Cvs! Stop demeaning women!

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Rupunzale

@Rupunzale

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

Cvs! Stop demeaning women ...stop this abusive cycle of insult...defamation...on Zoya. This is a vicious cycle where a man repeatedly and completely dominates a woman and slowly kills the essence of her existence.

Stop displaying this as love or as any form of feelings...this is not love but torture. Do you have any idea how many women in this world lives in a mentally and physically abusive relationship. Do you really think that a woman deserves this kind of behavior...do you expect a woman to prove her innocence day after day stripping herself of any kind of self respect just because she is in love. Anyways, a sensible woman would not fall for such regressive or abusive man. She owes it to her and to her parents and loved ones who have raised her...similarly Zoya owes respect and love to her and to her Appi and Jiju.

Accepting or forgiving any form of abuse is detrimental to a relationship...this kind of abuse never really gets better...it just gets worse and it's get unhealthy when the woman feels that it's her fault and waits for things to get better.

I hope you stop this charade of abuse.

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@enrique

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Posted: 12 years ago

Agree with u

Women's should be loved and nt treated like this

Plzzz show some positive thing s

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manisha1412

@manisha1412

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Posted: 12 years ago

i couldn't agree more with you!

i wonder how zoya is able to take it so far...
it has seriously got to stop~~

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Rupunzale

@Rupunzale

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: enrique
Agree with u

Women's should be loved and nt treated like this

Plzzz show some positive thing s

I don't think the writer has the capability to show something different...they are all bunch of sexist.

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Rupunzale

@Rupunzale

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: manisha1412
i couldn't agree more with you!

i wonder how zoya is able to take it so far...
it has seriously got to stop~~

she had some self respect at the beginning of the show but now they have stripped her of that completely.

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Nandini

@Nandini25

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Posted: 12 years ago

I cant agree wid u more

i wonder y exactly she lets him away with every insult he throws at her, every injustice she suffers at his hands. love sud be intense and forgiving, yes but does that mean it sud be this blind, hell no.

Its about time that Zoya sud teach him a lesson.

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Rupunzale

@Rupunzale

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: sweetshera
I cant agree wid u more
i wonder y exactly she lets him away with every insult he throws at her, every injustice she suffers at his hands. love sud be intense and forgiving, yes but does that mean it sud be this blind, hell no.
Its about time that Zoya sud teach him a lesson.

the writers have turned Zoya into a doormat...the problem is with the thought process of the society...it's sickening what they think of women.

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realitybites

@realitybites

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Posted: 12 years ago

The cycle of insult/humiliation of Zoya has been consistently repeated since the beginning. Asad has always been rude and mean towards her, always passing scathing remarks " aap badtameez hai"😕 ,worse- you dont deserve family, dont deserve MOTHER? ( horrifying). He comes across as a mean and heartless person!😡 He has always blamed her, rebuked her for any misgivings and then later on said sorry? does that really negate everything? What about the hurt? Is it nice that Zoya keeps feeling hurt and treated like a doormat and continue to yearn for Asad's affection? Can a real woman do that?

Its high time Zoya stood up for herself. Nikaah or no Nikaah-her self worth is more than that. CVs better put an end to such regressive behavior. Every person has right of self respect. NO one is allowed to take that away.

Misrepresentation and lack of regard for feelings of woman has always been the trademark of hindi serials and unfortunately women viewers lap it up🤢🤢.

A loveless or conspired marriage is taken as exciting and worth watching for?😲😡 A confession must lay the foundation of trust and integrity between the couple rather than compromise or deceit. Its time for people to respect Marriages and not use them a game.

. Whether people chose to ignore or be concerned, the Hindi serials have a huge impact on mindset/attitude. The hindi soaps are watched daily in millions of households and the fairy tale story told is accepted and believed, but harshly real life does not imitate soaps. You have put it rightly Asad-Zoya relationship is like Master-Slave, dont irk the master or hell hath no fury like the master scorned🤢🤢 Zoya goes timid the moment Asad growls🤢 I had stated in earlier posts- their relationship needs Trust and Respect more than anything and no theT MITWA's in any language does not assuage the pain.
CVs are ruining something they started out nicely, still they can mend the ways.

