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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ohh, the women. The women, the women, the women. It seems like they are at every nook and corner of that haweli just waiting to screw the living day lights out of the great shehanshah.

Is anyone else finding all these women a turn off? I know I certainly am. I am very modern but in this case ironically I am a traditional, not traditional as in I don't mind my husband having many wives, but traditional as in I believe in a one woman man. This is absurd. I can perhaps make my peace with one wife or maybe even two but come on...the hords of women on this show vying for the almighty's attention never stops.
It's too much.
Part of the reason I loved the movie so much was that I never actually had to see any of the other women. If I had, I think it would have tainted the Jodha-Akbar relationship. They made it seem as if it was only Jodha and Akbar...no one else. Since there were no other women, it allowed us to see just those two and explore their bond. I didn't have to think about Akbar sleeping with Ruqaiya or any of the other numerous women from his harem. That would ruin the romance. Afterall, how can a man sleep with so many women yet claim to eternally love just one.

I can understand sex okay. I get that men like sex and they love women, but come on man. How many women does he need?
I guess what I am trying to say is that all these women are tainting the Jodha-Akbar relationship even before it starts. Now I cannot honestly look at Akbar and Jodha and imagine a romance. Even if they fall in love...all the other women would make me dislike their relationship, their romance.

And yes I understand that in those times men had many wives for many reason...arranged marriages, political alliances, love marriages. Many. But I dont want to see Akbar with so other women when the tagline of the show is Jodha and Akbar. Ignorance is bliss afterall.
We watch a romance to lose ourselves in the fantasy. An unfulfilled desire, an unfulfilled need fueling the fantasy...but my fantasy does not include watching a man who already has many wives fall in love with a girl, and then watch how that girl will juggle her life with all the other wives.

Hey, call me a romantic, I don't mind. But a man with so many women...no no no...

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Now moving to a few other things.
Is it just me or Ruqaiya's acting is really off. And this isn't because she is one of Akbar's many women, but because I feel like she tries too hard to look smug that it doesn't come off on screen well.
And are all the women his wives? Or are some of them mistresses who belong in his harem? If so then are his wives and his mistresses allowed to mix and talk?
What was up with that selling booth thing today? I didn't know they were saleswomen as well as Akbar's women.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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they r just over showing harem, there is not nazima, nadira, pinash etc mentioned not any where. Akbar wedded jodhah at age 20 or so before that he had two wifes ruqayya n salima both were his cousins and Mughal princess
yes they had mistreses but they don't live like they r showing... only begums can mix like they r showing and every begum had her own quarters/house hold and staff
Edited by smile.sara - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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hey 😳 ...
1. i do agree with your post but we got 2 remember this is a daily show no 3 hours movie. I personally did not like RQ in the beginning but im starting to like her character now. I understand infact yday i myself ask why is Jalal not remembering Jodha. RQ n Jalal equation needs to be shown n so as other equation as well.. they are building up for future storyline...
2. As for the womans n all , i dunno how far cv gonna explore them... will it be too much or later on a just add on... Having to say tis is a historical show, even one dun feel it while watching 😆, so they need to cover most of the aspects... 😳
3. Having to say all this, yeah i dun like the Harem itself... 😆
4. n yeah it should be seperate place to stay for empress n the other lady but here its kind of messed up...😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I love your post.I agree with everything you have to say 1000%.
I know that kings had many wives in history but come on EK doesnt have to overplay it so much.I find those women cheap and disgusting trying to woo the Emperor so he sleeps with them.There is so much jealousy and competition of what seems like 1000 woman trying to attract one man is making them low and its looks so degrading.

''I guess what I am trying to say is that all these women are tainting the Jodha-Akbar relationship even before it starts. Now I cannot honestly look at Akbar and Jodha and imagine a romance. Even if they fall in love...all the other women would make me dislike their relationship, their romance. ''
You have spoken my mind👏
When i think of Jalal's polygamous relationships it makes me question myself whether i will be fully able to forget and love Akbar and Jodha.I keep telling myself this is Jalaluddin Muhammed and not Akbar(The transformation of Jalal).This harem and hungry lusted women are tainting the show already.EK has a cinematic liberty so she can toned down or cut down on those scenes.I mean history is history but according to the disclaimer several changes has been made to adapt to our era.
Who would want to see one man getting so many wives and even romances his best friend and then he finally falls in love??His heart has suddenly blossomed??
EK has said that this story is abt how Jodha's love change a Jalal(terror) into a benevolent king.How is Jodha going to change Jalal with love?
This series already has so many twists not following history so i dnt understand why EK has to overemphasised on that harem so much.
Edited by ameilia - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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the emphasis on the harem should have been done before jalal jodha meet ...atleast dat would have been easier to digest. Agreed ekta must want to show all the characters and background of jalal before he meets his love jodha. But after their meet jalal should have been smitten with jodha ...here the cvs are not even showing jalal remembering jodha.
ruquaiya jalal bond has been established but nw it seems dey r overdoing it ...and i am really interested to find out what happens to all dese women of the harem when dey will finally show jalal is changing...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Acutally, a Mughal King's harem in those days consisted not only his wives and concubines, but practically every woman in the family. A Harem typically means, a place where all the women related to the King and the Royal Family...be it his daughter, mother, step-mother, cousin, etc. etc. would all live in the same quarters. Ofcourse, everyone had their own space and their own unique position.
But according to the Harem in this show, all the women are simply wives and mistresses of Akbar.😕
I completely agree that by showing all the women in the Harem lusting after Akbar, they are not making him into some sort of an unattainable stud...rather they are destroying his character and his future romance with Jodha. Its one thing to be an Alpha Male, quite another to be a soul-destroying womanizer, who simply can't have enough women for himself!
The creatives should decide what they want to show...an authentic story about the Mughal King or a ficitonal historical romance! By mixing both, they are simply confusing their viewers! I can bet, that authentic is not something that Ekta started out for...so she should simply stick to the love story of Jodha and Akbar...and for that, she needs to cut out the focus on Akbar and the other women in his life, even if she doesn't show Akbar and Jodha together right now.
As the OP mentioned in her post, the beautiful thing about the film, Jodha Akbar, was that, while history was taken into account in the film, they did not show Akbar with any other woman...only his relationship with Jodha was explored, which is why it was so romantic and lovely!
Edited by poppy2009 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I fully agree with all of you. AkbarJodha romance has been tainted before it started...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I can only answer about the Selling booth part, because well, your opinions are your own. The marketplace, famously called Meena Bazar, was a very impirtant and progressive invention by Akbar, which allowed the women in the Mughal household to put up shops and mingle with other women. It was a marketplace by women, for women. And it was very interesting to see the marketplace included in the show. It was an indicator of the progressive vision of Akbar. And about the women, I don't mind as much because Ekta will definitely forget all about them after a while. She is incapable of dealing with too many people.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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The harem also includes MA and Akbar's mother, their dasis and all the female servants.. He definitely isn't sleeping with all of them😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Some of the parts in the posts are true. But u know this is real that Akbar had lots of mistress. And coming to the point of wives. Before jodha he had two wives. The movie shied no other woman becauz it was just a short summary of Akdhas lovestory. If they showed ruqaiya and Salima and other women the mOvie would have been really lOng and this one is a daily soap. So they are showing everything.

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