What more rasams left before and after Nikah..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Zoya was saying something about rasams loop holes I can say it is defiantly something linked up with next track or future rasam episodes..

I have never been to Nikah and don't the rituals in Muslims family..

Will there be haldi or not.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I also dont know
Before nikah i dont think so mehndi was done so the day after is nikah , so no other rasam before
But after nikah i dont know i think there is some rasams ( at least there is waliima )
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ilhamez

I also dont know
Before nikah i dont think so mehndi was done so the day after is nikah , so no other rasam before
But after nikah i dont know i think there is some rasams ( at least there is waliima )


Yeah Walima after the SR kind of reception...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes
I am muslim but not indian so rituals are not the same
i think Cvs are quiet creative when it Come to rasams
So dont worry they CAN invent some rasams by using their imagination 😆 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ilhamez

Yes
I am muslim but not indian so rituals are not the same
i think Cvs are quiet creative when it Come to rasams
So dont worry they CAN invent some rasams by using their imagination 😆 😆



Agree with you another Muslim on the forum said they don't know about the before marriage signing for marriage...

And also qazi comming and explains the Nikah...

But in general just want to know the rituals of Muslim Nikah...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes i dunno about signing and signing for what , to do nikah !!
Well here things are much easy
Anyway rituals changes from place to another
But what is common or what we at least we Apply
For us there is the day of writing marriage contract on "adul" is the person who make this contract either u go to him or u CAN call him in ur house and signed the contract (the bride and groom) and at least 2other ADULTS witness and the bride should take what we call it "mahr" from her groom its Like a gift but its neccesery for th marriage
And then mehndi nikah and the day after nikah its walima we call it in morroco breakfast so family of bride Come to see her friends neighbors also come and just make some wishes
Baas Thats it this is what common( but still in some places they are doing so much rituals )
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ilhamez

Yes i dunno about signing and signing for what , to do nikah !!
Well here things are much easy
Anyway rituals changes from place to another
But what is common or what we at least we Apply
For us there is the day of writing marriage contract on "adul" is the person who make this contract either u go to him or u CAN call him in ur house and signed the contract (the bride and groom) and at least 2other ADULTS witness and the bride should take what we call it "mahr" from her groom its Like a gift but its neccesery for th marriage
And then mehndi nikah and the day after nikah its walima we call it in morroco breakfast so family of bride Come to see her friends neighbors also come and just make some wishes
Baas Thats it this is what common( but still in some places they are doing so much rituals )



Thank you so there is mahr rasam...

Yeah I agree the shaddi from north to south itself is different..why not place to place of Nikah..

Thank you once again.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well a typical Pakistani Muslim wedding has 4-7 rasms:
1) Some people have dholki which is kind of like Sangeet. You can start dholkis a month before the wedding and do them every weekend. They're really fun!
2) There is a maayo ceremony in which you apply ubtan to the bride.
3) Bride's mehendi (Groom doesn't come)
4) Groom's mehendi (Bride doesn't come)
5) Nikaah (the actual signing of the papers and saying Qubool Hai)
6) Shaadi
7) Valima

All those jashns were foreign to me and the mehendi is usually split in two ceremonies... And bride are groom aren't together.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Jazzy-

Well a typical Pakistani Muslim wedding has 4-7 rasms:
1) Some people have dholki which is kind of like Sangeet. You can start dholkis a month before the wedding and do them every weekend. They're really fun!
2) There is a maayo ceremony in which you apply ubtan to the bride.
3) Bride's mehendi (Groom doesn't come)
4) Groom's mehendi (Bride doesn't come)
5) Nikaah (the actual signing of the papers and saying Qubool Hai)
6) Shaadi
7) Valima

All those jashns were foreign to me and the mehendi is usually split in two ceremonies... And bride are groom aren't together.



Thank you...

What is ubtan, is it like haldi..
Nikah and shaddi r different..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Venma




Thank you...

What is ubtan, is it like haldi..
Nikah and shaddi r different..


Yes, I'm pretty sure ubtan & haldi are the same things... Just different names in Hindi and Urdu.
As for Nikaah and Shaadi, in Muslim culture, only Nikaah is necessary. This is when the legal stuff (Mehr, witnesses, etc) takes place. Usually Nikaah is very religious and there is an Imaan who recites some stuff from the Quran. But that wouldn't be any fun, so there is Shaadi, which is completely bindaas.. Songs, dancing, photo sessions, and the whole nine yards.
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