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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

Why cant Anandi mind her own business ?

Sanchi had plotted nothing. She spoke her mind to her friend that she is not comfortable wearing those lehengas and that she wore it only to make a first good impression... She said she would convince family members later that she is not comfortable wearing those clothes. And I do not think, Sanchi's clothes would be an issue to Singhs at all..So what was Anandi's problem?

Why should Jagya's new wife be Anandi's duplicate? Why cant she have her own individuality and identity? Who is Anandi to decide what will be right for Jagya and what will be not? No one can predict what is going to right for others and what will be wrong. Moreover, No one asked for her opinion.

Shiv was right in telling her that opposites do attract and that they might adjust with each other and become happy as a couple.

Anandi should stop being so concerned about Singhs... Forget sanchi-jagya's life, she should first find some purpose in her own meaningless life.



Very well said, I couldn't agree more. We may or not like Sanchi, but she's doing a lot for Jagya...on the other hand, what Anandi's ever done for Shiv, except she's constantly worried about her ex

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Is it not so simple to understand that why Anandi is interefering ...HER own heart still beats for Jagya...and she may have moved physically from Jagya...but her inner intrics say..."Jagya and Anandi made for each other"...so leave behind Saanchi, even if any other girl comes into Jagya s life, she will make sure Jagya remains single...so that she has always an alternate for her...Is she worried about Saanchi ..no way..she thinks that both families s bond may get weakened...it s her insecurity in Sekhars villa ..because she is not able to impress them ..after all sekhars are not uneducated rural bunch of jokers who can listen to her speech and start nodding their heads...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

Why cant Anandi mind her own business ?

Sanchi had plotted nothing. She spoke her mind to her friend that she is not comfortable wearing those lehengas and that she wore it only to make a first good impression... She said she would convince family members later that she is not comfortable wearing those clothes. And I do not think, Sanchi's clothes would be an issue to Singhs at all..So what was Anandi's problem?

Why should Jagya's new wife be Anandi's duplicate? Why cant she have her own individuality and identity? Who is Anandi to decide what will be right for Jagya and what will be not? No one can predict what is going to right for others and what will be wrong. Moreover, No one asked for her opinion.

Shiv was right in telling her that opposites do attract and that they might adjust with each other and become happy as a couple.

Anandi should stop being so concerned about Singhs... Forget sanchi-jagya's life, she should first find some purpose in her own meaningless life.


Specially liked the sentence in Bold. ...I think she should first stop being a glorified maid in Shekhar house and then can bother about Sanchi's happiness...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shinya

Why cant Anandi mind her own business ?

Sanchi had plotted nothing. She spoke her mind to her friend that she is not comfortable wearing those lehengas and that she wore it only to make a first good impression... She said she would convince family members later that she is not comfortable wearing those clothes. And I do not think, Sanchi's clothes would be an issue to Singhs at all..So what was Anandi's problem?

Why should Jagya's new wife be Anandi's duplicate? Why cant she have her own individuality and identity? Who is Anandi to decide what will be right for Jagya and what will be not? No one can predict what is going to right for others and what will be wrong. Moreover, No one asked for her opinion.

Shiv was right in telling her that opposites do attract and that they might adjust with each other and become happy as a couple.

Anandi should stop being so concerned about Singhs... Forget sanchi-jagya's life, she should first find some purpose in her own meaningless life.


Dear if anandi will take care of her own business...then who will take care for BV's business???🤣 🤣

So better take a chill pill and go for yoga...because that is the only remedy for us ..."The Stupid viewers of the mahan serial Balika vadhu."
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think anandi is only thinking that if sanchi is married to jagya, she will make sure anandi's visits to BH will be reduced and anandi cannot live without visiting her ex husband and his family and poking into their issues as anandi has no other job to do. Looks like in Shekhars house Ira and CM cook, so even that job is not there for her to do ... So, she has to visit her ex husband and his wife ( if he ever gets married, all anandi's daya) and give gyaan to them how to lead a happy marriage life and also get a aarti from jagyas wife ... She knows sanchi will never do that...so anandi is totally worried now...Here anandi will definitely support Ganga as Ganga will definitely do her aarti...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post...yes Anandi always had a habit of interfering in other ppl's lives...What ever her objections are she should have spoken them earlier.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Anandi is daughter of Singh so she has every right to see that her family does not select wrong girl specially from a family they are already related to.
Everyone will face humilation with this rishta and it's not right ...but i agree with you why should Anandi interfere in Jagya's life? the strat of jagya's third marriage was worng so everythign got wrong
When Jagya asked her to choose a bride for her she should have asked him would it look right to the prospective bride if she is being selected by her would-be husband's ex-wife
I think Anandi is right to worry about this rishta because it can bring great troubles b/w Singhs and Shekhars and they will have to face embarassment through out their life...as a daughter of Singhs and bhabhi of Saanchi she is kind for worrying about this rishta...but i think her way is wrong in handling the situation...since Anandi has decided to interfere in this mater and risk her relation with Shekhars then it's better that instead of circling round and round she clearly tells them how immature their daughter is and it's not the right time for them to think about her marriage with anyone let alone Jagya...she should highlight the point that Jagya is not ready for marriage with anyone so whoever gets married to him has to have the patience to wait for him which Saanchi doesn't...Anandi should speak up everything whatever Saanchi did with her and Ganga...i mean if she is so desperate to break this rishta by risking herself in the trouble then why not nail the coffin completely...she is confusing Shekhars with her half truths and same words...i think after the truth is ouT at least Daddu and Alok will be pay attention to Anandi's words because they have already seen how rude Saanchi is with Anandi so they may believe her


it's time Anandi gets bold and hits the point and get off from the stage
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sheetsden

