posted by: dadi-maa

I'm siding with Massi. For some of us who are mother-in-laws would probably do the same if their daughter-in-law is a good person.

I will tell you by my example. I have a daughter-in-law and she is a really good person, kind and considerate to everyone and always think of my husband and myself as a real mother and father to her.

Sometimes, my son takes a few drinks and come home and just pester her and get angry with her for nothing, and I just feel like hitting him on the head, I'm so mad that he picks on her for the smallest of things. My husband always get mad with him and tell him to get out of the house and leave her alone.

Now if I were to find out that my son was having an affair and the girl is having a baby, I would definitely put him out for betraying my daughter-in-law, simply because she is someone's daughter, she is now under our care and she is above all a good person to get hurt like that.

You have to understand Massi's point of view. She saw her sister (Jai's mother) going through a hard time with Jai's father. She certainly would not want Bani to go through that knowing that Bani is a good person. Remember what Massi heard is that Pia's baby is Jai's and they are having an affair, so definitely she reacted to that. She saw Bani leaving and she had to make a choice of either Bani or Jai stay. Remember also that a daughter-in-law is the responsibility of the in-laws, especially the mother and father and Massi took that seriously.

However, with the same breadth, I think because of her strong anger towards him at the time, she did the shraad, and that I don't feel she should have done, but I understand why she did it. I'm sure she will regret it later.

Maybe for the youngsters on the forum, this might be a little strange but for us older folks, when a daughter-in-law comes into the home, it is our duty to protect her and treat her just as we would our own daughter.

my mom said the same to me when i was like bashin masi...but ya i dont find her completely wrong or right...the shraad part yes but like i said before if bani had done something like this she would of been kicked out in a blink of an eye so it seems fair but ya i was sooo sad when cuddles was leavin he looked like a 4 year old bein kicked out with tears in his eyes😭

Hi, I'm new and here are my two cents if it counts for anything…I agree with Massi's anger and everything she said in anger but I don't think it's her right to throw him out of the house b/c it's not her house. However, yes I do understand her reaction to everything she saw and heard from Jai and Pia's own mouths…it's not like she heard it from someone else so why would she even think to wait for Jai's explanation. What would he have said?? In any case, I don't think Massi is wrong in trying to protect Bani. Maybe instead of kicking Jai out of his own house, she could've taken Bani away and moved back to her place – btw, what town is Massi from?

Originally posted by: lil_isha15

my mom said the same to me when i was like bashin masi...but ya i dont find her completely wrong or right...the shraad part yes but like i said before if bani had done something like this she would of been kicked out in a blink of an eye so it seems fair but ya i was sooo sad when cuddles was leavin he looked like a 4 year old bein kicked out with tears in his eyes😭

Don't worry, Massi and Jai will be one again when the truth comes out. Remember also Massi told Rano to throw Pia out of the house as well, so she is mad with both of them. So don't worry you baby (Jai)😊 will be o.k.

Originally posted by: msbee

Hi, I'm new and here are my two cents if it counts for anything…I agree with Massi's anger and everything she said in anger but I don't think it's her right to throw him out of the house b/c it's not her house. However, yes I do understand her reaction to everything she saw and heard from Jai and Pia's own mouths…it's not like she heard it from someone else so why would she even think to wait for Jai's explanation. What would he have said?? In any case, I don't think Massi is wrong in trying to protect Bani. Maybe instead of kicking Jai out of his own house, she could've taken Bani away and moved back to her place – btw, what town is Massi from?

of course it counts 😃 everyone opinons counts