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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 12 years ago

Why cant Anandi mind her own business ?

Sanchi had plotted nothing. She spoke her mind to her friend that she is not comfortable wearing those lehengas and that she wore it only to make a first good impression... She said she would convince family members later that she is not comfortable wearing those clothes. And I do not think, Sanchi's clothes would be an issue to Singhs at all..So what was Anandi's problem?

Why should Jagya's new wife be Anandi's duplicate? Why cant she have her own individuality and identity? Who is Anandi to decide what will be right for Jagya and what will be not? No one can predict what is going to right for others and what will be wrong. Moreover, No one asked for her opinion.

Shiv was right in telling her that opposites do attract and that they might adjust with each other and become happy as a couple.

Anandi should stop being so concerned about Singhs... Forget sanchi-jagya's life, she should first find some purpose in her own meaningless life.

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divine_ram

@divine_ram

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Shinya
Why cant Anandi mind her own business ?

Sanchi had plotted nothing. She spoke her mind to her friend that she is not comfortable wearing those lehengas and that she wore it only to make a first good impression... She said she would convince family members later that she is not comfortable wearing those clothes. And I do not think, Sanchi's clothes would be an issue to Singhs at all..So what was Anandi's problem?

Why should Jagya's new wife be Anandi's duplicate? Why cant she have her own individuality and identity? Who is Anandi to decide what will be right for Jagya and what will be not? No one can predict what is going to right for others and what will be wrong. Moreover, No one asked for her opinion.

Shiv was right in telling her that opposites do attract and that they might adjust with each other and become happy as a couple.

Anandi should stop being so concerned about Singhs... Forget sanchi-jagya's life, she should first find some purpose in her own meaningless life.

Hats off for you for honestly telling the truth about anandi. Because of her over interference saanchi will make her life a hell in the near future even she might loose shiv support which is the only good think going on in Shekhar family. I don't like singhs ESP DS wanting a bahu exactly like anandi. Why cannot they have a girl be herself than a shadow of anandi.

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vasiraju

@vasiraju

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Posted: 12 years ago

My like button is not working 😡...

Finally i got a post who can think out of context to in reference to Ganga or Anandi ..

I am tired sick of CV's showing Gnaga as Anandi ..and Anandi wants her replica in the Singhs house 🥱..

Leave sacchi aside ...for it be ok any other girl other than Ganga in the singhs ..it seems like world is with 2 women that have criteria to have the position of DIL in singhs Family ..

why can't a girl from good BG with Modern values at traditional thinking can't fit in Sighns house ..Sighs house always welcome change and welcome new change if it won't hurt their core values .

I know saachi is stubborn and wants everything on her way ..its saachi trouble to see whether to fit in to the house or not ..its question of saachi can adjust to that atmosphere or not ..

Any other girl other than Ganga can be suitable and can workout that relationship even coming from city .

People came from two different families and different thinking ..a north indian can marry a south indian ...its just that how they accommodate and adjust to present situation and live Happily..

I am not understanding the concept Jagdish wife should be duplicate of Anandi

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divine_ram

@divine_ram

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Posted: 12 years ago

I am not supporting saanchi behavior and hate her. But does not like Singh family who want their bahu to have similar qualities like anandi. I like anandi a lot as a person but why show Ganga in the same way or compare her to anandi. Singhs should grow up and look beyond anandi. They should not expect a bahu who cooks, do tel maalish, wear only lehenga, stand and serve men etc. When they have become so broad minded accepting a weird rista and marrying off their bahu to another guy then why not adapt to modern ways of a city bred girl. Here it's not saanchi lifestyle but her expectation from life which is very different from jagya. I don't think jagya should mind saanchi not cooking, wearing western wear, going out with friends but her selfish nature and trying to rub her desires on him is the big issue. No one is showing the basic difference in the rista that is saanchi wanting to change jagya.

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vasiraju

@vasiraju

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Sheetsden
I am not supporting saanchi behavior and hate her. But does not like Singh family who want their bahu to have similar qualities like anandi. I like anandi a lot as a person but why show Ganga in the same way or compare her to anandi. Singhs should grow up and look beyond anandi. They should not expect a bahu who cooks, do tel maalish, wear only lehenga, stand and serve men etc. When they have become so broad minded accepting a weird rista and marrying off their bahu to another guy then why not adapt to modern ways of a city bred girl. Here it's not saanchi lifestyle but her expectation from life which is very different from jagya. I don't think jagya should mind saanchi not cooking, wearing western wear, going out with friends but her selfish nature and trying to rub her desires on him is the big issue. No one is showing they basic difference in the rista that is saanchi wanting to change jagya.

