Calling on all Jai & Bani campers!

From the inception of Kasamh Se, we've seen that Jai and Bani has been each other's greatest strength but also each other's greatest weakness. Friday's episode conveyed the depth of their destruction. I'm not writing this post as a "Bani Camper" nor am I writing this post a "Jai Camper." I'm writing this post as a staunch Jai&Bani (J&B) camper. It's very disheartening and incredulous to see attitudes like "Bani can rot in hell" and/or "Jai can rot in hell." THEY ARE BOTH CURRENTLY ROTTING IN THEIR OWN INDIVIDUAL HELL. They have themselves delivered their life sentence to hell. From an audience perspective, if Bani's glory days were the times when she was independent and stood up with dignity and grace to an unrelenting Jai Walia and if Buddha's glory days were the times when his faith and trust in Bani (post Park Road and pregnancy) didn't falter, then arguably Bani's downfall was her handling of the property issue. But on the same note, can we all agree that Buddha's downfall is not the ONS itself but his actions and attitudes thereafter. It's insufficient to say that the "ONS didn't happen" and "he didn't do anything" and ultimately turn a blind eye to the events of the past three months. It's further insufficient to say that one's "imperfections" make one "perfect." That's a very subjective view but it's contradictory and ridiculous to state if one cannot accept one's "imperfections." State it with conviction and clarity but also accept with equal conviction and clarity the "imperfections" for what they are. Only then one can be respected for maintaining that one's imperfections make one perfect.

If one can attribute Jai Walia's downfall to the presence of the "Dixits" entering his life, then one can equally attribute Bani's downfall to the presence of Jai Walia entering her life. If Bani could have told Buddha about the property issue, then Buddha could have also told Bani about what he "believed" occurred with the Reptile. Let us not get into the issue of whether something happened between the Reptile and Buddha simply because HE has accepted and acknowledged that SOMETHING happened with his repeated "mera baccha" dialogues. We cannot turn a blind eye to the events during the property/pregnancy phase nor can we turn a blind eye to the events of the last three months.

We all are witness to Jai and Bani's individual state on Friday but yet we're still bashing them respectively. Why is that so????

My point in writing this post is to ask, why are we all on opposite sides of who is to be blamed more for the events that led to the destruction of Jai and Bani??? Are we all still not staunch Jai and Bani supporters??? Or are we only Jai supporters or Bani supporters respectively??? What happened to that common thread that has brought us all here???

I don't know about you all, but I started watching Kasamh Se because of Jai and Bani and will not hesitate to stop watching if the kreatives show us a cross marriage. If we don't maintain and preserve that common thread, we are only fueling the kreatives misguided notions that we would rather see Jai with someone else and Bani with someone else. Kreatives / Balaji (any inside person), if you all are reading this, you all better reserve and preserve Bani for Buddha and Buddha for Bani.

I for one will continue to keep the torch going hoping for a Jai and Bani reunion. Kasamh Se for me IS Jai and Bani. So count me in as a solid Jai and Bani camper more than anything else.

Same here Jai and Bani all the way I think they are the best couple and i still dont beleive that anything actually happened between Jai and Pia it was all one big set up.. but lets see what happens....

As I have always maintined Jai and Bani are Kasam Se TOGETHER not apart!!! The day of their marriage is the day I was totally hooked and have been a staunch JB camper!!!

If the destructives show cross marriages or even cross intimate relationships with Amma and someone else or Buddha and someone else then I QUIT KS!!!!

The magic and essence of KS is JB!!!

So please if anyone from Balaji reads this post reserve and preserve Amma for Buddha and vice versa!!!!
One without the other is UNACCEPTABLE!!!!

NINA

Originally posted by: shahni4

As I have always maintined Jai and Bani are Kasam Se TOGETHER not apart!!! The day of their marriage is the day I was totally hooked and have been a staunch JB camper!!!

If the destructives show cross marriages or even cross intimate relationships with Amma and someone else or Buddha and someone else then I QUIT KS!!!!

The magic and essence of KS is JB!!!

So please if anyone from Balaji reads this post reserve and preserve Amma for Buddha and vice versa!!!!
One without the other is UNACCEPTABLE!!!!

NINA

Nina,

Can I count on you to sign future petitions......😆

I agree with you all completely......I watch Kasamh se because I fell inlove with the Jai and Bani jodi and their initial simple story. I don't mind them being apart but they have to pine for each other and remain faithful.....I want to see them fall inlove all over again with each other....no cross marriages.

Nikita

I do agree completely. No matter whose fault it is that Jay & Bani are in current state our heart gors out for them. Beccause they are meant to be for each other & each other only.

So no Kasamh se for me if they seperate Jay & Bani permenantly i.e. if they show cross marraiges.

Very well said, Rani. At present they are both burning in their individual HELL. No sense in going about bashing them. What is done is done - it is all water under the bridge now.

They first need to undergo the process of personal healing before they can move towards each other and find each other again. It would indeed be good if all J & B campers stand together and help this process.

I am with you on the issue of no cross marraiges.

No JB = No KS.

KS without Jai and Bani will mean nothing. And if this pair is separated and gotten married to somebody else, well then KS is over for me and so is IF. For me, KS and IF are not mutually exclusive, they co-exist together. AT least for me.

I wont say that I have very high expectations from daily soaps and so I try not to react very badly. 😕 But then Kasamh Se is a different ball game altogether. I also started watcjing KS when JnB's magic hit the screen.

And yes I am also very distressed with 'May Bani rot in hell' and 'May Jai rot in hell' posts and their implications. All human beings are imperfect and we ahve to live with these imperfections. Dont we realise that they are already in their own living hells? Nut then I am not a pro, just an observer, so I actually feel or understand much less tahn many of my friends here.

I only know what sustains me and that the day JnB gets married to soembody else, prolly that will be teh death knell for me.

I am a total jai and Bani camper.. I too started watching the show religiously for their Pair and I hope the creatives will keep their marriage intact and eventually get them back together. They both love each other to death. The similarity between Jai and Bani is that both of them have lived for others and have been the caretakers of their respective families and I think they make such a perfect pair because they look out for each other and take care of each other without any ulterior motive. Bani needs someone to looks after her which Jai does try to do and simultaneously jai needs someone to look after him which Bani does. In that sense they fulfill the void in each others lives. I think despite everything I think they are soul mates and I hope they come together.