I am not supporting saanchi behavior and hate her. But does not like Singh family who want their bahu to have similar qualities like anandi. I like anandi a lot as a person but why show Ganga in the same way or compare her to anandi. Singhs should grow up and look beyond anandi. They should not expect a bahu who cooks, do tel maalish, wear only lehenga, stand and serve men etc. When they have become so broad minded accepting a weird rista and marrying off their bahu to another guy then why not adapt to modern ways of a city bred girl. Here it's not saanchi lifestyle but her expectation from life which is very different from jagya. I don't think jagya should mind saanchi not cooking, wearing western wear, going out with friends but her selfish nature and trying to rub her desires on him is the big issue. No one is showing the basic difference in the rista that is saanchi wanting to change jagya.

perfect words and superb thought...even i am disappointed how they have brought ganga as complete duplicate of anandi in her work also...if her behaviour would have been like anandi i wouldn't have minded much but her cooking anf her habit is very close to anandi which is irritatiing...singhs need to realizethat every person has individual personality so let's not make sure that everyone should be like anandi
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

anandi is minding her own business .she does not tell sanchi why will u not wear lehnga in badi haveli u have to wear this and even she does not complain about this neither to shekhar family nor singh .anandi just showing concern that too alone that can sanchi adjust in haveli for long time because of different upbringing ?and sanchi says woh apni baat manwa legi so for according to anandi it is not so easy as anandi know ds nature well .ds has change her nature but she will not comprise with sanchi dress .


anandi just show her worriness about this marriage but she herself do not go to stop this marriage and even she herself did not talk about this to shiv .when shiv ask her what is problem first she refuse but he force her then she told about marriage opinion and it is shiv mahi force her to talk about this family .and anandi also show disagreement to talk about this to family she says wont it be too late if i talk about this now as shagun happen but still shiv force her so no option left for anandi so she decided to talk .

when anandi lis..tened sanchi words she even say if i stop sanchi marriage then sanchi future will be in stake

I dont blame Shiv in this... If his wife moves around with a sad face all the time, he will obviously ask her what is wrong.

he tried to tell her not to worry, he also said opposites attract and that sanchi and jagya will be happy together.

But she tried to dominate over him... she convinced him that they are not made for each other, only then shiv told her to speak her fears with others in the family.

She is not worried about sanchi. All that she is worried is the relation between 2 families. she feels sanchi will cause unhappiness in singh family. It is wrong for anandi to predict what is going to happn in future.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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unfortunattely if Anandi shuts up she will land in trouble and if she does not shut up she will land in trouble.

Its the damn shekars who have put her in that place ..

She did say to Shiv like thousand times that Sanchi is not good with Jagya and vice versa. It won't work out between them.

And even now she was NOT interfering,..until Mahi suggested otherwise.

So she thought better late than never.

Why always Anandi? What is Jagya sahab doing? Where did his brain go? Why can't HE say NO?
We all know how stubborn he can be so why the silence now. Everyone thought that Jagya will say no and that is why they brought the rishtha in the first place ... even Anandi did not think that he would agree.
But out of this mahan sacrifice bug bite of his.. he wanted to do again .. another wrong step in his life which will again be a kala sayah for Anandi.

Now Anandi has to clean yet again one MORE mess of his. But thank fully as the articles say that better late than never , Jagya will finally realize that he likes ganga more and wants her in his life.

I guess he would not realize the worht of her until she is gone. and that is why this disgusting track was put in the first place.

Yet I say, the blame lies with the Shekars for not able to control their stupid daughter
then the singhs to not knowing whats good for their son
and finally jagya for not speaking up. Its HIS life... he has always taken the wrong decision and now by being silent he took yet another wrong decision.

... Anandi would not interfere if she thought sanchi was some x y z girl like that other girl's rishta that had come to jagya .. where ganga had foiled her plans. But Here .. its her life too. It will directly effect her.

IN fact she told everyone to stay out .. her father ... which clearly showed did not want to directly interfere.

Unfortunately for Anandi..no matter how hard she tries.. she is always left in a sticky position. karay tho mushkil na karay tho mushkil.

Mr. Shiv on the other hand... who is supposed to take side of Anandi and speak up .. andput his foot down is sitting on the corner like a wuss.
Seriously.. I am so pissed with the shekars .. especially shiv to have let this matter go bad ...
Now they have no other bakri so .. HELLO all famous PUNCHING bag.

Anandi the great.
THe always present Punching Bag for everyone. Koi nahi mila tho lets beat up Anandi.
Ira is doing it soon every other character will join.. including shiv.


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