Liked what Chhanchhan said today

As I did not see a post on this yet, I wanted to bring it to focus.

Yes, loved it.

Me too! Luved d way she said v deserve equal respect! I m sure CC is going to fight for d rights of all d bahus post marriage!

I meant to make a post on that too ... I loved that dialogue!!! In India (and elsewhere too) this is a part and parcel of the whole 'boys are superior to girls' thinking ... the boy's family basically rides roughshod over the girl's family and treats them all like second class citizens ... especially at a wedding ... each and every arrangement is scrutinized and criticized, as though being from the boy's side entitles them automatically to royal treatment, regardless of their own status ... and the boy's family reserves the right to say anything to the girl's parents and family, while the girl's parents have to bear it, after all, the boy's parents are doing them the great favour of taking their daughter into their home ... 😕😡

We say in India that a marriage is a coming together of two families, not two individuals ... yet one family is treated as inferior to the other ... not only at the wedding but even afterwards ... if Chhanchhan stands up against this thinking, I will be very happy!!!! No girl should tolerate it if her family is insulted by her in-laws, nor should she be expected to!

Originally posted by: DiyaS

... if Chhanchhan stands up against this thinking, I will be very happy!!!! No girl should tolerate it if her family is insulted by her in-laws, nor should she be expected to!

Originally posted by: SanayaIsBest

Yes, loved it.

Great to see that CC will stand for right things, even if she has to stand against Manavs family.

Originally posted by: sushk123

Me too! Luved d way she said v deserve equal respect! I m sure CC is going to fight for d rights of all d bahus post marriage!

Originally posted by: DiyaS

I meant to make a post on that too ... I loved that dialogue!!! In India (and elsewhere too) this is a part and parcel of the whole 'boys are superior to girls' thinking ... the boy's family basically rides roughshod over the girl's family and treats them all like second class citizens ... especially at a wedding ... each and every arrangement is scrutinized and criticized, as though being from the boy's side entitles them automatically to royal treatment, regardless of their own status ... and the boy's family reserves the right to say anything to the girl's parents and family, while the girl's parents have to bear it, after all, the boy's parents are doing them the great favour of taking their daughter into their home ... 😕😡

We say in India that a marriage is a coming together of two families, not two individuals ... yet one family is treated as inferior to the other ... not only at the wedding but even afterwards ... if Chhanchhan stands up against this thinking, I will be very happy!!!! No girl should tolerate it if her family is insulted by her in-laws, nor should she be expected to!

Originally posted by: VancouverBC

Well said. I hope and expect Chhan Chhan to set things right in this Borasagar family. Any insult big or small should not be tolerated.

Go CC Go!!!

i love that so much 😊