USA Marriages - Page 7

Originally posted by: Singh23

i know many girls who get married later, in there mid 20's and i know guys who get married young. it all depends on the indiviual situation. my cousin got married he was 29 his wife 27.

well first of all thank you for proving my point. The guy was older and not the girl. I want you to tell me about a marriage where a girl has been older. and the marriage has been a success. question for you are all those girls you know from Canada, is even one from India? I think that in a majority of the cases, the guy is older and girls do get married pretty young, but there are a few, very few exceptions.

-Rimpy

Originally posted by: savie

r u ppl in any debate? 😕

kind of, neither one of us wants the other to win, though I did tell Singh, that he won but he wanted to continue the debate so here we are. Neither one of us is going to give up 😆

Originally posted by: Singh23

i'm not blaming the girls side, i'm just saying that its SOMETIMES the girls side insist in giving stuff, even when both sides are economically equal. the real culprit is the very institution of dowry.

there is no way to get rid of Dowry, heck it exists all over the world. Except in other part of the world the call dowry, a gifts/ presents. In India we are straight forward and just call it what it is. I think the real culprits are the people that make a big deal about dowry and try to out do each other and in the process ruin many lifes.

-Rimpy

Originally posted by: punjabi#1

well first of all thank you for proving my point. The guy was older and not the girl. I want you to tell me about a marriage where a girl has been older. and the marriage has been a success. question for you are all those girls you know from Canada, is even one from India? I think that in a majority of the cases, the guy is older and girls do get married pretty young, but there are a few, very few exceptions.

-Rimpy

there actually are many marriages where the wife is older, my cuzin for example. he got married two years ago when he was 24 years old and my bhabi was 26 at the time. there, an example of a couple where the girl is older. (btw they are both from canada)

Originally posted by: punjabi#1

well first of all thank you for proving my point. The guy was older and not the girl. I want you to tell me about a marriage where a girl has been older. and the marriage has been a success. question for you are all those girls you know from Canada, is even one from India? I think that in a majority of the cases, the guy is older and girls do get married pretty young, but there are a few, very few exceptions.

-Rimpy

my cousin from india married a girl from india, the girl was older by a few years, this was back in 1995. those two are happliy married today living in canada, they have 2 kids a boy and a girl. she is older then him by ATLEAST 5 years, perhaps more. i can ask them for you if you wanna know the exact difference😆. oh and what i meant by my cousin being 30 years and his wife being 27 years is that people are getting married at older ages. you said most girls get married in the early 20's, but i'd say its more like mid to late 20's.

Originally posted by: punjabi#1

kind of, neither one of us wants the other to win, though I did tell Singh, that he won but he wanted to continue the debate so here we are. Neither one of us is going to give up 😆

lol i'm only continueing cuz u are😆. you make points and i can't help but make counter points😆

Originally posted by: punjabi#1

there is no way to get rid of Dowry, heck it exists all over the world. Except in other part of the world the call dowry, a gifts/ presents. In India we are straight forward and just call it what it is. I think the real culprits are the people that make a big deal about dowry and try to out do each other and in the process ruin many lifes.

-Rimpy

gifts and dowry are different. dowry can mean that without it the marriage won't happen. the same not true for gifts. i agree that people who make dowry a big deal are a big problem.