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Rupunzale

@Rupunzale

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: realitybites
The cycle of insult/humiliation of Zoya has been consistently repeated since the beginning. Asad has always been rude and mean towards her, always passing scathing remarks " aap badtameez hai"😕 ,worse- you dont deserve family, dont deserve MOTHER? ( horrifying). He comes across as a mean and heartless person!😡 He has always blamed her, rebuked her for any misgivings and then later on said sorry? does that really negate everything? What about the hurt? Is it nice that Zoya keeps feeling hurt and treated like a doormat and continue to yearn for Asad's affection? Can a real woman do that?

Its high time Zoya stood up for herself. Nikaah or no Nikaah-her self worth is more than that. CVs better put an end to such regressive behavior. Every person has right of self respect. NO one is allowed to take that away.

Misrepresentation and lack of regard for feelings of woman has always been the trademark of hindi serials and unfortunately women viewers lap it up🤢🤢.

A loveless or conspired marriage is taken as exciting and worth watching for?😲😡 A confession must lay the foundation of trust and integrity between the couple rather than compromise or deceit. Its time for people to respect Marriages and not use them a game.

. Whether people chose to ignore or be concerned, the Hindi serials have a huge impact on mindset/attitude. The hindi soaps are watched daily in millions of households and the fairy tale story told is accepted and believed, but harshly real life does not imitate soaps. You have put it rightly Asad-Zoya relationship is like Master-Slave, dont irk the master or hell hath no fury like the master scorned🤢🤢 Zoya goes timid the moment Asad growls🤢 I had stated in earlier posts- their relationship needs Trust and Respect more than anything and no theT MITWA's in any language does not assuage the pain.
CVs are ruining something they started out nicely, still they can mend the ways.

you have explained it so well...this is a vicious cycle and it's very difficult for any person and particularly a woman to get out of it. You know I might be the only one who still doesn't believe that Asad loved Zoya...I simply cannot fathom love without any trust...he is definitely not in love. I honestly cannot stand men like Asad. They are like a menace in a woman's life.

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Neha

@Neha_J

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Posted: 12 years ago

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The worst part is time and again this is what happens in Indian Serials and the viewer [mostly women] are the one's who enjoy it. Till now, I've alwaya given Asad benefit of doubt but there's a limit to it.

Tanveer is his childhood friend...he is concerned for her...acceptable enough but that does not give him the right to insult anybody be it his lady love or even a stranger as a matter of fact.

I don't understand what are the cv's trying to portray...Is this some kind of a master-slave relationship ?? Where the master keeps on ordering and the slave listens to every single thing without even uttering a word.

Asad claims to love her...what kind of a love is this where you don't even trust your partner a bit. Anything wrong happens, Zoya is to be blamed...If you think she is the reason for every wrong, just ask her to leave forever...

The cv's are not only ruining the whole plot but also the characters.

Asad who is so insensitive and Zoya who doesn't care about her self-respect just because the person accusing her time and again is the guy whom she loves.

Till now what I've seen and understood is that there's only one way through which cv's mend things and that is THE MITWA MOMENTS 😕.

If u see the stats Indian cinema/Tv has always been showing women as the sacrificial figure right from the whole concept of sati in the olden days to the present - domestic violence.

Hence...insult her as much as you want...say sorry...romantic eye lock...everything is settled for good.

It's a shame...People with such mindset need to change.

A real women would never accept anything that'll make her lose her self-respect or her dignity come what may...

At the end I would wanna put it as...

A woman is a delicate flower. If you water her, you'll get a smile and her redolence in return. And if you do not take care of her, and if you try to hurt her, it will get dispirited. Even you may taste her thorn, then!!!

P.S. Till now I've always reasoned his action, have given him benefit of doubt but there's a limit to everything.

Edited by neha2607 - 12 years ago