Blood relations or heart relations!!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Ok now the time has come to crack all brains here!!😆

By thursdays epi I m just asking one question to myself tht do blood relations hold strong over heart relations..😕

A person who has not seen his real father frm the day he was born, a person who considered his no-biological father as his real father, a person to whom tht father loved more than his own children, a person whose this father gave evrything to him.. 👏

Tht person turns out to eradicate this father as his father now and talks as if he did favours by accepting him. 😡At one point,This person could not take anyone else than this father. This person went to an extent of realising not to accept any other individual than his father. 👏

And Then suddenly one day his bride comes and changes every scenario. She makes this person change drastically and suspect of his father. And he falls into her trap.😡

I pity this person who is none other than Dhruv😕 and tht father is no other person than Sumit.😭

Wht is ur take on this? Are blood relations imp or hearty relations imp? 😕

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Posted: 18 years ago
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it's very easy to say that heart relations last long n have a strong bonding..but i differ here..
for me blood relations come first..this sumit-dhruv track is an exception..but do u expect any1 else other than ur family to support u..very few lucky people have got true n good heart relations..
if i've to say something about su-dhruv..then i'll definately say that sumit is the sufferer n dhruv is very much like a puppet in antara;s hands
but if u look at this realistic world, i don't think heart relationships r superior to blood relations..
after all heart is very sensitive n make lots of wrong choices
from my experience i'll say that in ur bad times, only ur parents n siblings will stand by u..very rarely other relatives..no1 else come to ur rescue..n no matter how much u've done 4 them, no matter how much u've loved them or cared 4 them, as soon as there is something bad happening, they'll leave u..just like in the case of sumit n dhruv..
i know i'm the only 1 here who thinks this way 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i totall agree with resham -tam but one stupid antra has made these all 😡
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Posted: 18 years ago
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The track which is shown right now is very heart brokening. I really pity Sumit. From the beginning he had given everything to his family.But what he got in return.Even the son to whom he loved more than his own children, to whom he has given all the rights as his eldest son, just in one moment that son has forgotten the sacrifice made by this father. If Sumit had not accepted him, he would have been fatherless.Who is he to say that he had given the right to be his father,but Dhruv should be grateful, that Sumit had given all the love and affection and never given him the chance to realise that he not his son. But now without ,with the instigation of Antara, Dhruv had forgotten all the love, sacrifice made by this great father.I pity Dhruv for he is not fit to have a lovable father like Sumit. He got all love therefore he did not know what a fatherless child is what treatment is given to such a child.The track which is shown right now is very heart brokening. I really pity Sumit. From the beginning he had given everything to his family.But what he got in return.Even the son to whom he loved more than his own children, to whom he has given all the rights as his eldest son, just in one moment that son has forgotten the sacrifice made by this father. If Sumit had not accepted him, he would have been fatherless.Who is he to say that he had given the right to be his father,but Dhruv should be grateful, that Sumit had given all the love and affection and never given him the chance to realise that he not his son. But now without ,with the instigation of Antara, Dhruv had forgotten all the love, sacrifice made by this great father.I pity Dhruv for he is not fit to have a lovable father like Sumit. He got all love therefore he did not know what a fatherless child is what treatment is given to such a child.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i agree with resham & i feel so sorry for sumit as he gave dhruv more love than sharman & aashka & what's he's getting in return? i think it really happens in real life too i personally saw the same case where everything turned out exactlly the same as sumit dhruv but for me i think heart relations are more important then blood relations caz most of the times you even don't get that love from people you are realted to blood but you get it from people you are related from heart so my take on this is that whatever dhruv is doing with sumit is not right & he will get the lesson really soon hope so
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Posted: 18 years ago
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The track which is shown right now is very heart brokening. I really pity Sumit. From the beginning he had given everything to his family.But what he got in return.Even the son to whom he loved more than his own children, to whom he has given all the rights as his eldest son, just in one moment that son has forgotten the sacrifice made by this father. If Sumit had not accepted him, he would have been fatherless.Who is he to say that he had given the right to be his father,but Dhruv should be grateful, that Sumit had given all the love and affection and never given him the chance to realise that he not his son. But now without thinking ,with the instigation of Antara, Dhruv had forgotten all the love, sacrifice made by this great father.I pity Dhruv for he is not fit to have a lovable father like Sumit. He got all love therefore he did not know what a fatherless child is what treatment is given to such a child.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Thanks Resham for makin us crack our brains again 😆 😃...
okk about this issue, well here's what i think about it :

Blood Relations or Heart Relations - sounds a very difficult question with lots of feelings and morals attached to it.
Normally, in the society we live, blood relations are given more importance than heart relations. We are taught from childhood that whoever you share a blood relation with, is more important than all others.
But then why are we told to worship Yashoda as Lord Krishna's mother, she was not his biological mother.
The importance of a relation lies in not it's origin, but it's strength and the way it is shaped up.
I feel that if you love a person, you love a person, no truth or no fact can change your love for him, and if it does, then you do not love him.
In this case, I do not pity Sumit, I pity Dhruv because he is the one who has not realised Sumit's importance, his value, he himself is falling prey to Antara, he himself is letting her make him a puppet and very soon he will realise his wrong-doings and go back to his REAL father.


I still can't believe he is doin this to Sumit, in whose arms he has grown up, who taught him to walk & talk, who has given him all the rights of being the eldest son, and that too for someone who was dead even before he was born, whose face he has never seen in real.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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hi

great topic resham

i agree with your points resham and VI975

i am proud of sumit, for keeping heart relations first and blood relations last. No man could ever do what sumit has done. Dhr needs to be grateful to sumit, for giving him so mcuh depsite sumit not being his biological father. sumit had no need to love dhr, but he always did. sumit gave dhr his son's auda, whcih dhr failed to understand on thursday's epsidoe.

plus i feel dhr himslef hss nevrr really loved sumit as his own fatehr, no wonder when he found out about sumit wanting siya to marry dhr, dhr was not ready to sacrifice. dhr hismelf falied, not sumit

if sumit wnats something from sharamn, sharman will do it without any agar magar, but dhr wont. i guess he always has kept some bitterneess for sumit, in his heart for yrs now and yestreday he took it all out at once.

i guess its dhr's loss, bec we all know sumit has done hsi bit beautifully and no oen can doubt his love and affection towards dhr

for me heart relations matter the most

anyways if we look at it in one way dhr-sumit do have a blood relation too, dhr and su were real brothers, so they is a blood relation too between sumit-dhr

nice discussion keep it going

norzar


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Posted: 18 years ago
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Naureen,

Dhru su are nt real brothers, I think its typing mistake.

U meant ja and su...yes indeed!!

If u ask me and if I had to stick in kk story then yes dhruv shd be grateful tht su loved him more than his own children..

It was su who gave dhruv the shadow of father..and loved him selflessly. And I loved kk's approach too, the way she says tht she will nt let su hurt anymore even if it is done by her own son. She is a witness to all this.

I loved all ur answers, nids u r bang on target..go on..
norzar thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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hi

yup resham i mean jatin-su were real brotehrs,
by msiatke i wrote su-dhr

yup kk is defintely great, i love the way she sticks up for su and wont bare a singel word for him, afterall like you said she is the witness to all this.

dhr is pushing his luck.

norzar

Edited by norzar - 18 years ago

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