How can anyone support Jai or Pia?

Hey everyone, I have to ask... besides Jai being incredibly HOT... how can any of us (esp the women) support Jai.

1) I will admit that Jai only went to Pia because he thought that Bani wanted the divorce asap and he didn't think that they would reconcile. BUT, look at the other side. If he was hopless about getting back with Bani, couldn't he find anyone else... did he have to do "it" with his SALI (😆he gave the sayind... Sali Sali dusari Ghar Wali a whole new meaning😆) But seriously... for all us married women out there... we all fight with our husband's... it doesn't matter how good/bad of a husband we have... we all fight. Some fights are worse than others, but would you forgive your husband for having sex with your sister? Also, the divorce wasn't final... so no matter how you look at it.... it is CHEATING

2) Pia... well the only thing that I am going to say is.... how can anyone even think about sleeping with your JIJA JI... no matter how rich or good looking they are... and no matter if your sister is with him or not.... A sister's husband is OFF LIMIT's... hell, a friend's husband is off limits... anyone's husband should be off limits. Now, all you married women out there... how would you feel if your sister, who you love and care soooo much about slept with your husband?

3) After it happened and Bani and Jai "got back together"... they should have tried to tell Bani. Bani didn't do anything wrong. They should have been "adult" enuf to deal with their mistakes. But making a bigger fool out of your wife/sister just makes things worse. Bani has been supportive to both of them.

4) Bringing out the truth the way they did, was cruel and heartless. They made Bani feel like she is worthless....

I have so much to say... but I can't find a reason to support either Jai or Bani... and for everyone who does... please don't tke offense, but how would you feel if your husband / sister did that to you. (if you don't have a sister, just think of your best friend) I love my sister and my Jija Ji... and I wish them all the best in the world, and I couldn't imagine my Jija Ji in any other way... than as my Jija Ji.... as for my husband... I would cut off his "P$#%S" and hand it to him if he even thought about cheating on me....

I hope that the baby isn't Jai's and that Pia and Jai never really did anything, so we can continue working on getting Jai and Bani back together.... holy, Indian Serials need some happiness

i'm just gonna say this summarily purely because i have repeated myself so many times even I'm beginning to get bored of me!! 😆

I do not in any way, shape, or form support Pia - she betrayed her sister while completely in her senses, despite everything her sister has done for her. Post ONS she knew what Bani and Jai felt for each other voiced by both unequivocally, yet she continued her disgusting antics, wilfully trying to split them up. There is no justification for her behaviour.

As for Jai:

-He is human, not God. After they way Bani treated him and the final straw being the apparent and as yet unclarified abortion of his child and her pushing for a divorce, it is completely unsurprising that he break this way.

-Pia was the only one with him after his childs "abortion". He was sinking so deep and at a time when he felt he was totally alone in the world she told him she loved him and cared for him. He was also blind drunk and hardly in any fit state to string together any coherent thought!!

-Jai did try and tell Bani later, she was sleeping!! 😆 But i do agree he didnt try hard enough, which he should have. Having said that though, i can understand why he didnt do so - he was terrified of losing her and wasnt thinking of any long-term solutions. everything he did was an instantaneous reaction and short-term solution to stop her from being hurt.

-I havent watched the video, but as far as i know THEY didnt bring out the truth this way at all. Jai didnt even know Bani was anywhere near him!

I find it very easy to support JW (not so much cuz i love him 😳 !!! ) because i think is character is very realistic, human and identifiable, unlike any other in the show! 😛

cordelia,
way to go
i agree with u completely
that's why we love jai..even with his failings..he has a big heart besides being rich and handsome 😉 and ofcourse we musn't forget he didnt want to tell the truth to bani becoz he knew she would break down completely

I totally agree that Jai is not solely to be blamed. Consider him accepting Bani balindly even without knowing the whole truth. That speaks for his character. He is a coward though.

Originally posted by: optimist

I totally agree that Jai is not solely to be blamed. Consider him accepting Bani balindly even without knowing the whole truth. That speaks for his character. He is a coward though.

well said except for coward part...........I just will support him no matter what😉😉😉

Originally posted by: varun261969

cordelia,
way to go
i agree with u completely
that's why we love jai..even with his failings..he has a big heart besides being rich and handsome 😉 and ofcourse we musn't forget he didnt want to tell the truth to bani becoz he knew she would break down completely

thank you! 😉

Originally posted by: Cordelia

thank you! 😉

I Agreeeeeeee!!!!!