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Thanks a lot leelaa and alexrock 😊
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That was awesome Charu 👏
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I agree the seed of doubts r still thr in his mind and it can't be wiped off just like that overnight. That' why I was wishing them to stay away from each other till they decide on what they really want in life but let see what CVS have in mind 🤔
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I agree the seed of doubts r still thr in his mind and it can't be wiped off just like that overnight. That' why I was wishing them to stay away from each other till they decide on what they really want in life but let see what CVS have in mind 🤔


True, a temporary separation would have done both of them a world of good. I guess right now we will have to be satisfied with Madhu coming back to chawl. At least that spurred RK to confess his feelings.
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Thanks Oh_No_Soaps 😊

I did not mention RK's love for Madhu because I take it as a given that he loves her. His definition of love is very different from Madhu's but that doesn't mean it is not love. Every person has his or her own capacity of love.

I feel RK is very emotionally involved with Madhu. His attraction for Madhu is more emotional than physical. Yes he wants to own her but this possessiveness is a part of his basic nature. He wanted his mother to also be there only for him and took it as betrayal when she remarried.

He has Sultan on his mind because he sees him as a rival for Madhu's affections. I agree that he has a long way to go before becoming an ideal partner but the potential is very much there. The man who did not talk to his mother for 16 years is now quietly taking slaps from her after accepting her back wholeheartedly. Gives one hope of how he will be with Madhu after he accepts her too wholeheartedly.


As you have, I'm sure realised by now...this is where we disagree! No I don't believe that he loves her! I do however agree that each capacity to love is different. However, at the end of the day...loving somone as a POSSESSION is not defined as love. It is attachment and possessiveness of an object...rk objectifies here and that is not love. Nor is being emotionally involved. Being emotionally involved is Part of love but does not mean that any time someone is emotionally involved it is love...a bit like...all dogs are animals..but not all animals are dogs.

Agree possessiveness is par of his basic nature but again that has consistantly come out as...no one can hurt my madhu..not even herself. BUt I can do whatever I want to her, whenever I want...and if there is an audience then so much the better. Again that is not love..it s treating her like a an object.

I won't respond to how he responded to his mother remarrying because it involves more than his possessive nature.
But I will say..yes he did take that slap from radha...but why? The intention behind something is just as important as the deed don't you think? Vivan is a superb actor...couldn't you hear rk's mind whirring away??!!! The slap just didn't register properly...there was just an half hearted automatic response of...so you will take someone else's side against your rishoo

No rk doesn not have the capacity to love. Not from anything that has been shown thus far in the show. Even his 360 degree turn and public proclamation of his "love"...in less than 4 hours>?!!! People questioned madhu's and she took 7!

Winning is all that matters to rk. Lets see which one of us has read this right!
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Originally posted by: Oh_No_Soaps


As you have, I'm sure realised by now...this is where we disagree! No I don't believe that he loves her! I do however agree that each capacity to love is different. However, at the end of the day...loving somone as a POSSESSION is not defined as love. It is attachment and possessiveness of an object...rk objectifies here and that is not love. Nor is being emotionally involved. Being emotionally involved is Part of love but does not mean that any time someone is emotionally involved it is love...a bit like...all dogs are animals..but not all animals are dogs.

Agree possessiveness is par of his basic nature but again that has consistantly come out as...no one can hurt my madhu..not even herself. BUt I can do whatever I want to her, whenever I want...and if there is an audience then so much the better. Again that is not love..it s treating her like a an object.

I won't respond to how he responded to his mother remarrying because it involves more than his possessive nature.
But I will say..yes he did take that slap from radha...but why? The intention behind something is just as important as the deed don't you think? Vivan is a superb actor...couldn't you hear rk's mind whirring away??!!! The slap just didn't register properly...there was just an half hearted automatic response of...so you will take someone else's side against your rishoo

No rk doesn not have the capacity to love. Not from anything that has been shown thus far in the show. Even his 360 degree turn and public proclamation of his "love"...in less than 4 hours>?!!! People questioned madhu's and she took 7!

Winning is all that matters to rk. Lets see which one of us has read this right!


Love is too complex for us to discuss about and pass judgements on others. RK risked his life to save Madhu from Balraj (which is much bigger than giving somebody blood and walking barefoot to Siddhivinayak). He may have claimed later that it was a part of his revenge game but his trying to save Madhu even after being badly injured was not something planned but instinctive.

RK has a lot of bad in him. I hate his tendency of humiliating the women in his life publicly (especially Madhu and his mother). However, he will also lay down his life for the same women without a second thought when needed. That is another shade of love. The capacity is very much there, so is the potential to be a good husband. If only Madhu keeps patience, she will be able to extract the diamond from the coal - just like Radhaji had told Madhu at the very beginning.

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