Originally posted by: anu rulz
it is accepted tht whatever she does,she is going to get bashed by atleast Ira and Sachi..but the anandi we know, wud nt keep quite for those reasons..Ira had once thrown on her face, abt treating sachi like her nanad and being her bhabhi..this was her chance to do so..she backed out, in my opinion..she has gone and spoken to the wrong people at the wrong time..sumitra of all people??really?? when she is aware of the bias sumi has started developing?? why not talk directly to DS or bhairon?? and when the Khajan issue happened, she cud have herself brought the topic up in front of the family, instead of keeping mum..my issue is her bad timing..tht is all..
THe only person I think she could have any effect on.. would have been Jagya. Only if she spoke with Jagya in the beginning when the Rishta was being taken.
Then Jagya would have realized that Anandi was not for this rishta and he would not come in the sacrificing mode and not gone ahead with the proposal.
But .. even then I think that would have come out. ANd she would have been blamed.
The other person as you mentioned is Bhairav.. He could have been a good person to talk to. She did not voice her opinion to him.. though I feel that perhaps even he would have been made to shut up. In fact he is the only voice of reason in Singh family and even then he is always shushed up.
So honestly I have no idea who was the right person to talk to for her.
The moment I saw SHiv backing down when Anandi told him I was like.. thast it. She is done for. This whole mess will be on her head.
The only person who could have helped her was Shiv. And he just sat back .. and even today he was like.. sanchi will learn. They are keeping too much hope on Sanchi.
Anandi right now cannot do anything. Its out of her hands. It was never in her hands as shiv did not react properly to her statements from beginning.
So .. the only person who will be the saving grace of this whole scenario is Jagya. Which he will do soon.
Lets see how Anandi will face the heat about that.
Perhaps she will help sanchi out of depression. Not sure if CVs are paving this whole thing for Sanchi Anandi relationship. I surely hope so.
That will be something to look forward to. Where the entire family is unable to handle sanchi and Anandi being in the same place as being rejected by Jagya could somehow relate nad bring Sanchi out of depression.
Edited by Suchi-Virmanian - 12 years ago