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😊Tanya dear, so did I eventually, but i think we were both up too late !!😆 Very nice post. I comment a bit below in blue.
Naava dear , sorry I went to sleep last night .
I understand what you are trying to say but I was angry at the way this whole adoption thing was being dragged in so many threads and some really bad statements like ' Purvi is not her blood and Ovi is ' and what not ...I thought all that was plain nasty ...I also saw those comments and agree 200% that they are awful...simply awful. I too was very upset seeing someone believe that to be a good thing or the way it should be. Appalling.I also think that Archana will come around but she should be given some time ( in my opinion ) .Archana is in a very deep depression after hearing this and a part of her is dead ...she is almost like in mourning and needs time to get over this horrific truth that out of all the girls , it was her girl Purvi who ended up as the unwed mother ...I know she forgave Savita and Varsha but that did not happen immediately ..Savita was flogged in front of everyone by her son and Varsha too was slapped and for so many days Archaan did not forgive her ...only when Varsha had truly realized her mistake ..Yes she was terribly shocked and is in mourning and depressed and she does need some time. I agree. It's truly unfortunate that the girl Gauri had to be such a busybody. . . My reaction was to how Archu treated Purvi not how she feels about it. She has a right to feel all those things. But a daughter is so special and we as parents are obligated by God I believe to model the unconditional love for our children as He shows to us. For a parent to physically push a child in anger, to scream at them not to touch them, to tell them they are no longer their parent, is such an affront to God in my opinion, let alone to the child. Purvi will recover as will Archana, but that doesn't make it alright in the first place.I used to love Purvi's character but I have to admit that right now she has lost credibility in my eyes ...too many wrong decisions , just way too many ...the girl needs to get a control over her life and most important , she took a decision to have the child so now for God sake take good care of your daughter and stop neglecting her the way she is right now ...You are completely right, this is definitely inconsistent. Purvi isn't taking the care she ought to be taking of this precious little baby. The writers of this show have some very strange ideas about parenting & children it seems.As for Archana , of course she will come around ...we all know that .But on Monday , I want to see Archu going back to her home nd I want Manav to spoil her with a lot of love and affection ... that will definitely help after facing all this Ovi and Purvi fiasco that too coming out of coma of 2 long months . ...Yes, watching ARMAN spoiling and loving each other is what I want to see, always. It's their chemistry that is the glue of the show for me.Speaking of chemistry and jodis...Ekta, for whatever else she does crazily, usually does have a skill for discovering, casting, good jodis with wonderful chemistry. That's why it is such a mystery that she cast this girl Gauri opposite Soham. There is nothing about the two of them that should ever be together. I have never seen such a mismatched couple in my life. I really really hope Ekta realizes her mistake, and finds someone else for Soham. Gauri could be the match for Sachin since he is never on screen and only stares, so the two of them can together stare at the rest of the characters. 😕🤗
