Being... Mrs. Asad Ahmed Khan

Before you bash me...I am not saying Tanu is perfect for Asad... I totally think they are a misfit, but I want to say onething about Tanu that has been bothering me.Rather about all of us Tanu bashers. Several posts have suggested that being a divorcee and a one eyed, how can she aim of being Mrs. Asad Ahmed Khan... Or that Dilshaad will not even for once think of Tanveer as her choice... etc... This has been going on since Dilshaad chosing bride promo aired.

Well, if for one second we forget that Tanveer is the villian and that Asya love each other, then, I say WHY NOT? From her external behavior she is a good, cultured girl (we all know that is true, but let us keep it aside for a second) so is her physical disability or her divorcee status a reason why she cant dream of being a bahu of a reputed family? This exactly was what was used as an excuse to insult her in Imran's house also. My question is, all of us Zoya supporters, are we so backward that we still think a divorcee can't have a new life , with a reputable family or a hot hunk, just because she is a divorcee? Are we all not as judgemental as Asad himself? Should an otherwise good looking, cultured girl not dream of Asad as a life partner, because she has a physical disability? We know Tanu is lying, but for once, if we believe that she did have a terrible marriage, is , being a woman it her fault? And, if not, why should she pay a price...

As a woman, I found that very hurtful to be honest.

Sorry, I dont mean to hurt any Asya fan (I myself am one... ) but I just find insults on Tanu for being divorcee and physically disabled a bit disturbing.That she does not really deserve Asad due to her bad Karma and actions is another story. :)

Thoughts?

If she was good and pure as she portrays herself to be, then I see no problem as to why she cant get married into a reputable family or anyone that she chooses. I'm not from a place where divorcees getting married again are frowned upon. So I don't think like that.

Drea_QH1fan, Glad to hear that. I was just disturbed that so many people on this forum make fun of her being a divorcee or stone eyed... and that is what pained me. I dont support what Tanveer has done ever, and can never imagine her with Asad, but at the same time, being a woman, seeing derogatory comments about her divorcee status or her disability on this forum hurt me... I am glad you agree with me :)

Agree but most things are said that way because we know she is evil. If she was a positive character, i guess ppl would not be so harsh and mean.

everyone are bashing her because of cruel behavior, and being two face person. if she was nice and presenting herself just the way she showing to everyone then no one has problem with her disabilities.

Originally posted by: viya.mallik4eva

Agree but most things are said that way because we know she is evil. If she was a positive character, i guess ppl would not be so harsh and mean.

Yeah I agree. It is easy to lose sight of the actual problem (why we are bashing) in emotions, and use other (and perhaps not valid reasons to bash) crutches. Its like, whenever Zoya makes a mistake, Asad goes on to his day one judgment of her...

I just shared what I felt as I feel almost like a friend circle here, though we dont know anyone;s names or even know how we all look :)

Tanveer is not a divorcee , she is pregnant from her steamy affair with either Imran or someone else.
Why would Dilshad accept such a person for her son who covers her head but keeps open her legs for men before marriage? She is not victimized or divorced as she portrayed here and to top of off she is lier, selfish, murderer, fraud, cheat and what not.
In what way you think we should feel that she is eligible for eyeing Asad?

First of all tannu is not a divorcee, she is having an illegitimate child with god knows who although I'm not judging her on that. I'm judging her on the fact that she is a fake. I sympathize with her for he eye nd felt bad for her when razia said ki inn jaiso ko ghar par bahu bana kar rakh liya toh kotho par toh taala lag jayega. But she has no right to seperate such a beautiful couple nd has no right to kill some1. She is a kind of person who will go to ny extent for achieving her means nd for money too. She is a sadist.
i rest my case.

Originally posted by: trina2010

Tanveer is not a divorcee , she is pregnant from her steamy affair with either Imran or someone else.
Why would Dilshad accept such a person for her son who covers her head but keeps open her legs for men before marriage? She is not victimized or divorced as she portrayed here and to top of off she is lier, selfish, murderer, fraud, cheat and what not.
In what way you think we should feel that she is eligible for eyeing Asad?

Tanu good is a laugh. she thinks people are expendable. killing people, seperating father from his family (remember she switched recording for money), coning people who trust you, getting preggers without marriage and then trying to pass the baby as someone elses. she morally corrupt and yes if asad loved a woman like this no problem. but in real world for someone like asad it will be a problem to marry a pregnant divorce and black past.