Question: Would you fall for Asad in real life? - Page 12

Do not get influenced by shows in real life NOT AT ALL. It's a blunder!!

Anyhow, to answer your question, I think I may fall in love with a guy like Asad with the exception that he respects me. Moreover, you see I am not at all like Zoya, looking for troubles and falling into his arms for no reason and acting stupid most of the time and ... ohh the list goes on! There are times I act stupid (everyone has their crazy times! ) But not infront of an outsider (here an Asad-like guy), isn't it?

love your post- you know i was thinking about it...

would i fall for him? maybe. one the first go? no. eventually- yes...

see the guy you described was also vain (those guys- i've made them cry 😡. i take it as a personal challenge to bring them down a notch 🤬) ...asad is not!

Now on to the question at hand. Would I fall for Asad? Hmm I can't say yes or no. It depends on many factors. I guess I could say that it's not a definite no. But if the circumstances aren't right, it probably wouldn't happen.

I strongly believe in opposites attract. Which why I FELL IN LOVE with Qubool Hai in the first place. Their banter and their fighting is just too good. Me I'm an introvert like Asad, and I have a hard time expressing myself. Mostly because when I'm sad or angry I don't want to burden others with my problems. Which is also another reason why my heart goes out to Asad. He's been used to bottling up his emotions for so long that now he's at a loss for words. Even for the smallest things like admiting his feelings to HIMSELF. That's not to say that I'm not mischevious or that I don't have my clumsy and crazy moments. But that's only, again like Asad, with people that I am SUPER comfortable with. Like I've known them for at least a couple years. I used to not even hug a person until I had known them for a couple months LOL.

But I guess I'd be more attracted to someone who would get me further out of my shell. And while Asad is infuriating and would be interesting to bicker with, I think someone like Asad wouldn't necessarily be the kind of guy I'd be attracted to for myself. That being said, a guy who's like me and with whom I can relate is also attractive. So I guess it depends on what I'm looking for at that moment. Right now, though, I feel I wouldn't fall in love with him because I'd need someone who wasn't in their own shell, as I would love for that person to be the one to get me out of mine. I'm not saying I'm not already trying, I am. I've gotten better with interacting with people and being a little more open, emotions wise. But I'm still me, through and through, so I still keep many things bottled up, like Asad.

So if I'm true to my belief of opposites attract, I'd say I wouldn't end up falling in love with someone like him. 😊