👏 👏...Exactly saachi has her own agenda ..and want jagiya to play on her tunes ..which the trouble making issue..other than that i am too not understanding..the concept of duplicate anandi in the singhs house ..i really don't want duplicate Anandi to jagiya's wife ..but Cv's are hell bent to show that Duplicate Anandi is only can fit for singhs and Jagiya

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divine_ram

@divine_ram

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: vasiraju

👏 👏...Exactly saachi has her own agenda ..and want jagiya to play on her tunes ..which the trouble making issue..other than that i am too not understanding..the concept of duplicate anandi in the singhs house ..i really don't want duplicate Anandi to jagiya's wife ..but Cv's are hell bent to show that Duplicate Anandi is only can fit for singhs and Jagiya

The worse part is jagya too wants a wife like anandi. I don't think he is ready to marry anyone right now. He looked like a saint today doing yoga. If he treats saanchi the same way anandi treated shiv in her initial months of marriage without intimacy will saanchi be calm and understanding like shiv ? The whole anandi and DS making jagya agree to marry and anandi to select a girl for him was the biggest blunder in the show. It's high time singhs don't expect a girl living the lifestyle similar as them.

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 12 years ago

@Sheets and vasiraju - I agree with your points.

When sanchi is ready to change herself for the man she loves, Anandi should stop poking her nose and give her free advice to others.

When Sumi is happy with Sanchi as DIL, who is anandi to say that this rishta must end.?.Why she wants jagya's wife to be exactly like her?

Moreover, Jagya has accepted Sanchi and is ready to adjust with her.

First, Anandi went to Ganga and asked why she said to Lalsingh that she wont be able to live if anything happens to Jagya? Now she is announcing that this rishta must end...

How much can a woman interfere in her ex-husband's life, man?

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Vidya

@Shinya

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Sheetsden
The worse part is jagya too wants a wife life anandi. I don't think he is ready to marry anyone right now. He looked like a saint today doing yoga. If he treats saanchi the same way anandi treated shiv in her initial months of marriage without intimacy will saanchi be calm and understanding like shiv ? The whole anandi and DS making jagya agree to marry and anandi to select a girl for him was the biggest blunder in the show. It's high time singhs don't expect a girl living the lifestyle similar as them.

Exactly ! When he wasnt ready to marry, she blackmailed him to agree for remarriage.

Now she is deciding who is going to be his wife! Thats really annoying.😡

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vasiraju

@vasiraju

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

The worse part is jagya too wants a wife like anandi. I don't think he is ready to marry anyone right now. He looked like a saint today doing yoga. If he treats saanchi the same way anandi treated shiv in her initial months of marriage without intimacy will saanchi be calm and understanding like shiv ? The whole anandi and DS making jagya agree to marry and anandi to select a girl for him was the biggest blunder in the show. It's high time singhs don't expect a girl living the lifestyle similar as them.

so true ...he tried other than anadi first ...which he failed and now he wants Anandi ..which is not possible ..so he wants Anandi like Girl 😆..How funny is that ..How can a person can even think that he will get same person like His Ex First wife ..

He is already Bond to Anandi ..with out Anandi the Sings family won't even change the color of Haveli 😆..Now he wants the same life that he spent with Anandi ..exact same ..

what type of script writing is that 😡...why don't he wants to see some thing new in his life ..He had became saint and he should get someone who makes to come out That avathar ..

Jagiya is not ready for marriage ..he had no feelings to any other Girl ..Not Ganga not saachi ..

he really needs Time .

Singhs won't accept the change soon ..they have to be forced to accept the change ..If they got a DIL who thinks different and acts for good they will accept and appreciate.

Cv's really stretching the track tooo Much ..

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731627

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Posted: 12 years ago

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anandi is minding her own business .she does not tell sanchi why will u not wear lehnga in badi haveli u have to wear this and even she does not complain about this neither to shekhar family nor singh .anandi just showing concern that too alone that can sanchi adjust in haveli for long time because of different upbringing ?and sanchi says woh apni baat manwa legi so for according to anandi it is not so easy as anandi know ds nature well .ds has change her nature but she will not comprise with sanchi dress .

anandi just show her worriness about this marriage but she herself do not go to stop this marriage and even she herself did not talk about this to shiv .when shiv ask her what is problem first she refuse but he force her then she told about marriage opinion and it is shiv mahi force her to talk about this family .and anandi also show disagreement to talk about this to family she says wont it be too late if i talk about this now as shagun happen but still shiv force her so no option left for anandi so she decided to talk .

when anandi listened sanchi words she even say if i stop sanchi marriage then sanchi future will be in stake

Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago