if u r an atheist den why 2 blame god fr ur sufferings... - Page 3

Originally posted by: designersaini

in our culture groom n bride do dis puja.groom's family perform dis ritual when dere daughter-in-law comes to her sasuraal fr d 1st time after marriage.

Originally posted by: shwetha297

Seema, I do remember zaara now. If zaara was there in Indira's place in diwan house, shd would have definetely be happy and we could have got happy family.

Originally posted by: Heema22

Seema I totally agree with you, I have a same conflict like you do . If people do not believe in God then why they hold him responsible for your bad luck ? Why people use GOD for their convenience ? Why Indira thinks that " God did nothing good for her ? Indira always has negative outlook on things, Half emty glass mentality . She survived last stage BT , she walk away from burning Pyre and Walked to Pakistan . Saved by Kabir . found by Indu her own daughter , survived assacinstion attempt by

Zara ,mentally challenged cured by Husna song ( this is Gods miracle ) third degree burns disappeared , reunited with husband and family . And survived stab wound . She is really loved by her husband Is this bad luck or good luck ?? For me it's Damn good luck .

I think Indira is confused and doesnot know what she is . If you ask me. I would label her as agnostic .

Like Dia mention. Indira has been in temple Prayed took Prasad and Shidoor from Pandit .. She did Pooja for Indu when Sweta demanded so she is not atheist !!

I really donot understand why anyone needs to refused to participate in Pooja .? If you do not believe in it what's wrong if you participate to respect your elders. Or as social function as you said in your post. Why any one needs to be so rigid and lecture everyone on Usools ? Very complex character indeed . .. Its hard to comprehend .

. I agree with you, Indira has got such a loving husband ! She should laugh n enjoy her life with him instead of complaining that god has not done anything for her, it is a very twisted approach by the writers to show that even if rk has done everything n so much for Indira yet she is not fond of saying that n then to our horror some ppl are forever blaming rk for almost every wrong doing in indira's life😡 will he ever be appreciated by Indira n by some forum members? theTag line of hd should be written as ---oye rk! You have to keep on proving your love for Indira n go on n on n on ...no one can do anything to help you in that you have to do it man!- hmm but we still love rk's role he is the best ⭐️n he has never failed to entertain us⭐️

Originally posted by: durga786

. I agree with you, Indira has got such a loving husband ! She should laugh n enjoy her life with him instead of complaining that god has not done anything for her, it is a very twisted approach by the writers to show that even if rk has done everything n so much for Indira yet she is not fond of saying that n then to our horror some ppl are forever blaming rk for almost every wrong doing in indira's life😡 will he ever be appreciated by Indira n by some forum members? theTag line of hd should be written as ---oye rk! You have to keep on proving your love for Indira n go on n on n on ...no one can do anything to help you in that you have to do it man!- hmm but we still love rk's role he is the best ⭐️n he has never failed to entertain us⭐️

Originally posted by: -Paulomi-

@bold yes she did go but later on she only said that once I went to her and then she only gave me an 8 years of exile.

I just want to say that yes Indira doesn't believe God, but sometimes we do certain things I mean we have to do which we don't want but still we do for other's sake.I just want that if Indira doesn't want to hurt JD then at least for her happiness she can act only if she wants.

All the religious complexities of Indira as shown should be blamed on the PH because I think she doesn't write her scripts in the same way of the other characters don't and just like the unemployment issues for the males.

Originally posted by: Walden

Hi Paulomi,

@ bold- this is the part that I find very strange and confusing with Indira. Her belief in god seems to be very conditional- if "good things" had happened to her, then she would have continued to believe in god? And because she prayed and didn't get what she had hoped for, she stopped believing? This is not how faith works. Either you believe that there is an ultimate power that directs our life with a purpose or you believe that there is no such conscious power in the universe.

I agree with the rest of your comment. Indira forced Rishi to marry/enter into a relationship without his consent...all he's asking her to do is sit in a puja. I think she can do that much for the family's sake. And yes, the inconsistencies in ALL the characters are attributable to the writers.